30 Days of Kink [a half dozen at a time]

[Lizzie_Borden]

Saw this idea elsewhere, and yoinked it.

I'm not going to post the questions one at a time, because a lot of them are stuff that's been hashed to death before, but some of them are new and interesting, to me, others will be new and interesting to other folk, so I'll just post batches, and y'all can pick and choose what you'd like to answer, if any.



Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

Day 2: List your kinks.

Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?

Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks?

Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience? If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen.

Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

List my kinks.

Right now, I'm enjoying tinkering with edge play stuff. Breathplay, choking, needles, blades. It's rather a step away from bondage, and my old friend, thuddy pain, but I'm enjoying the way it's deepening the trust and intimacy between us, and exploring something very new to me. I'm squishing some considerable subfrenzy feelings at the moment.


Retrospective kinks.

The closest I've come to figuring anything like that out is that I've always been a people pleaser. I had a very bossy friend who'd dictate all the things we'd do when we visited each other's house, and I didn't mind that. well, sometimes i did, but I let her do it anyway.

The first hint that I might like things that hurt involved very, very hot baths as a teenager. I'd get in, by slow degrees, slowly sitting down as my skin tingled with pins and needles due to the heat.. and then as the rest of me got used to the temperature, I'd part my thighs, and let the hot water hit my vag. And it felt good.


First kinky sexual experience.

Involved some ben wah balls and Melbourne's main train station. We'd been planning to sneak into the disabled loo, but it was locked, so he found a quiet alcove, quickly bent me over, slipped a hand up my skirt and popped them into place. It felt shockingly deviant to be doing that in such a public place, and then walking around like that for hours... any time they moved, I'd remember, and my cheeks would burn red.


Weirdest fantasy.

Mr Rosco's grungy guys.

 

[KoPilot]

Taking these and turning them into size-fetish versions to post on another forum.. hope you don't mind!

1. I identify as pet/plaything/small, with a bit of the "Traditional Sub" inclinations thrown in, like service. Not into animal play at all, but I guess it would be like the relationship between a playful cat and her loving owner.

2. I like lots of stuff. Not so much into really painful things, but more things that reinforce the idea that I'm physically inferior, and again... a plaything~

3. Born and bred macro. I'm 99% sure that is the source of all my kinks and hangups. Also, when I started reading erotic fanfic as a young teen, I quickly lost interest in vanilla stories, so I turned to more non-con scenarios, and those held my attention for years.

4. Lots of stuff. Getting (harmlessly) tossed around like a ragdoll by my cousins as a wee lass, cartoons, roleplaying with my friends (usually with action figures).

5. S was pretty aggressive with me during my first sexual encounter. I fuckin' loved it.

6. My weirdest fantasy might have to be that one time I fancied the idea of being a cocktail garnish.

Hooray for excuses to talk about ourselves!

 

[BiBunny]

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

Switch is the easiest label, but "sadomasochistic little girl who needs a lot of give and take in her relationships" is the way I'm describing it nowadays.

Day 2: List your kinks.

Age play (me being the little one). Breast/nipple torture. Fisting. CBT/pussy torture. Punching and other rough body stuff (receiving). Verbal abuse (receiving). Strap on (giving). There are more, but these are the big ones.

Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?

I always had "weird" sexual fantasies. Right after I turned 18, I found Lit. (We didn't have Internet until then, LOL.) I didn't know what BDSM was, so I read some stories to see what it was. That was when I had a name for all the shit I like.

Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks?

I used to tie myself up and inflict pain on myself when I was *really* little. I was masturbating while doing it not too long after that.

Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience? If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen.

The first time I did anything other than purely PIV sex was when my first boyfriend wanted me to tie him up when I was 18. I did. It sucked. With a different boyfriend when I was 19, I expressed my interest in BDSM, and he tried, but he wasn't really into it. I was 22 before I had a kinky experience with someone who was as into it as I was.

Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy.

Currently, I want to spend days completely isolated from the outside world, being either tortured, humiliated, or ignored. I want to be broken completely and my captor's mercy for everything--food, drink, the bathroom, my own life. Then, once it's over, I want to be petted and treated like a good little princess.

There are various reasons why this one's not happening, but it's one that sticks with me and always resurfaces when I'm feeling low.

 

[neci]

Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.
i identify mostly as a masochistic submissive. i guess. it's just the way i like things. i like being told what to do. i like being hurt. i want to please. i want to have my limits pushed. i want to be used like a toy.

List your kinks.

i like bondage, breath play, choking, being hurt all over, sharp pain and thuddy pain. being spanked. pussy slapping, cum gobbling. orgasm control. forced orgasms. hypnosis. i don't know. there's a lot.

How did you discover you were kinky?

i just liked what i liked. i've just never found soft nice touches very arousing. sure, they are nice, but i've just always craved more.

Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks?

when i was 13, i was riding a church bus, sitting in my own seat. i had some pliers in my bag, and i started pinching my skin. i liked looking at the bruises they made. i also wanted to see how much squeezing i could take. the boy sitting across the isle from me stared at me and asked if i was okay. he honestly looked scared. i told him that i just wanted to see what it felt like. i was embarrassed, and i felt like i was weird.

What was your first kinky sexual experience? If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen.

um..... hehehe. solo or with someone else? yeah. i'm not going there right now.

Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy.

being gang raped on the senate floor.