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I was having some pretty good cybersex with another male on the Lit chat the other day ... the imagined sex was getting pretty hot ...

He was "nailing me" good, but then I typed "kiss me ..."

He got grossed out by this, and said he'd never kiss another guy!

I was wondering, do some guys think that kissing is more intimate than sucking a cock, or fucking? Ladies, is kissing to you more intimate than eating pussy?

What r your thoughts Lit people?

bb
 
I'm a Bi guy and have really only kissed one guy and that was the first guy that I was with as a teenager. He just so happens to be the only guy that I ever had deeper feelings with.

I certainly do not find the thought or act of kissing another guy a turn off though. As a matter of fact, I find the thought very erotic and thrilling.

While I guess that it should not be more intimate then other forms of sexual activity, I guess that it is for me when it comes to my sexual encounters with guys.
 
For me, kissing is much more intimate. I've fucked many, but kissed very few. For me to think about kissing anyone, I need to feel truly connected to them. I can't tell you how many I've fucked (ok, I can but I won't), but I can list on both hands who I've kissed.
 
I think kissing is very intimate. There's something about putting one's mouth to someone else's mouth that makes a stronger connection than hands or mouths on lower regions could make. Especially now that one-night stands are so popular again, kissing almost takes a back seat and people want to skip the intimacy and get to the carnal action.

That and I think that some people just have fetishes for having sex with or going down on the same gender, but they're not really attracted to them and therefore wouldn't want kiss them.

Either way, I think that guy was a jerk. If you're cybering with someone, I'd imagine that you'd write anything to make them happy, whether or not you're comfortable with it in reality. At least that's how I normally cyber.
 
bottom boy said:
I was having some pretty good cybersex with another male on the Lit chat the other day ... the imagined sex was getting pretty hot ...

He was "nailing me" good, but then I typed "kiss me ..."

He got grossed out by this, and said he'd never kiss another guy!

I was wondering, do some guys think that kissing is more intimate than sucking a cock, or fucking? Ladies, is kissing to you more intimate than eating pussy?

What r your thoughts Lit people?

bb
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Kissing to me is way more intimate than intercourse. You're sharing breath with that person. You're face to face with that person. The eye to eye contact itself can generate so many intense feelings. You can be fucked by a guy and never even know who they were, depending on the position you're in. A kiss is very revealing though. Normally, you can be sharing soooo much more than something physical while kissing.

Just my opinion though.
 
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Pookie said:
Kissing to me is way more intimate than intercourse. You're sharing breath with that person. You're face to face with that person. The eye to eye contact itself can generate so many intense feelings. You can be fucked by a guy and never even know who they were, depending on the position you're in. A kiss is very revealing though. Normally, you can be sharing soooo much more than something physical while kissing.

Just my opinion though.
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Exactly how I feel..you just worded it so much better. :D
 
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Pookie said:
Kissing to me is way more intimate than intercourse. You're sharing breath with that person. You're face to face with that person. The eye to eye contact itself can generate so many intense feelings. You can be fucked by a guy and never even know who they were, depending on the position you're in. A kiss is very revealing though. Normally, you can be sharing soooo much more than something physical while kissing.

Just my opinion though.
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i believe miss pookie has nailed it. ditto
 
In my experience, many, many men are more uncomfortable with kissing other men than with engaging in other sexual activities with them.

I think it has something to do with the sex/love issue, sucking a cock is seen as an act of sex, while they see kissing as an act of love.
 
Queersetti said:
I think it has something to do with the sex/love issue, sucking a cock is seen as an act of sex, while they see kissing as an act of love.
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I think that hid the proverbial nail on the head.
 
I think kissing is phenomenally intimate. I often fantasize about having lots of people have me suck their dicks, and or fuck me (I'm a bottom can you tell?). But kissing only happens in my more romantic monagogous fantasies, and I've only ever kissed guys I was actually in love with (Oh now there's a taboo work in a lot of GLBT circles). So I think since a lot of gay guys get scared of emotional contact (not all here don't jump down my throat) that kissing can be kind of intimidating.
 
