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[AsheCollins]

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[OldGoodPup]

I guess there are two parts to your question...
Are there other use cases (scenarios) for panty wearing beside the 4 you mention. I can think of one: my Miss will make me wear panties as part of her SPH of me in front of her friends. She particularly likes the way my tip can be trapped at the top (pointing to my belly) exposing my balls tight in the panty below. So that might be part of some people's play.

The second part is how you react to <anything> your partner does that was previously unknown to you. My take would be to accentuate anything that would bring my partner pleasure.

 

[OldGoodPup]

Right, but you're being directed to wear the panties. I'd imagine there may have been some surprise the first time, but it was likely you who were surprised. A woman returning home and finding her partner in her panties seems like something that many women would be very shocked to discover unless she may have suspicions, and even in that situation it feels like the outcome could have a wide range of options. I'm sure I've read threads here where the guy has explained that his partner is aware, but I just can't help thinking that split second wen both people stare at each over, and realize their relationship may have just taken an unexpected turn.

Yes, I agree. My point is just that the unexpected turn needn't, necessarily, be for the worse. Could open a new door.

 

[Surferdude1891]

I can honestly say that I wouldn’t wear them. But have cum in them

 

[herpanties75]

The recent thread that discusses what guys do when their wives leave the house resulted in a number of men revealing that they put on their wives panties, or possibly their own panties. I'm really intrigued by this, and began to wonder how many men have been discovered by their wives, or girlfriends their their panties on, or some other piece of their clothing.

I've read some stories with this theme, and it typically goes something like:

1. Guy waits till it's safe, then puts on sexy lingerie.
2. Guy gets caught when his wife, or girlfriend return unexpectedly.
3. Wife is furious, and as punishment further feminizes the guy.
4. Wife goes on to fuck 'real men' or ultimately has the husband service other men.

But I can imagine things don't always work out like that. Have you ever discovered your man in your panties? What happened as a result? Has it ever actually ended a relationship? Did you embrace it? Did you put up with it, but not participate?

My guy would look ridiculous in panties, but in the extremely remote possibility that I ever came home and found him masturbating while wearing anything of mine, I can't honestly say how I would respond.

How would you react if you come home and found him masturbating watch some porn like tranny or gay?

 

[easyoff]

I discovered my husband in my panties a few years ago. He said he’d just put them on to see what it felt like.

I found it such a turn on, that we had the best sex we’d had in years.

I love it when he occasionally wears some of his own now

Perfect time for a bi MMF threesome

 

[enbiji]

Let's just face it, men are fascinated with women's panties.

I just play into it. When I'm with a guy, I'll let him play around with my undies. Try them on. FUCK me in them.

Hot tip...if you wear crotchless panties for him...let HIM put them on, the cock pops out in just the right place.

Even VERY macho guys seem to enjoy slipping into panties sometimes. I guess my point is, it doesn't have to be a deep dark secret.

 

[DennisB]

Let's just face it, men are fascinated with women's panties.

I just play into it. When I'm with a guy, I'll let him play around with my undies. Try them on. FUCK me in them.

Hot tip...if you wear crotchless panties for him...let HIM put them on, the cock pops out in just the right place.

Even VERY macho guys seem to enjoy slipping into panties sometimes. I guess my point is, it doesn't have to be a deep dark secret.

Well I am an alpha. I have no desires to wear your panties. Now, seeing YOU in them, yes! Removing them from you, yes! Will I perhaps…kinda inhale your scent after I remove them….maybe.

But put them on and parade around for you….no.

Now before I get bombarded with comments from guys stating that I am judging them, stop! What you do in the privacy of your bedroom is none of my business. What you do is your business and I wish you well! I have my own kinks. But to wear women’s underwear, no.

 

[enbiji]

It really does seem like men are definitely interested.

I wonder if it's because there are so few options for men's 'underthings' that fall into the sexy category. Personally, I think those thong-looking things that male strippers often wear look ridiculous, and that opinion is likely associated with my similar opinion of male strippers.

But maybe if there were options for guys, they'd be less interested in our panties.

Or not.

Maybe. I kinda doubt it. I think they have a fascination with WOMEN'S underthings.

