cymbidia
unrepentant pervert
- Joined
- Mar 8, 2001
- Posts
- 8,786
Sandia, i've stood back and listened as you breezed in here from no place. You immediately began pulling a lot of strings. You admitted that you like to stir up trouble. You've admitted your interest in trolls and trolling. On numerous occasions, you've expressed quite plainly the fact that you don't hold our community standards with any kinda respect or tolerance just because we do. You're not going to touch the M thread, good stuff or not, and no one can make you - just because, apparently, we hold it in high regard. I've watched you try to encourage those who might not be comfortable here into a pugnacious attitude of ownership. The list goes on and on.Sandia said:1. bondage... helplessness, vulnerability
2. SM... pain
3. domination... control/ obedience... perhaps service
4. humiliation... degradation, humility or subservience... or whatever you want to call it.
5. fetish
You seem to like games and head trips. Let's play a game, shall we?
Ten questions, Sandia, from me to you.
1. Who are you? Give us a little bio. (BTW, that's the sort of thing there's a lot of in the M thread, and in the Newbies thread too, places you've avoided in any meaningful manner, for some reason.)
2. What kind of BDSM background do you have? In other words, are you sub, switch, or dominant, Sandia - and don't duck the question this time.
3. Have you participated in BDSM sexuality in a skin-to-skin environment with another person? When? How much? What's your overall experience level with it? Is it something you want more of or not?
4. Were you any of our unregistered trolls, Sandia? Be honest. Now is the time for that.
5. What's your online experience as far as memberships in forums/chat rooms devoted to BDSM?
6. Are you registered at Lit under another nick?
7. What do you do for a living?
8. Got a particular ax to grind while you're here among us? What is it, if so , and why did you come here with it?
9. Do you think of yourself as an asshole sometimes? Why or why not?
10. Do you think of yourself as a member of this community? Why or why not?
These questions are meant sincerely and offered to you without malice of any kind. I just thought it was time for you to get to answer some questions. You ask so many of us.
edited to add that this is cym the forum member, the community member, talking - not
cymbidia
BDSM Forum Moderator.
Since a few of you seem to be having some sudden trouble discerning the two, i've decided that until it's distinct and obvious to those who are currently befuddled by such a complicated matter when i'm doing the moderator thing vs. when i'm just being a person, i'll fucking identify myself as one or the other in all my posts, okay? That way all y'all who are having the trouble can keep up with the rest of us who can already tell what moderator stuff is and what regular community member stuff is. Just consider it a little favor from me to you.
Risia and WD are free to do whatever the fuck they please about this, of course. We aren't joined at the hip.
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