virgin

Im an 18/w/m, and i am a virgin. I would like to change this soon, is there any women out there who are willing to help me? Email me if you are, kingspaz13@yahoo.com

Any takers?

Somewhere, they salivate at the prospect!!!

you are not alone.

I'm a 21 year old female virgin...but I don't have the guts to actually set anything up....

Amanda

I'm a 20yr old virgin, join the club.

Not making a judgement at all, but is this really the way you'd like to lose your virginity?

20 year old male in Cali...i'm a virgin...and not really looking to change it

in the same boat

I'm ninteeen, male and still a virgin by choice but I am looking to change that by now. Most important I think is that the person you loose it to should be caring and not just there to get a thrill, I would rather find a girl friend and make the choice together.

Mike

Some thoughts;

Some people lose it just to get it over with, some wait for some one special, some never lose it, some are born with out the choice.. some have no choice when it is taken from them.


The judgement call is that you all have free choice and that what you are comfortable with yourself is what really matters.


Before choosing to do any thing it is a good idea always to look at the opinions of those whom have experience. Whether through conversations or reading and then forming your own opinion. Some wish things had been different for them and others are happy with how things turned out.

I know many virgins of different age groups, even several are past fifty years. Each has their own experiences as to why this is so and in each circumstance I was able to learn why. Due to them being able to talk about it, with knowing I would listen and be respectful of what they had to say. As well it helped them to have some one to be able to talk about it then and in future. And if I should have children one day it will be easier to talk to them about it as well.

Several of these people I mention chose to remain thusly due to health problems. Which are now or in future debilitating either physically, mentally or both. They love children and choose not to pass on to another generation what has happened to them. They dont want for others to suffer as they have nor to watch them suffer.. especially children.

In closing if some one is going to pressure or play you in to a situation that you are uncomfortable with. Then they may not have your best interests at heart and either a second or multiple opinions is worth consideration.


Hearts blessings to all

I agree....

I'm a virgin as well... although older than the rest. lol Yes, there are times that I wish I could just get it over with... I'm not interested in just losing it to someone just to lose it.

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cuddlebug said:

I'm a virgin as well... although older than the rest. lol Yes, there are times that I wish I could just get it over with... I'm not interested in just losing it to someone just to lose it.

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Well said and my compliments in your choosing what you are comfortable with

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cuddlebug said:

I'm a virgin as well... although older than the rest. lol Yes, there are times that I wish I could just get it over with... I'm not interested in just losing it to someone just to lose it.

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I agree. At 31 years of age, I am a virgin by choice. Not because I haven't wanted to have sex, but I don't want to risk having a child when I'm not ready. To me, it's just not worth pleasure that will last for...

Gee, how long does it take?

Well..I am older than all of you and still a virging..well in the USA I am..that's 14 months now

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sueanninct said:

I agree. At 31 years of age, I am a virgin by choice. Not because I haven't wanted to have sex, but I don't want to risk having a child when I'm not ready. To me, it's just not worth pleasure that will last for...

Gee, how long does it take?

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Wanting to do right by the worlds children is an honorable, admirable, respectable and truly commendable choice in any matter.. my compliments.

Hearts blessings to you and yours

Double compliments to any whom have felt left out in this thread with compliments again to those already shared unto.

With of course hearts blessings and if ya need them (hugs)

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cuddlebug said:

I'm a virgin as well... although older than the rest. lol Yes, there are times that I wish I could just get it over with... I'm not interested in just losing it to someone just to lose it.

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I'm probably the oldest virgin on this thread. I could not agree with cuddlebug more. However, at the same time, I wouldn't mind meeting a woman who would want to teach me how to please her so that when I meet "the right one", I can really please her.

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sueanninct said:

I agree. At 31 years of age, I am a virgin by choice. Not because I haven't wanted to have sex, but I don't want to risk having a child when I'm not ready. To me, it's just not worth pleasure that will last for...

Gee, how long does it take?

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I'm going to assume you are female, I'm sorry to mistake you for one if you are not. But at 31, you better start thinking of a child now because within another 10 or so years, your eggs will no longer be good anymore to produce children. Around a certain age in your 40's, the eggs stop becoming viable, etc. So if you're not ready for a child by your 40's, you aren't ready at all. Your next alternative is to adopt after that point.

finally

zidane the wanna be bisexual makes a good point.
plus lady, go see a doctor, i think you suffer from some phobia

yes, a wanna be bisexual because I'm not one yet. I've yet to find someone to initiate me. Silly bear.

Since July was the only time this person posted to their "ad", and a general discussion of virginity popped up, this thread is being moved.