A Blast From My Past

TheeGoatPig

There is no R in my name
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A blast? Or maybe more of a sucker punch...

Back in 2007 I went to Las Vegas for a couple poker tournaments that I won my way into. A few people that I know won their way into the same set of games, so we all had a blast hanging out in Vegas together. It was lots of fun.

After we got back, I hooked up with one of the women from our group (we will call her A), had sex for the first time since 1995, and then took her on a date a week later where I realized things just wouldn't work out well if I tried to continue things. In December a few of us went to Atlantic City for some other tournaments. A was supposed to be one of us but didn't come along. A week later it was Foxwoods with the same group, A still not included even thogh she was directly invited. A month after that and she wasn't talking to me at all, not even to say hello. She stops playing cards at the same places as me as well.

This weekend I was in Atlantic City for another tournament on Sunday afternoon. I drove down on Friday night and played a hell of a lot of poker at the Showboat casino preparing for the big game. On Saturday evening I suffered a big loss with K-K versus A-A, so I got up and left the table. I walked over to the Taj Mahal to see where the tournament would be held and get an idea of the lay of the land. Satisfied with my excursion I headed back to the Showboat to get into my car and head to my hotel outside of town. I almost stopped at a restroom, but decided against it. I was parked on the 4th level of the garage, but someone else in the elevator was on the 3rd floor, and I was just up the ramp so I decided to walk up to my car. It was here that I saw A driving up the ramp. She rolled down her window and said something I couldn't here over me saying "hello" and all of the other ambient noises. I found this strange, and called my sister to tell her about it while I was getting dinner and back at my hotel room.

After eating and watching some TV I drove back out to the casino. I passed where A had parked on my way up to the 6th floor that I was now parked on. I won $80 that round, and at around 1:00am I headed out to get some sleep. On the way to my car I walked passed all of the slot machines to see if A was around so that I could find out what she said in the garage. She wasn't there so I took the elevator up to the 5th floor to walk up the ramp to my car and see if hers was still there.

Sure enough her car was there, and so was A with some guy. And here is a transcript as close as I can get it:

A: "What are you still doing here?"
Me: "This is where I always come to play cards when I'm down here."
A: "What were you doing wandering around the parking garage earlier?"
Me: "I wasn't wandering. I was on my way to my car like I am now."
A: "Don't you have anything else to say to me?"
Me: "I don't know what else to say to you..."
A: "Well I'm alive still. You can see that, can't you?"
Me: "Yes. Good for you."
A: (cutting me off) "No it's not! It's not good for me."

I forget the next couple of interactions, but she introduced the guy she was with and explained that she was at a concert at the casino. I assume since she was alone when she got there that she met the guy there. I was worried at first that he was a new boyfriend that would try to kick my ass, but as things went on his smile grew wider as he enjoyed the drama playing out in front of him. I think I liked R. He seemed like a good guy.Anyway...

I walked up to my car wondering what had just happened. I think she was grabbing some overnight stuff to have fun with R. She wasn't there anymore when I got back the next morning. I feel like I should call her to see if she is ok, but I also feel like I shouldn't really be interacting with her anymore either. She is almost definitely unbalanced and needs help, but I don't think she would accept it if anyone offered.

My god what a mess...
 
That's just bizarre, Thee. The dialogue is so good that it should go into a work of fiction, ya know? Anyway, she sounds like a head-case (no disrespect intended, but there it is). I'd steer clear, buddy.
 
She is definitely a head case. But I still feel like I should have made sure she was ok. She seemed very frazzled when I left her with that guy. It's also a long drive home from our area (yeah, we bumped into each other three hours from home).
 
I'm a little curious. After your date when you realized that things wouldn't work out between the two of you... did you tell her that? Or did you just not see her or call her again?
 
I'm not sure exactly what I said, but I am fairly sure that I said things didn't appear to be working out. We also saw each other enough at poker nights for a couple of weeks, and I didn't ignore her, though I didn't make any more moves toward her. I probably could have been clearer at the time, I am fairly socially awkward with women, but I didn't lead her on either.

She also wanted to keep things quiet. I did my part until last summer, several months after she stopped talking to me, refused to show up anywhere I was, demanded I not be invited to other gatherings, and so on.
 
a woman scorned???

Sounds like it to me... Have to change his name to "TheeHeartBreakerGoatPigBiscottiBoy" or sumthin...

BTW THEE, you ever see that movie "Fatal Attraction"??? just curious... No? Hows about the Amy Fisher Story???
 
I've known it all along! Thee is a total heartbreaker and he just plays it low-key because he's so cool about it. This little episode in Atlantic City proves that the guy has something going on that got that gal all mixed up! Rawk on, Thee!!
 
Yeah. I broke her heart by having poor sex with a half flaccid dick, and didn't finish because my back gave out in the missionary position.

The only better performance I ever had was when I came prematurely the last time I fucked my first girlfriend back in 1995. :rolleyes:

*wonders why he talks so openly about himself sometimes*
 
Yeah. I broke her heart by having poor sex with a half flaccid dick, and didn't finish because my back gave out in the missionary position.

