burgwad
Really Experienced
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- Feb 19, 2020
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Hi. Not a pissing contest, just a moment of self-reflection. Where are you, mentally, in your stories?
Every setting I have ever used: Los Angeles (CA), stinky bachelor's US apartment (bedroom, office/guest, 3/4 bath, front room w/ kitchenette), generic hotel swimming pool, generic hotel room, fried chicken restaurant patio, street-side smoothie shop, sunny French nude beach, desolate windy California nude beach, generic car interior, generic stretch of California highway, generic upscale US suburb, generic upscale US home interior (multibedroom, grand foyer, backyard pool, etc.), therapist's lavish home office, generic middle class US suburb (driveways, dogs, narrow roads, etc.), generic 1990s RV interior, generic middle class US suburban home (bedroom, kitchen, basement), Omaha, generic US RV park, vaguely apocalyptic rural suburb, creepy taxidermist's voodoo chamber/repurposed garage, 4-way stop in the middle of nowhere at night, Waffle House, Black Hills (SD), Helena (MT), touristy US town, idyllic Swedish postcard mountain village, cultish Swedish amphitheater, ultramodern Swedish mini-home, generic US high school (parking lot, hallway, art classroom), gallery opening
Where I am, mentally, in my stories: I like to be in "vacation mode" when I write erotica. Even if we're at home in a story, I focus on characters who are back from school, done with work for the day, just hanging out, etc. The closest I'll let anyone get to "working" on camera is if they're doing some sort of art, or therapy, or driving, i.e., those tedium that still involve relaxation, connection, and calm.
So, shit. Am I just writing what I know? Is all I "know" familiar, bland, and liminal? Might my stories just as well take place in the backrooms? Am I a bad writer? ... Or does something about "vacation mode" speak to the open-mindedness, relaxation, and experimentation I connote with good sex? The answer's probably yes to all of the above, and I hate this, but I'm glad I sat here and thought about it for a minute.
Every setting I have ever used: Los Angeles (CA), stinky bachelor's US apartment (bedroom, office/guest, 3/4 bath, front room w/ kitchenette), generic hotel swimming pool, generic hotel room, fried chicken restaurant patio, street-side smoothie shop, sunny French nude beach, desolate windy California nude beach, generic car interior, generic stretch of California highway, generic upscale US suburb, generic upscale US home interior (multibedroom, grand foyer, backyard pool, etc.), therapist's lavish home office, generic middle class US suburb (driveways, dogs, narrow roads, etc.), generic 1990s RV interior, generic middle class US suburban home (bedroom, kitchen, basement), Omaha, generic US RV park, vaguely apocalyptic rural suburb, creepy taxidermist's voodoo chamber/repurposed garage, 4-way stop in the middle of nowhere at night, Waffle House, Black Hills (SD), Helena (MT), touristy US town, idyllic Swedish postcard mountain village, cultish Swedish amphitheater, ultramodern Swedish mini-home, generic US high school (parking lot, hallway, art classroom), gallery opening
Where I am, mentally, in my stories: I like to be in "vacation mode" when I write erotica. Even if we're at home in a story, I focus on characters who are back from school, done with work for the day, just hanging out, etc. The closest I'll let anyone get to "working" on camera is if they're doing some sort of art, or therapy, or driving, i.e., those tedium that still involve relaxation, connection, and calm.
So, shit. Am I just writing what I know? Is all I "know" familiar, bland, and liminal? Might my stories just as well take place in the backrooms? Am I a bad writer? ... Or does something about "vacation mode" speak to the open-mindedness, relaxation, and experimentation I connote with good sex? The answer's probably yes to all of the above, and I hate this, but I'm glad I sat here and thought about it for a minute.