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A Desert Rose

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Does your Dom/Domme enjoy publically displaying you?

Does He/She enjoy sexual activity in public, i.e. restaurants, men's rooms, theaters?

Do you enjoy it?

As a Dom/Domme, do you like this behavior? And why?

Is it because it makes your sub uncomfortable or embarrassed?

Is it the thrill of getting away with it?
 
A Desert Rose said:
Does your Dom/Domme enjoy publically displaying you?

Does He/She enjoy sexual activity in public, i.e. restaurants, men's rooms, theaters?

Do you enjoy it?

As a Dom/Domme, do you like this behavior? And why?

Is it because it makes your sub uncomfortable or embarrassed?

Is it the thrill of getting away with it?
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I love to display my submissive
Sex in public ... oh ya
I assume
if they cum or go into sub space they enjoy it

yes part of it is the thrill of maybe getting caught

but mostly
it is the feeling of power
knowing
that yes
even here they are mine ot use
 
A Desert Rose said:
Does your Dom/Domme enjoy publically displaying you?

Does He/She enjoy sexual activity in public, i.e. restaurants, men's rooms, theaters?

Do you enjoy it?

As a Dom/Domme, do you like this behavior? And why?

Is it because it makes your sub uncomfortable or embarrassed?

Is it the thrill of getting away with it?
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yes, my Master very much enjoys publicly displaying me, in various ways...whether it's simply speaking to me in a certain degrading manner, or touching me a certain way, or sexual activity, or whatever...our lifestyle isn't limited to behind closed doors or in dark bdsm clubs only...it's who we are always, and by treating me in vanilla public the same way i'm treated at home, it's just a way of him showing he's proud of me, of us, and that i am his in every way, no matter where we are. and sometimes, he simply wants to show off his property. ;)

do i enjoy it? if it's meant to be enjoyed, yes....if it's a punishment that i'm getting in public, of course i don't enjoy that. but i find comfort in the fact that he feels comfortable stringing me up from the monkey bars at the local park and whipping the heck out of me, rather than feeling the need to do everything hidden/secretly, at home with the lights out and doors locked and stereo cranked up.
 
I would enjoy being displayed, although certainly not to the degree ownedsubgal was talking about; as much as I would be thrilled, I think that acting in the exact same way around innocent bystanders as I do in the bedroom is disrespectful to them and their choice of lifestyle, and that would outweigh the pleasure I would get from such behavior. It isn't a matter of shame to me, it's a matter of courtesy.

T has more reserve about displaying me; he does not want to tell me how to dress, nor does he want to show me off to all and sundry. He quite frankly doesn't think they're worthy of seeing me be sexual. So with some rare exceptions, like around good friends, he is low on the PD (public displays).
 
Quint said:
I would enjoy being displayed, although certainly not to the degree ownedsubgal was talking about; as much as I would be thrilled, I think that acting in the exact same way around innocent bystanders as I do in the bedroom is disrespectful to them and their choice of lifestyle, and that would outweigh the pleasure I would get from such behavior. It isn't a matter of shame to me, it's a matter of courtesy.

T has more reserve about displaying me; he does not want to tell me how to dress, nor does he want to show me off to all and sundry. He quite frankly doesn't think they're worthy of seeing me be sexual. So with some rare exceptions, like around good friends, he is low on the PD (public displays).
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Quint, my Master and i are very courteous people...and Master in particular is an absolute gentleman. we simply don't hide who we are just because we're in a public vanilla place. i guess you could liken it to 2 homosexuals couple in love...one couple, when out in vanilla public, conducts themselves like "friends"...no signs of affection, no showing their love for one another, in case others stare and view them negatively...the other couple holds hands, exchange light kisses, conducts themselves like, well, two people in love. my Master and i are like the second couple. He doesn't strip me naked in the grocery store and beat me down, lol...but the dynamics of our relationship (He's the boss) are clear always.

He wouldn't whip me in park directly in front of a group of kids playing...but if i need a whipping and we're out, it's definitely not waiting til we get home.
 
I'll kiss lightly or hug or walk arm in arm with my gf in public, as long as we feel safe. I won't finger her in public or grope her tits in public.

Likewise, I'll make G or M call me "miss" or hold my packages or take off my coat in public, but I won't spank them or verbally degrade them in a way that couldn't "pass."

I guess I'm a slave to my notions of tasteful.
 
Great responses. Thank you all.

I have to agree that courtesy, respect and tasteful behavior are important to me, too. I think we would all agree that certain places require certain types of behavior.

And I think that descipline should be done in private. But that is just my opinion. I can certainly see the other side of that coin and part of me (smiling now) enjoys a bit a public descipline, as long as it is descreet.

I wonder though... most of you stated that it was the thrill of getting caught and not the humiliation/embarrassment factor that tripped your trigger. Is that the case? My previous experience has been that the Dom initiating this behavior loved the embarrassment it caused me, more than anything else.
 
He enjoys publicly displaying His control over me. He'll often grab a fistfull of my hair to slow down my pace or direct my steps, or finger me while we're at a stop light in traffic.

i happen to love it. the fact that He's comfortable enough with our relationship that it doesn't have to end when we enter public is great.
 