I believe (I could be wrong) that if I bought a manthong for a guy, he'd toss it into his closet and forget about it ..yet he'd dig through my dirty laundry to retrieve my plainest, most boring bikini panties.

 

[DennisB]

Maybe. I kinda doubt it. I think they have a fascination with WOMEN'S underthings.

I believe (I could be wrong) that if I bought a manthong for a guy, he'd toss it into his closet and forget about it ..yet he'd dig through my dirty laundry to retrieve my plainest, most boring bikini panties.

He may dig into your laundry hamper to retrieve your “boring bikini panties but NOT to wear them!

 

[enbiji]

He may dig into your laundry hamper to retrieve your “boring bikini panties but NOT to wear them!

Truth

 

[onefourall]

My wife came home and found my new panties on my bed, she was shocked but refused to talk about it. She knows I have a thing for panties but is not willing to discuss it. My wish is that someday she might give me panties as a gift, not sure it will ever happen.

 

[dkak001]

I'm going to say this, and just risk the fallout, but I really do believe that I would lose respect for my guy if he wanted to wear my lingerie. But I'm going to add a few qualifiers, and maybe it will make more sense.
I'm attracted to confident, masculine men. I like guys that really take care of their bodies and have a reliable 'let's get after it!' mindset. I can't remember a time when this wasn't the formula for me to be very attracted to a guy. I want their public personality to follow them into the bedroom, if anything, they can kick it up a notch without any complaints from me.

So, in that context, I would be disappointed to hear that he wants to wear my panties, or anything that (in my mind) reduces his masculinity. Again, I can only speak for myself, and what I like. If any guy reads this and happens to be an alpha, or very masculine and enjoys wearing panties, then by all means, please continue and enjoy! I certainly won't judge you, I'm just commenting on my preferences and what attracts me.

I've seen a few of your posts. (And read your stories, I thought they were good, BTW.) Based on those, I'm not surprised by your opinion here. Also, no judgement. I suspect that your feelings probably parallel a majority of women out there, which is why a lot of guys would hide their interests from the their partners.

But I also tend to agree with @enbiji, a lot of us are just turned on by women's underthings. There is an allure to something that holds the things we love so much.

I'm sure you've read about this on the forum. You must have stumbled across enough stories and comments regarding this. I think a lot of the appeal is really an extension of what they represent, they guard something so special. There's also the taboo aspect of trying them on (nothing like a good kink to get the brain in gear).

Personally, we've started to have fun with it too. The wife will throw me a pair of hers when we're heading to bed sometimes. (Personally, I think I look like a train wreck in them, but they are comfortable to sleep in.) Lately she's also discovered she really likes me in men's thongs. She's ordered quite a few and is disappointed if I'm not wearing them.

After a quarter century together, we're pretty comfortable with each other. We're also running out of new things to try, so this is just another thing to try. I don't think it damages my masculinity, or at least I'm not worried about it. She hasn't hinted at it changing her opinion of me. Of course we've got plenty of other kinks that would have done that long ago. lol.

 

[curiousitieskill]

How would you react if you come home and found him masturbating watch some porn like tranny or gay?

i was dating a guy when i was in my early 20s - he left for work and i snooped in his laptop web history and found tranny porn. i had never ever experienced seeing it before, but it made me obsessed with fucking my guy in all kinds of new ways... i think of him from time to time still.

 

[DressupGuy]

There’s a lot of layers to men wearing panties but I do enjoy scenarios where the wife makes her husband wear them (there’s a variety of reasons - a punishment, humiliation, caught wearing them and wife/girlfriend was turned on by it, sph, a small emasculation, a reminder of who’s in charge). I often wonder if any guys have panties and bras on underneath their male clothing - it may simply be because he likes wearing them, and have nothing to do with any of the scenarios I mentioned. I’m not so much interested in full on feminization though - just the underwear - but it’s hot when “made” to wear them, especially your everyday typical guy.

 

[dkak001]

@AsheCollins I noticed you blanked out this thread, and first post. Are you willing to DM me?

 

[Vitriolhack]

i was dating a guy when i was in my early 20s - he left for work and i snooped in his laptop web history and found tranny porn. i had never ever experienced seeing it before, but it made me obsessed with fucking my guy in all kinds of new ways... i think of him from time to time still.

Did you suggest to him you would like to wear a strapon?