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[Heena34]

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[SirSparky]

Not a true submissive. She is just looking to role play and uses pictures she found on Lit to send as her own.
Beware

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Not a true submissive. She is just looking to role play and uses pictures she found on Lit to send as her own.
Beware

Sending pics of others and claiming they are their own is despicable. But also, “true submissive” is a dangerous phrase. There is not one right way to BDSM as long as both/all parties are informed and consenting. Role play can definitely be “real” BDSM. Not being compatible doesn’t mean one is not a “real” PYL or pyl.

Not meaning to admonish you, @SirSparky. Just wanting to caution really anyone reading this against the words “true” or “real” as adjectives for BDSM.

 

[SirSparky]

Sending pics of others and claiming they are their own is despicable. But also, “true submissive” is a dangerous phrase. There is not one right way to BDSM as long as both/all parties are informed and consenting. Role play can definitely be “real” BDSM. Not being compatible doesn’t mean one is not a “real” PYL or pyl.

Ok maybe my turn of phrase was wrong. What i meant was, we had discussed what we were looking for, no mention of role play. She wanted to submit and for me to give her tasks. I explained certain rules of what I wanted and she went along with it. But she changed when we got into it and just wanted me to talk dirty to her while sending me pics of others pretending to be hers.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Ok maybe my turn of phrase was wrong. What i meant was, we had discussed what we were looking for, no mention of role play. She wanted to submit and for me to give her tasks. I explained certain rules of what I wanted and she went along with it. But she changed when we got into it and just wanted me to talk dirty to her while sending me pics of others pretending to be hers.

And then she reported your post in the thread, lol.

 

[SirSparky]

And then she reported your post in the thread, lol.

She was obviously upset that I called her out lol