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Do any of you drink/do drugs while playing?

BlondGirl

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I am curious. I have always loved to fuck after a few drinks. (Perhaps it is the relaxation that induces the easier orgasms-who knows?)
BUT
I have never played when I have been drinking.
I am curious if any of you do or if any are completely against it or if any of you have any "rules" concerning this issue.
Thanks.
 
No, I haven't nor would I want to.

I generally feel the need to be in charge of my faculties, as it were, when I am playing.

Certain activities make me relax, so I don't need a glass of wine or anything of that nature .

Good topic.
 
I’m completely against it; to me it would be the same as drinking and driving, it is stupid and to many things can go wrong.

If I have been drinking, my judgment will be influenced and my Dom will not be able to trust my reactions,
and if my Dom has been drinking I would not be able to trust his judgment and reactions.
 
Not every play session goes to the limit. And I am not referring to playing with strangers here.
 
Yes, I understand....

I don't generally have nilla type sex under the influence, either.

Prudish, perhaps? :D



I don't drink often so it takes very little to numb my senses.

It is all a matter of individual tastes and preferences coupled with situations.
 
Shit!

I thought I hit "new thread" and not "reply"--sorry.
I'm up too early .
 
Where is the all above button at??????????


I mean not all the time either but I like to smoke a little weed now and then.....................We both find it enjoyable.......

As for drinking ............yep I don't find anything wrong with it........
I don't think it is like drinking and driving at all...............Your in your own home and if it is something you enjoy then do it...............Sex is all about pleasure...


Other drugs well ....................I have but don't anymore................Haven't in years but I have had fun..........:D



Another one I would have to admit to is shrooms............you get sooooo wound up on shrooms sex is great................But sex is great anything...


To each his or her own.............:cool:
 
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Drugs?? Never, but that is just us...

Occaionally a glass or two of wine, but usually no alcohol either...

Then again, that is just us...
 
I never do drugs, and think it would be especially unwise before palying. But like cellis, I don't have a problem with one or two drinks maximum before a scene. Just enough to relax, but not enough to dull the senses or interfere with good judgement.

Many people are against any drugs or alcohol at all before playing, but with someone you've played with many times before I don't think it's particularly dangerous. Just my humble and possibly misguided opinion.
 
Toppling off pedestals...

Honestly, it was the mid-1970's when i started in this and everyone in the world, it seemed (including my mother and father) were doing a little experiementing - or a lot. I did a lot.

I learned to judge myself and my reaction while altered in a number of interesting ways.

Then i settled down and had kids and became a teacher (paragons that we are) and went really straight with respect to all substances that altered my perceptions.

My last two Dominants, they who comprised my last six or so years of sexuality, liked to indulge on occasion. Through them, i regained an enjoyment of such occasional indulgences.

I think one has to trust thier partner to a very extreme degree to play altered. Even then, it's not a good idea for me. I'll not be doing it again in the foreseeable future.

Most of y'all know that i ended up in the ER last summer for a fisting accident with MS. It was partly because we were *both* so totally out of it that we didn't realize the damage was occuring. It'd been a multi-day binge for us and we were simply way too fucked up to be aware that we were not being safe, that i was being hurt in a bad way.

Shocked?
Yes. I know. I am, too, every time i think of it.

Drugs are fine and good and fun - if that's what you want in your relationship and what you can handle in your sexuality. Not for me, though. Not anymore.



(Okay, think about the story i told about our ER visit and now add a haggard appearance and a strangly racing pulse [i said i was really really really scared and stubbornly stuck to that story] to the stuff the ER people were seeing and...
Man!
They just kept asking questions, you know?)
 
Wow, cym. I was half-expecting a severe tongue lashing for my position. LOL I'm glad that you're okay now, and hope that you never end up in the ER again. How embarrassing that must have been! *Hugs*
 
We have tried it and did not like it. We rarely do anything mind altering anyway. We have had some funny experiences trying to pull it off though.

I would never consider it with someone I did not trust with my life.

Thanks for sharing Cymbidia. The first time I read this story I was mortified. I could not allow myself to get past the ouch. Now when I come across it I allow myself to think about the medical staff. They are probably still talking about it.
 
A glass of

A glass of wine or a rum and coke is it for me before we begin anything. I want ALL my senses to be "alive" and not dulled in anyway!
p.s. to cym: Would you PLEASE take care of yourself because we'd miss ya if you weren't around!
 
