21st Sexual Present

[Pooki]

Hi everyone,

It's my boyfriend's 21st birthday soon and, as well as his 'normal' gifts i.e. the stuff his mum will see (!), I want to surprise him sexually. Last year he got me dressed in basque, black stockings, heels, the works; so, I would prefer the experience to be less clothing-based (no pun intended!) this time.

What have the ladies in here done for surprises or what have the gentlemen received/would have wanted to receive at 21?

Thanks for any suggestions,
x

 

[impulsive93]

does your boyfriend have any fantasies that you two have discussed about and haven't been fulfilled?

a stripper is always a good present for a 21st birthday. perhaps you can hire one to teach you some moves and the two of you can give him a good show.

hope it helps.

 

[cd1_christine]

That depends...

Without knowing what you've done so far, or what you consider run of the mill, it's hard to say what will surprise him.

I could say let him take your ass. It might be something you've never done, or it could be something you do every weekend.

My personal preference would be, take him out to a movie, wearing a button up dress with nothing underneath. Make sure it's a movie that's been running a while, and isn't so popular anymore. Get a seat in the back row, and when it gets dark for the movie, get your tits out, let him suck them a little, then give him a good hand/blowjob.
If the movie's too crowded, just feel him up a lot, have him do the same to you, and make sure he's horny, then when the movie finishes, take him out to a nearby park, find a secluded spot, and do it there instead.

 

[Pooki]

His ultimate fantasy would be taking my arse; however, I'm just not into that. I don't mind a finger but even thinking about anything more than that makes my clench my bum cheeks together!

Did the stripper thing last year - in a strip club, bought him a dance, he freaked out - either because I was there, but then again, he's very monogamous.

Loving the movie idea though!

In terms of what we've done already - a brief sexual history: -

He was my first and vice versa - he waited 2 years (of dating) before we had sex.
We performed oral and mutual masturbation etc within a few months of dating though.
We're pretty open and confident with our bodies.
He definitely likes the dressing up thing - but we've done it too many times for it to still be something surprising.
Experiment with food in the bedroom - during sex, that is, not just pigging out! [Well, at least not all the time]
Pretty adventurous when it comes to positions.

I was debating giving him a lapdance but think I'll just feel nuts and rather self-conscious.

 

[NippleMuncher]

His ultimate fantasy would be taking my arse; however, I'm just not into that. I don't mind a finger but even thinking about anything more than that makes my clench my bum cheeks together!

There are all kinds of threads on the "how to" of this. It really isn't a traumatic thing to do, there are just some extremely important rules in doing it. Not trying to sway you in any direction, only saying that it can be enjoyable for both of you, even if only a "special occasion" thing done periodically.

How about shaving or waxing your pubes? A great number of guys like this sort of thing and find it extremely erotic. Again, lot's of "how to" threads on the topic for best results.

Adventurous? Are you into outdoor or public sex? Maybe something less public would be to take him while at your/his parents house - secret rendezvous, hidden corner type thing.

 

[Chicklet]

I don't know how much you're willing to spend or if this isn't adventurous enough, but what about getting a fancy hotel room for the night? Preferably one with a jacuzzi?

Your location says NYC & London - If he's an American boy, there would be drinking involved with his 21st. But I'm doubting that'll be a big deal What about a lovely champagne blowjob?

Maybe he'd be up for having *himself* dressed up for this birthday... Maybe you should buy him some sexy clothes and put them on him, then take them off yourself.

Is he into any sort of kink? Maybe you could bring some silk scarves into the bedroom, tie him loosely to the bed, and give him the full treatment while he was helpless to do anything back.

Blindfolds are extremely fun, and great for surprises and presents.

 

[wehstar]

Porn?

 

[dud007]

Hi everyone,

It's my boyfriend's 21st birthday soon and, as well as his 'normal' gifts i.e. the stuff his mum will see (!), I want to surprise him sexually. Last year he got me dressed in basque, black stockings, heels, the works; so, I would prefer the experience to be less clothing-based (no pun intended!) this time.

What have the ladies in here done for surprises or what have the gentlemen received/would have wanted to receive at 21?

Thanks for any suggestions,
x

if his into the clothing thing, work on that.

Remote Control Butterfly

start with one of them, get dressed to the nines (don't know any guy that doesn't love it when his SO dresses up for him) and head out for the night, let have a glimpse of whats on underneath and hand him the remote control sometime during the night, with out saying what its for, let him play and find out. A club is good since theres lots of background noise.

my 2 cents.

 

[MNGuy]

A threesome, duh.

 

[sirloy]

If he would really like to do your arse and you want to do something that special for him get some toys to practice with but don't forget the lube That way you can control things the first few times and It will soon be comfortable for you.

S