Stupidest D/s related comment.....

il mio angelo

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Someone once told me that I could not possibly be a submissive because I am very bubbly and outgoing. "Submissives are quiet, meek and mild, they are the girls/guys that won't look you in the eye, and never say a word until someone talks to them first.." he said.

Yup.. it still sounds dumb after all this time!:rolleyes:

What is the stupidest thing anyone has said to you in relation to D/s or BDSM?
 
Someone upon finding I'm into BDSM and liked to top women said I did because I'm sexist.
 
Hmmm... tricky.

Probably something about not being serious enough to be dominant. Although "you're not a 'real' Dom" still rates highly.
 
"I thought you said you were into BDSM?!"

-comment received when I gave my 'nilla boyfriend a funny look for smacking my bottom unexpectedly. It was just so out of character for him, so even though it was obviously a very considered, planned attempt to cater toward a side of my sexuality that he doesn't necessarily share, I couldn't help but giggle.
 
upon learning that I liked bdsm a guy trying to get me in bed said "would you want me to kill a dear for you? you're into that, right?" - it made no sense, but he was dead serious...
 
From a group of fellow feminists.....'no woman could possibly WANT to be whipped, spanked, or mistreated.....it is just not possible....she is obviously a victim too scared to speak out and needs to know there are ways out.'

Catalina
 
When telling a vanilla friend about D/s and some of the things I enjoy including a riding crop,

"Doesn't that hurt?"


Yep!

No kidding! ;)
 
Telling a nilla friend that my spanking bench is something used in the making of quilts.
 
" You mean you actually like to be told what to do? Doesn't that make you feel subservient?"

DUH!!!:rolleyes:
 
Mistress, I feel like I belong to You!

Coming from a person who has never met You in real life.
 
noticed this quite often

sitting in a chat room, someone comes in" Submissives honored"
hey are you submissive, so like do you supposed to bow or something?
 
Re: noticed this quite often

TwistaFate said:
sitting in a chat room, someone comes in" Submissives honored"
hey are you submissive, so like do you supposed to bow or something?

Is that anything like cheques being honoured?
 
LOL

A guy told me that he could potentially be a Dom if he wanted, but didn't care for the responsibility. He further stated he was known in the community as a "lite Dom."

(and I wanted to know if that meant he tasted great or was less filling)
 
redelicious said:
LOL

A guy told me that he could potentially be a Dom if he wanted, but didn't care for the responsibility. He further stated he was known in the community as a "lite Dom."

(and I wanted to know if that meant he tasted great or was less filling)
Or full of air, like some lite butters. :D
 
You can't possibly be a sadist, you are so....cute!!!


Thank God for the gift of camoflauge, I guess.
 
I can't resist this.

Netzach, did you tell them that sociopaths and psychopaths look like everyone else and can be cute too?

I hate those cute remarks. lol.
 
I made someone in the local bi womens group upset when I was talking about our (D's and mine) relationship. Her comment was something to the effect that the reason I like women too is because subconsiously I fear and loathe men. If I was able to have "normal" relations with men I wouldn't be attracted to women. Yeah, babe, and I got some ocean front property in Yuma to sell you....
 
you know something, you need to have him arrested for what he does to you
 
"You are obviously a very angry person."

Courtesy of an ex therapist.

Well, fuck...yes! Duhhhhhh!!


If I know anything I know this...

that's not why I'm into SM.
 
il mio angelo said:
Someone once told me that I could not possibly be a submissive because I am very bubbly and outgoing. "Submissives are quiet, meek and mild, they are the girls/guys that won't look you in the eye, and never say a word until someone talks to them first.." he said.

Yup.. it still sounds dumb after all this time!:rolleyes:

What is the stupidest thing anyone has said to you in relation to D/s or BDSM?

That it is ok to cheat on your husband or wife, in order to foillow your kink. THAT is the stupidest thing I've heard about BDSM.
 
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