A couple "How To"s from a forum Noobie =)

[Young'N'Lustful]

Firstly id just like to say hi to everyone at the boards. Ive been sort of a lurker in the past here but finally decided to start up an account and get some help.

I'm an 18 male from Atlanta GA. I'm currently dating a girl who I have completely fallen for and would like nothing better than to please her physically. The only catch is there is NO sex, and we have not moved past pleasing each other with our hands. This is both our choices for my own personal reasons. I'm wondering if there are any "tricks" out there when it comes to fingering my girl and fondling her breast (heh, im sure i sound very clueless but im out of ideas now and need help from some of you old wise folks =P). This is one of the first virgin girls ive dated and I feel like im going to hurt her when I try to enter her with my finger. I'm as gentle as possible and try to ask her every once in a while if im hurting her but it still doesnt seem to do the trick. Shes actually very stubborn and is hard to get wet, and even when I get that far she is hard to please (though she wont admit it, im no fool and can tell, damn u woman and your 300 buttons).

Anyway, I realize all girls are a little diff. but ANY tips you can give such as fairly easy ways to find the g'spot, or places to touch/focus on would help. I'm sorta clueless at the moment which has been a first in a long time.

Thanks in advance,
~J

 

[peachykeen]

I realize you are just looking for help and want to 'impress' your girl by being knowledgeable, but if you ask me (and ya kinda did) it's much sexier and more exciting for the two of you to just explore eachother, and find out from one another what works, what feels good, what doesn't, etc etc. Rather than having some sort of magic bag of tricks at your disposal to razzle-dazzle her with, the most important thing you can do for her is to be gentle, go slowly, let her set the pace, and make her feel comfortable communicating with you.

ps there is no 'fairly easy way' to find the g-spot, ya lazy bloodclot - you're going to have to work for it just like the rest of us