HotXBunz said:
I could not allow myself to get past the ouch.
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No kidding! ::winces in "never been there, can't imagine it in the least" sympathy::

I'm generally against drugs (in my system; wouldn't preach at you if that's what you like) and I haven't really acquired much of a taste for alcohol. I do enjoy wine coolers, but that's just for a nice cold tasty sippy drink. They make me happy. Our play hasn't gotten too life-threatening, and I wouldn't be afraid of hunny having a buzz, which is all he's interested in getting anyway. Hmmm, I think I'm giving away too many personal details; they seem to depict my life as, well, boring. Sigh...
 
Just another aspect

We play a lot, and have total trust. Having her helpless, and getting a buzz, just adds a little bit more of a thrill to it. Just causes her to be a little more aware of the position she has been put in. I tell her after she is bound that I will be doing it. Sometimes i do it while with her, other times I leave her there to think about it. Antisipation is the biggest thrill.;)
 
As with most things, I believe moderation is the key. We indulge in...altering substances with reasonable regularity. The intensity and potential of danger of play has to adapt to fit our present states of mind. We never really push to the limit when we're under the influence. But, we're hardly teetotalers either.

Just like everything else, do what works for you. Only you know your limits. But drugs, of all kinds, can change your awareness of those limits. So, my advice is to decide before you indulge what the limits are, and make sure that whoever is in charge is also in clear control of their faculties. The edge is often closer than you think, especially when you're too far out of your mind to see it approaching.

Just my 2 cents. ;)
 
Actually the girls I "play" with tell me they prefer if I drink before we start anything. I am always so cautious when I am sober and I guess they prefer my senses inhibited. Drugs are a definite no for me. Even just a little weed. I have been in rehab and can not let myself even consider drugs ever again. So per their request I will have a few Jim beam and cokes to get the party started. Take care. Later.
 
Shucks, now I have to re-memorize it?

porphry said:
Safe, Sane, SOBER, and Consensual.
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Actually, I think "sober" can be stuck under "safe" as a general rule. Wiz, you worry me a little with your use of hallucinogens, but I don't know to what degree you play and it seriously is not my place to criticize you...just be careful. Same with anyone who does anything more than "relaxation" stimulants, or does those to extremes. Especially if right now you're thinking "I have experience, I know what I'm doing." Cockiness plus altered-consciousness gets you ouchies. You can quote me on that. o)
 
We have both been pretty drunk when we've played. But neither of us do drugs.
 
Re: Shucks, now I have to re-memorize it?

Quint said:


Actually, I think "sober" can be stuck under "safe" as a general rule. Wiz, you worry me a little with your use of hallucinogens, but I don't know to what degree you play and it seriously is not my place to criticize you...just be careful. Same with anyone who does anything more than "relaxation" stimulants, or does those to extremes. Especially if right now you're thinking "I have experience, I know what I'm doing." Cockiness plus altered-consciousness gets you ouchies. You can quote me on that. o)
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Careful is the only way to do it.............I do , I am .................And it is all good.........


I did say to each his own......
;)

Point well taken................:cool:
 
I drink and occasionally use drugs before play. Not alot just to take that edge of my worry about work and relax. I know my own and my partners limits pretty well by now and I wouldn't play heavily if I felt either of us were unsafe.
A glass or two of white wine; or sitting sipping whisky before going to bed is no problem for most adults. Sometimes we get a little higher - share the whole bottle of wine or use poppers.

I wouldn't get high/drunk before playing with a stranger but I know that whatever impariment to my physical co-ordination I can always 'snap out of it' in my head if I need to. And with someone I trust not to slip me things I think theres very little risk. Hey I've been hurt and hurt a partner worse because I was tired and wound so tight from a bad day at work than I ever have when on poppers/dope/alchohol.
 
Drugs, Drinking

and D/s do not mix. Especially considering one of the two participants may be in bondage, and the other may have a whip!

Ebony
 
MissTaken said:
Yes, I understand....

I don't generally have nilla type sex under the influence, either.

Prudish, perhaps? :D



I don't drink often so it takes very little to numb my senses.

It is all a matter of individual tastes and preferences coupled with situations.
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I do not think it is prudish. Miss T

I think that having altered senses during BDSM play is risky whether you are playing with strangers or familiar partners. However to each his or her own.

Ebony
 
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