3-way

[Guest]

i gave in to my b/f constant begging.4 a year now hes been asking me to do a ffm 3-some.well....it was grrrrreat,i really enjoyed it!but.....we had a deal,if i do this,we have to do a mmf also.he agreed,but now hes dragging his feet!there is this bi-guy at work and he want to do it.(hes a real babe).i want to see my b/f suck his cock!my heart beats faster just thinking about it.are there any women in here that have been in this situation??any ideas?

 

[HarlemBlade]

I think you two probably should have discussed things a bit more before the first threesome.

 

[Kadee]

hello there unregistered...

It's only a matter of time before he'll be begging for the girl/girl action again. To make it a little more comfortable for him you might want to try a f/f/m/m...sounds like fun...

 

[SexyChele]

I agree with HarlemBlade. A little more discussion to begin with to find out if he was truly into a MMF or just saying that to see a little girl on girl action.

Whatever happens, I wouldn't give into another FFM until he holds up his part of the deal.

After all, fair's fair!

 

[honeyb]

dont give in agian babe.....i would shut him off(big time)until he complies.a deals a deal,no matter how long u talked about it!how can u trust a man that doesnt keep his word?hold him 2 it...literally!!and by the way,i would love 2 see that...huge fantasy of mine.

 

[Guest]

Shut it down completely until he gives in.. no sex, not even any touching. If you feel the urge, masturbate or do another person.. don't give him a thing until he does the MMF. A deal's a deal, you can't trust him if he doesn't do this.

 

[The Dipsomaniac]

remind me to never cross (or lie to, to get my own way to you women!!!) LOL!!!

 

[secretluv]

Why don't you try a mmf combo but with a guy that isn't bi. Maybe your boyfriend is intimidated by the bi thing. Alot of guys I know get really turned on by the thoughts of a being with 2 females but become totally homophobic about another guy being in bed with them.

Its just a thought. Good luck hun and let us know what happens.

 

[J.B.]

dont give in agian babe.....i would shut him off(big time)until he complies.a deals a deal,no matter how long u talked about it!how can u trust a man that doesnt keep his word?hold him 2 it...literally!!and by the way,i would love 2 see that...huge fantasy of mine.

I second this sugestion..

 

[bluelight]

I agree you should have asked him if he will cross the fence.

I have had many 3somes with my X but in every case there was NO male to male contact. As I would never make her please a woman which she did once but never really enjoyed it But I would never do anything to a guy.

 

[CarolineOh]

Why don't you try a mmf combo but with a guy that isn't bi.

Aw, that takes half the fun out of it.

 

[petrel]

i agree with both views - his issue will probably be homophobia and that is something you need to talk about (even if he didn't aask you about girl on girl action) however he agreed to this and he should stick to that. Offer him the chance to explore how he feels about it - maybe he is just worried that you will find the other guy more attractive - in which case you either reassure him (if you think he's worth it) or you live with not getting what you are craving.

men can be funny about mmf threesomes they seem to get jealous and feel threatened more easily;
if you really enjoyed the mff expereince maybe you should move out of this relationship and spend some time definng yourself as bi-sexual?

 

[xx_La_Reina_xx]

I have to agree...

I think you two probably should have discussed things a bit more before the first threesome.

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I think you need to really sit and talk about what you and your partner's feelings are in this situation. Experimentation in a relationship can be wild and fun, but keep in mind that the focus should be on what will excite you both and bring you closer together as a couple. If your relationship is going to be strained, chances are it is not really worth it.



*smile* Reina

 

[The Dipsomaniac]

get him really pissed and do it anyway!!!

 

[simpleman]

Iknow how you feel I been tring to get my wife to do a m/m/f but she is afraid to !

 

[NoRegrets]

Talk!

dont give in agian babe.....i would shut him off(big time)until he complies.

This really makes sense and seems fair but if this is an LTR worth keeping, perhaps exploration and talking would be more productive than taking punitive action.

I am not a homophobe and never promised the S/O and MMF but it would be difficult for me. I am actually a little embarrassed that I am not comfortable experiencing this joy. Perhaps he really planned to reciprocate but just doesn’t feel comfortable. I look forward to hearing how things get worked out, good luck.

 

[secretluv]

Iknow how you feel I been tring to get my wife to do a m/m/f but she is afraid to !

I hope your wife realizes what a lucky lady she is that you would share her with another man. I could only wish to find a man like that! You are a gem hun!

Hugs,

Secretluv

 

[voyergirl]

3somes

boy all this MMF talk has me thinking, my husband told me a while ago that he would do this. i think i should bring this thought back up. (hehe) i have done the FFM thing and didn't get as much out of it as i had expected but don't let that sway anyone from trying it. it was GREAT fun jut not something i'd do all the time. i think i am to into men. although seeing two men going at it looks great in my fantasies although i don't think i could talk my hubby into actual contact with the other male but who knows maybe someday? we are young!!!!!!

as for the Q at hand i'd also hold out if you REALLY wanted to experiance the MMF. and good luck!!!!!!!!!!!