A Companion thread...

I don't need the Mudslide to get me into trouble. I do that well enough all on my own.

Good luck on getting the riding mower.

Good morning everyone and I am going to definitely need the coffee this morning.
 
Well, no chance of getting a riding mower today. It rained and will probably be raining again soon. Gawd, I hate it when I plan to do something on one day and something happens to ruin it!
 
No rain here as of yet but I am sure that we will get our fair share.

Sorry to hear that Hybrid.
 
Don't get me wrong, I enjoy watching movies, playing video games, and working on my book, but on rainy days, and every other day, I'm so freakin' bored! I need a change in life. Or a life, period. Problem is, I don't really know anybody nor do I know of places besides the stupid malls. Yes, malls are stupid. No change there either. Plus, too many kids there. Nobody my age worth hanging around anyhow.
 
I can fully understand and appreciate what you are saying Hybrid. Sounds like maybe you need to find some cause worth volunteering your time to.
 
Good evening everyone and welcome ohioguy69.

I am glad to meet you, do stay a while and join us whenever possible.
 
Missingmeds said:
I can fully understand and appreciate what you are saying Hybrid. Sounds like maybe you need to find some cause worth volunteering your time to.

Yeah, speaking of volunteering, I was at the main campus one afternoon walking around between classes when this guy at a Big Brothers, Big Sisters booth asked me if I had any thoughts to becoming a big brother. To be honest, I always thought that would be kind of fascinating to be a big brother to others who need companionship at that level, but like I told the guy, as much as I really would love to do that, I do not have the time and luxury at the moment to volunteer. I need to get my life in order first.

Maybe I'm sounding hypocritical or ironic or however you want to call it, but it's the truth. When I was younger and had my first part-time job. I got a little crazy with money. Sure, I was always responsible, but I let the money get to my head. So now, I'm paying off almost $1000 in credit card debt, another $1000 that I owe Dell, not for the computer, but for the memory upgrade, the motherboard I had to replace, and a few virus protection programs. I'm hoping to get everything paid off ASAP, while at the same time I'm really starting to manage my money. As long as I put (towards my goal of $1000 saved because that's how much I had BEFORE I ended up closing my savings account) in the $20 right now from every check and when I start working full-time, I increase the amount hopefully to $50 a check. I think my financial plans will work out for me.

As for time about myself, I'm trying to get into better shape. My dad passed away of a heart attack last year because of his health, even though he was doing a lot better then. So, I realized I need to exercise more, eat better, and drink more water because I too feel like I may end up dying of a heart attack. I also need to find ways to make myself feel more happier. Sure video games, books, writing, and movies make me happy because they're something I enjoy... it seems only temporary.
 
Hybrid in my honest opinion, the only way to find happiness is to be happy. That means being brutally honest with yourself about who and what you are to start with. Then working to change the parts of you that you don't like.

I have found that nothing in the material realm or even the medical realm can make one happy. That has to come from within. Doing the things that give one personal joy is a start, but one has to become "comfortable in their own skin" to find true happiness.
 
Good morning everyone.

The things you hear when you are on Lit late at night (or early in the morning) as the case may be. The people that you bump into. It never fails to amaze me who you can find to talk to on here sometimes.
 
I was talking to someone late last night, actually she is the wife of someone that used to post here.

There was a question between us that we couldn't answer. It was good to talk to her, and good for us both to know exactly where we each stand on certain things. I have never made it a secret that I do married men. She is the wife of the one of the men that I have done.

I am sort of hoping that he is reading here even if he isn't posting here anymore. Because I have something to say to him and this is the only way that I know he might possibility get the message that I am about to give him.

Sweets, I told you up front that I don't lie and that I wouldn't lie to cover anyone's ass, mine or yours. But the longer that you don't come clean with her, the worse it is getting. She knows, I answered all of her questions and then you just cinched it by the mails and pm's that you kept lying around for her find. She really isn't a stupid woman. She can't trust you because you won't tell her the WHOLE truth. So do yourself and her both a favor, come clean, all the way clean. Because if for no other reason, she deserves that.

Sorry for the interruption, and I now return you to your regular programming.
 
Here comes another one of those thought thingies that I do.

I hope it all come out the way that you wanted. I hope you got everything that you hoped for. I hope that it ended up the right way for once for you. But I really am going to wait and see if you can continue on the good red road for a while.

Because personally, I don't think that it will, I don't think that it did, and I am not holding my breath that you have or will either.

Okay back to your regularly scheduled programming now.
 
Ladies and gentlemen, now you know how it feels to guard the Gates of Hell... a woman scorned!!!

Sure, the interpretation is "She was raped." HOWEVER, in this case, I speak differentally. I speak that you are babbling away about things that your readers may be questioning, except those who do understand it, w/ a "What the hell is she talking about?"

As for the married men thing... I guess to each his own.
 
I totally missed what you are trying to say Hybrid.

It was just something that I felt needed to be said.

Anyway, good morning everyone.
 
Hello all. New here but I've been reading around some and thought I might mention something to Hybrid:

...I was at the main campus one afternoon walking around between classes when this guy at a Big Brothers, Big Sisters booth asked me if I had any thoughts to becoming a big brother. To be honest, I always thought that would be kind of fascinating to be a big brother to others who need companionship at that level, but like I told the guy, as much as I really would love to do that, I do not have the time and luxury at the moment to volunteer.
I ran into the same problem when I was in the Air Force. I wanted to do something to share my time, but BB/BS was a little too time consuming. (Not to mention that I traveled a lot.) So I started helping out with the Special Olympics. I was a "hugger". At the end of whatever race they're running, you just give them a hug and tell them what a great job that they did. My X-Wife and I used to do this at every base that I was stationed at. And it only took 2-3 hrs. on a Sat. or Sun.

Just something for you to think about, Hybrid. And I hope that I'm not intruding on anything.

-Niiteshade
 
No one intrudes here Niiteshade. That is what the thread is for. Talking, posting personal thoughts and so forth. Thank you for the post.
 
As did I, Queen Bee. ;)

Enjoyable, enlightening, and best of all........relaxing.

Thank You.

-Niiteshade
 
I have said it once and I will say it again. It is always a good thing when I can meet another litster face to face and have a nice conversation.
 
The waiting is starting to get to me. Will tomorrow morning hurry up and get here already.
 
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