3rd party participant

[shasta1526]

i have been in a successful D/s relationship for many years, my Master has indicated that He would like to locate another Dom to turn me over to, so that he can observe that which he has nurtured. i will never question Him, but was hoping someone could explain why He might want to do this. What learning value would sharing me offer?

 

[catalina_francisco]

Without knowing more I can only offer it is often a demonstration of the slave/sub's willingness to not only submit, but to visibly show they realise their position and all it means as in being owned property and/or being able to fulfil his desires without question in relation to how you might feel about it personally. Given this though, it still needs careful preparation and handling to ensure the safety of the submissive on all levels, emotional, psychological, and physical.

Catalina

 

[Justina123]

Seeing someone else play with me has long been on a turn on for Sir. I know several Dominants who share this voyeur-type fetish. I don't think it is all that unusual and at play parties and public dungeons I have seen it often.

From your post, it sounds like your Dominant wishes to observe, so that means he will be there to ensure your safety and that the play stays within whatever limits he has negotiated with the participating Dominant.

My advice would be, this can be VERY erotic and a great deal of fun and an opportunity to experience something new!

Just MY perspective, of course...

justina

 

[MissTaken]

i have been in a successful D/s relationship for many years, my Master has indicated that He would like to locate another Dom to turn me over to, so that he can observe that which he has nurtured. i will never question Him, but was hoping someone could explain why He might want to do this. What learning value would sharing me offer?

His desires may have little to do wiith learning value or you, at all. It is possible that he is simply proud of that which he has nurtured and wants to share it and watch it. For some Dominants, D/s so taps into their creative energies, that they want to enjoy their "artwork" in variety of different mediums. Perhaps, watching is the next step for him.

Relax and enjoy it, knowing that it pleases your Master.

 

[D's mariposa]

Hi Shasta..

I think you hit part of it right on the head, (pardon the pun) when you said that he wanted to observe what he had nurtured and trained. Try thinking of him as an artist. Artist's creations belong in galleries so that they can be seen an admired. Or maybe a better idea would be to think of yourself as an instrument, and your relationship the symphony. That would make him the composer, and he is probably wanting to hear the music you make together.

Also, D (my Sir) did something similar to me, once. He had told me that he might lend me out sometimes, but he would never send me off with another Dom/me by ourselves. It scared me, especially since the Dom/mes that he feels he would trust enough to do this with are three of the scariest ones I know! But he pointed out that even if he lent me to someone I didn't like, I would be expected to perform to the best of my abilities because he asked me to. We belong to a small bdsm club, and at the party after my birthday a few years ago, he gave me a birthday spanking. Then he opened the floor, letting anyone who wanted have a go. It was the hardest thing he had asked me to do up until that point, especially since I knew a woman I particularly did not care for was there, and I know he gave her a shot. Also, I'm terminally shy; when there's lots of people at the parties I prefer to socialise and save the scening til we get home. This was a really lightweight scene, not really a scene at all (which is why some people got a chance that normally he says he would never lend me to.) but it meant a lot to him, because I did it, even though I wasn't really wild about the idea. So perhaps your Sir is going after the in submission that way.

(btw, I saw what you posted to Richard in his thread. Hope it works out for the three of you.)