My public display has always been limited to play parties and clubs.

After all these years, I'm still a very shy, introvert. Anything public would probably result with me dying of embarrassment.

:eek:
 
WynEternal said:
My public display has always been limited to play parties and clubs.

After all these years, I'm still a very shy, introvert. Anything public would probably result with me dying of embarrassment.

:eek:
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Ditto.

My guys are not "out", so it works best for U/us too.
 
A Desert Rose said:
Does your Dom/Domme enjoy publically displaying you?

Does He/She enjoy sexual activity in public, i.e. restaurants, men's rooms, theaters?

Do you enjoy it?

As a Dom/Domme, do you like this behavior? And why?

Is it because it makes your sub uncomfortable or embarrassed?

Is it the thrill of getting away with it?
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I don't think I could publicly discipline PK except by whispering in her ear that I am displeased with whatever she just did. I think that would be enough to change her behavior and would suffice until we got home. I would not have a problem having sex in public, just wouldn't want to get caught :D. I know she doesn't mind sex in public. ;)
 
WynEternal said:
My public display has always been limited to play parties and clubs.

After all these years, I'm still a very shy, introvert. Anything public would probably result with me dying of embarrassment.

:eek:
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And parking lots
Don't forget the parking lots :D
 
James G 5 said:
And parking lots
Don't forget the parking lots :D
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That was less than 10 minutes with me being fully covered except for maybe 1. :p

I think...
 
WynEternal said:
My public display has always been limited to play parties and clubs.

After all these years, I'm still a very shy, introvert. Anything public would probably result with me dying of embarrassment.

:eek:
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i'm extremely shy and introverted as well...you won't catch me alive on a stage anywhere, even fully clothed, lol...but my Master disciplining me, expressing affection for me, or using me in public is definitely nothing to be embarassed about.
 
First, and most important: Hey Rose! Good to see you!

Okay, if the relationship I'm involved in has BDSM, that part stays in the bedroom. Or at least in private. Naturally, I love showing affection, such as holding hands, a quick kiss, walking with our arms around each other. But openly being displayed? No, doesn't do it for me.

Now, sex in public is different. I do like finding places where a quick moment of intimacy can be shared with the prospect of being "discovered" very strong. But it's not something I would engage in on a regular basis.

*sigh* Guess I'm just not "trophy" material....
 
SexyChele said:
First, and most important: Hey Rose! Good to see you!

Okay, if the relationship I'm involved in has BDSM, that part stays in the bedroom. Or at least in private. Naturally, I love showing affection, such as holding hands, a quick kiss, walking with our arms around each other. But openly being displayed? No, doesn't do it for me.

Now, sex in public is different. I do like finding places where a quick moment of intimacy can be shared with the prospect of being "discovered" very strong. But it's not something I would engage in on a regular basis.

*sigh* Guess I'm just not "trophy" material....
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And great to see you too, SC!

I am sure some will differ with me and also I might offend some but I happen to like being a trophy piece. (And I do know that if you liked being one SC, you would be great material!)

There is something about it that makes me feel like my Dom is proud of me and desires showing off that I am His. That does a lot for me, personally.

I admit to limited experience with any type of sexual activity in public but the few encounters I have had, have been quite extraordinary and memorable for me. It is the stuff my dreams are now made of. ~smile~
 
ownedsubgal said:
i'm extremely shy and introverted as well...you won't catch me alive on a stage anywhere, even fully clothed, lol...but my Master disciplining me, expressing affection for me, or using me in public is definitely nothing to be embarassed about.
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What you said. And it works for me, too. ;-)
 
Re: Re: A trophy piece?

Richard49 said:


it is the feeling of power
knowing
that yes
even here they are mine ot use
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Thank you Richard. It's always a pleasure to see your posts, especially on my threads. ;-)
 
We do lots of public play at parties and public clubs.

We both love other public displays of our D/s but are limited as to where it can be done. Anywhere in my small city is out, would endanger my job, etc. We also feel that overtly sexual displays are not appropriate around people who may be made uncomfortable by them, and certainly places where there are children.

But there are times where we can and do enjoy it tremendously. For instance, we went to see the movie Secretary when it came to the cinema in his city. There I was able to wear my collar, leash, and be in full protocol and he did some discreet playing/touching during the movie. It added to the fun terrifically for both of us and was a venue where we felt it could be done appropriately. We got some amused looks, some stares, some "hot" looks, and even a few discreet questions and comments, especially after the movie.

Also, we attended a huge Fetish Flea event a few months ago, which was held in a big hotel, and there were so many fetish folks around that being D/s in attire, behavior, etc. just fit right in and it was heavenly to just be "us" for a whole weekend. It just felt so relaxing and exciting, all at once.

-justina
 
Justina123 said:


But there are times where we can and do enjoy it tremendously. For instance, we went to see the movie Secretary when it came to the cinema in his city.
-justina
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I do need to see this movie. I keep hearing so much about it. Maybe this weekend....

Thanks for your input, Justina.
 
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