Queersetti said:
In my experience, many, many men are more uncomfortable with kissing other men than with engaging in other sexual activities with them.

I think it has something to do with the sex/love issue, sucking a cock is seen as an act of sex, while they see kissing as an act of love.
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I've always viewed sex and love as two completely different things. I believe that kissing is the closest thing to bridging the two though. It's very hard to have a "real" kiss with someone, and not generate some emotional reaction. Any two people can have hot sex in the right situation. Only lovers can really kiss. :)
 
TulaneCowboy said:
For me, kissing is much more intimate. I've fucked many, but kissed very few. For me to think about kissing anyone, I need to feel truly connected to them. I can't tell you how many I've fucked (ok, I can but I won't), but I can list on both hands who I've kissed.
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Though I havent fucked that many... thats the one.
 
I think kissing is unimaginably more intimate then fucking.

When I was young and 'innocent' i had no problem giving a guy head for shits and giggles, but if they kissed me it better have been fucking serious or the game was up.

Sex was always important to me, but it doesnt hold the intimacy of love that kisses hold.

I love seeing kisses.

I love reading about really good in depth knock your socks of kisses.

I love doing those kinds of kisses.

Honestly, Kisses are just one of my favorite part of being married.

In fact, i think i might go do tha kissing thing right now. Hehe

Nikki
 
sachiaiko said:
When I was young and 'innocent' i had no problem giving a guy head for shits and giggles
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Where were you when I was young, and not wanting to be "innocent" ?
 
bottom boy said:
Where were you when I was young, and not wanting to be "innocent" ?
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:laughs:

In Eugene Oregon giving head to all my male friends?

Nikki :p
 
I have mixed feelings on this... I guess it depends on what's behind the kiss. I think that a kiss can just be a kiss as Jimmy Durante would say. However if you put feeling behind it in your head than yes it is more important. When I kiss Simone it is definetly more intimate..... it just depends on the situation I guess in my opinion. A kiss can just be a kiss with just sexuality behind it and not romantic feeling, but then it's usually not as good. Just my thoughts...

SD
 
Bi female. And I feel that kissing is very intimate and could be much more intimate then sex/oral etc... but I think it depends on who you are with, and if it is a fling or not.

sometimes i'll feel the need to hold out, or 'save' kisses so to say.

I don't want to cheapen them, like the words "I love you" become sometimes - by giving kisses 1,000s a day to my SO or saying I love you every time we pass each other in the appartment. Because I don't want it to become automatic, a nothing gesture to throw away like we throw away
"hey how are you" while walking past someone we know, and accept a "fine" and a head nod... and go on, like that was as good as meeting for lunch and actually having a conversation.
 
In my opinion kissing is far more intimate and emotionally charged than sucking dick. I couldn't imagine ever kissing another dude, but I have sucked a dick before.
 
Kissing is much more intimate. We share breath while kissing; my mouth nourishes me and I'm sharing that with you. Definitely more intimate.
 
I suppose it depends on your point of view. I think kissing can be more intimate depending on how you kiss. It's the difference between kissing hungrily, being completely lust driven and kissing slowly and lovingly. I also think kissing other parts of someone's body can be just as intimate as kissing on the mouth. It can be a form of worship, and you have to have some form of trust to let someone put your cock in their mouth.
 
I agree that it depends on point of view. For me, kissing has nothing to do with lust. Kissing is entirely emotional for me. On the other hand cock-sucking was solely a function of my big dick fetish. The guy attached to the dick was entirely incidental. I'd hazard to say that of the 4 guys whose dicks I've ever sucked, I only knew one of their names, and even in that case it was only a first (and quite possibly fake one.)

So I don't agree about the trust thing were head is concerned. There are a lot of guys who suck off guys they know absolutely nothing about, except that they have a big dick.
 
I always kiss someone that I am going to have sex with even if it is just a one night stand. I thought kissing is how you got things going in the first place. I think what is more intimate then kissing is making love with my partner who is slowly penetrating me and looking into my eyes and we tell eachother how much we love eachother and how good we make eachother feel. There is nothing more erotic, romantic or intimate then that for me.
 
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