The only better performance I ever had was when I came prematurely the last time I fucked my first girlfriend back in 1995. :rolleyes:

*wonders why he talks so openly about himself sometimes*

LOL!!! You are such a charmer. :D
 
Hmmm. Was the sex bad because of what happened to you or something she did? Are you ashamed of what happened and that's why it wouldn't work out? I only ask because I was with a man before and things were progressing nicely. We finally hooked up and I gave him an amazing blow job and he came a lot. Then a bit later when we tried to have sex, he couldn't stay hard to keep the condom on. I never heard from him again. I didn't have a problem with it. I liked him. We had a lot in common but I guess he was mortified that he couldn't "perform". Just my 2 cents.
 
THee:
Did you ever think that she might have a change of mind or attitude. From my expierence, bad sex is better than none. (Oh I'm gon'a catch hell for this!)

But maybe she has changed? Maybe now she can keep you excited enough to finish her off?

Unless she is not all that exciting in the first instance?
 
She's a wack job, dude. An accident waiting to happen. Thank your lucky stars you got out when you did. Steer clear. Does she have your address and/or your phone number? :eek:
 
Hmmm. Was the sex bad because of what happened to you or something she did? Are you ashamed of what happened and that's why it wouldn't work out? I only ask because I was with a man before and things were progressing nicely. We finally hooked up and I gave him an amazing blow job and he came a lot. Then a bit later when we tried to have sex, he couldn't stay hard to keep the condom on. I never heard from him again. I didn't have a problem with it. I liked him. We had a lot in common but I guess he was mortified that he couldn't "perform". Just my 2 cents.

I was having blood pressure problems after flying back from Vegas. I was feeling dizzy every 30 to 60 minutes. It was very strange. I probably should have seen a doctor about it, but I didn't. I couldn't even stay hard when masturbating.

But my back also gave out when I climbed on top of her. We were only in missionary for about a minute or less when I had to stop from the pain. Then we tried doggy and I lost my erection completely.

This was also a case where quite a few of those four words not to say after sex deals were perfectly relevant. "Hello... Hello... Echo... Echo..." ;)

THee:
Did you ever think that she might have a change of mind or attitude. From my expierence, bad sex is better than none. (Oh I'm gon'a catch hell for this!)

But maybe she has changed? Maybe now she can keep you excited enough to finish her off?

Unless she is not all that exciting in the first instance?

Yes it is better to get bad sex than none sometimes. It was my first time in twelve years and it was still great even though it was the worst sex I ever had.

She's a wack job, dude. An accident waiting to happen. Thank your lucky stars you got out when you did. Steer clear. Does she have your address and/or your phone number? :eek:

Can't deny that either.

__

I just found out that she called someone else that we know after seeing me the first time. She was meeting someone at the show she was going to. But his name was F, not R, so I don't know what the hell was going on still. I sure do wish I knew.

And really, I don't want to get back together with her. I am concerned that she might have hurt herself in some way, if not physically than mentally or emotionally.
 
I was thinking baout her earlier this afternoon when I saw somene driving a similar car on the oppisite side of the highway. And I came to a conclusion.

she was acting like we were still in highschool. We were both in our 30s, she older than I, and having been in more relationships, and she was acting like we were still in highschool. I think she ais still batshit insane on the side, but she was also treating the situation like some kind of hallway romance that teenagers get involved in.

it took me so long to realize this because I was only ever in one teen relationship, but that was ecaxtly what I had with this woman. A highschool fling.

It was the part where I aremembered her ignorning me a few months later that made it all snap tofather.

fuck thats a lot of typos, im too tired to correct them thought, or shift...
 
Yeah. I broke her heart by having poor sex with a half flaccid dick, and didn't finish because my back gave out in the missionary position.

The only better performance I ever had was when I came prematurely the last time I fucked my first girlfriend back in 1995. :rolleyes:

*wonders why he talks so openly about himself sometimes*

It's a bit of a relief that you did.
Now I KNOW I'm not alone. . . . . . :eek:
 
Thee,
My two cents...
She's a nutter and if she's the type to harm herself over a fling then you'll only give her fuel for that fire if you see her again or call her. Do you need that mess in your life?

Of course, if you do... take a notebook along. As was previously posted, this could be the makings of a tasty story!

Thanks for your help with my story upload problem BTW.
 
Thee,
My two cents...
She's a nutter and if she's the type to harm herself over a fling then you'll only give her fuel for that fire if you see her again or call her. Do you need that mess in your life?

Of course, if you do... take a notebook along. As was previously posted, this could be the makings of a tasty story!

Thanks for your help with my story upload problem BTW.

Yeah, I gave up the notion of calling her within hours of posting this. The right time to have called would have been the next morning, which I of course didn't do (though I don't exactly know why).

Oh well, whatever.

I just wish I didn't think of her every time I saw a similar car drive by.
 
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