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Diablogrl said:what's this flame everyone is talking about? flame him...flame her...flame me...is there something I need to know about?
Angel said:No, it's still there.
It was my favorite place to lurk.
I don't even feel like reading all those threads.
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lavender said:Unfortunately that's the problem. It's no longer a place to learn. That's why everyone is upset - at least most of those who count.
I liked to learn stuff there as well. Since I can't learn much anymore, I figured I might as well exert some of my frustration and tension toward those who made all of my learning capabilities fly away.
Nora said:
Guru said:Hiya Angel. You can be nice here, too.
lavender said:Unfortunately that's the problem. It's no longer a place to learn. That's why everyone is upset - at least most of those who count.
I liked to learn stuff there as well. Since I can't learn much anymore, I figured I might as well exert some of my frustration and tension toward those who made all of my learning capabilities fly away.
Diablogrl said:
LOL, just read the first one (furious typer)...thanks so much Nora!
TWB said:
. . .those who count???
Never said:
Okay, I have to ask Nora..
What's my flame type? Tell me, please?
Never said:May you rot in the stinking pits of Detroit!
Okay, what's my type?
Laurel said:People could move on and move the forum back in the direction they want it to go. The question of the day is: will they go back to discussing the things they want to discuss, or will they keep flaming until the forum is burned to the ground then blame the other side for its demise?
A person can't fight with themselves. It takes at least two. Going in and screaming about what assholes everyone is and taking sides may be lots of fun, but it's 100% unproductive.
The only way to stop the negativity is to STOP the negativity. It's really simple. Just STOP. Don't go tell Mr. A what a jerk he is. Don't tell Ms. B what a bitch she is. STOP. Let it go. Post about BDSM-related stuff. That's what the forum is for.
Not that anyone will listen, but I enjoy saying it anyhow.