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[Tommelon]

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[TravisAW]

Definitely sounds like the porn playing with your head.

 

[WonderPonder]

Do you think she'd be interested in pursuing this? I'd suggest bringing it up slowly when the two of you are intimate and she's really worked up.

 

[screwher]

I would recommend that you be 110% with this before any leaps in this direction happen. Don’t jump into this if this is just a passing fancy. Remember you cannot unfuck someone. I had the desire of my wife having sex with other men for way too many years. I now wish it didn’t take so long. But I also understand why it was a good thing it did.

 

[TravisAW]

Best starting point to test the water is dildos.

Does she have any? Does she have any big ones? Have you talked about size of dildos?

Make light of it, saying something like "ever thought of handling a real one of those?" or "have you ever had anything that big in real life" but do it casually rather than sounding like an obsessed cuck wannabe.

 

[cuck72]

Do you think she'd be interested in pursuing this? I'd suggest bringing it up slowly when the two of you are intimate and she's really worked up.

This is how I started out with my wife; I've ALWAYS had fantasies about other guys I know fucking my wife. So, one night as we were in the heat of passion as they say, I just told my wife I had a weird hot dream the other night. Telling her it was a dream, about our neighbor that lived downstairs from us in the apt. we were living in. They were a younger couple too, and we all became friends. I knew my wife liked this guy, Greg. It helped one time when she mentioned that Greg was a nice and decent looking guy. That got me thinking of him, and I was jacking off with this fantasy of him fucking my young 20yo wife. My wife liked my so call dream. I said they were kissing and making out, and I woke up so hard. So, it started from there, then I started telling my wife about other guys we knew, and they were fantasies I was having after that.

 

[Tommelon]

Definitely sounds like the porn playing with your head.

I don't know what to do should I go therapy or should I just try discovering this new fantasy?

 

[WonderPonder]

I don't know what to do should I go therapy or should I just try discovering this new fantasy?

I still sometimes feel I need therapy lol.
Now that I'm officially a cuckold I absolutely love it and even more so for my wife.

 

[Tommelon]

Do you think she'd be interested in pursuing this? I'd suggest bringing it up slowly when the two of you are intimate and she's really worked up.

I mean i did say once I'm interested in exploring everything this world had to offer with her, in that list I did mention about orgy too... she laughed and said I was a little pervert. But she didn't deny..

 

[Tommelon]

I still sometimes feel I need therapy lol.
Now that I'm officially a cuckold I absolutely love it and even more so for my wife.

How was your journey? How did you convince your wife?

 

[Tommelon]

I would recommend that you be 110% with this before any leaps in this direction happen. Don’t jump into this if this is just a passing fancy. Remember you cannot unfuck someone. I had the desire of my wife having sex with other men for way too many years. I now wish it didn’t take so long. But I also understand why it was a good thing it did.

Did you get over this fantasy and how were u able to?

 

[WonderPonder]

How was your journey? How did you convince your wife?

I've fantasized for years but she wasn't interested. Last summer she hit menopause which has greatly increased her labedo, my health issues which means no intercourse and her meeting a man that she hit it off with.
We talked about it and because of this particular man she went for it.

 

[usse]

My suggestion, think about them being together and rub that nut out. Now with a clear head think about how much you love her and your future with her. Wife, kids, grandkids and rub that nut out as many times as it takes to keep a clear head.

 

[screwher]

Did you get over this fantasy and how were u able to?

Turns out my wife wanted sex with other men as well. So everything fell into place for us and we’re a hotwife couple now. But I had the fantasy of another man screwing my wife for many years. So when the time came, I was ready and I knew for sure this was what I wanted.

 

[Thin59]

I think my girlfriend is having an affair and I can't do anything about it.

Yes you can man !!! Stand tall and dump her !!!

 

[SPARTAN047]

It's not consensual and unless you can have your own affairs, you know what to do.

 

[live4thebj]

I’m going to say what others aren’t. Sounds like a you problem. Either do something about it or sit there like a pussy.

 

[policywank]

I think my girlfriend is having an affair and I can't do anything about it.

You haven't really said how you feel about this situation. Isn't that the starting place?

If is not something you want then you need to face that. If it is something that turns you on, that is not particularly unusual. We feel what we feel and it is better to explore what we feel than try to deny it.

But if she didn't have reason to believe you were open to the idea of being a cuckold then having an affair means being engaged in deceit and betrayal. That is a big problem and should not be confused with being a willing cuckold.