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My boyfriend wants me to put on my high heels and kick him in right in his testicles as hard as I can before we have sex. I am very unsure of this and I have been putting him off on this,he told me he read somewhere that it makes for great sex. I don't want to damage him for life. Do you think if I just do it once and make it hurt him bad enough he wont want me to ever to do it again??? Why would a guy want his balls to be kicked? I did kick a couple of guys back in high school but they had it coming not one of them asked me to do it................. :confused:
 
goodgirl2 said:
My boyfriend wants me to put on my high heels and kick him in right in his testicles as hard as I can before we have sex. I am very unsure of this and I have been putting him off on this,he told me he read somewhere that it makes for great sex. I don't want to damage him for life. Do you think if I just do it once and make it hurt him bad enough he wont want me to ever to do it again??? Why would a guy want his balls to be kicked? I did kick a couple of guys back in high school but they had it coming not one of them asked me to do it................. :confused:
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I've vaguely heard rumors of this, but don't know of anyone who's actually tried it. I suppose, if he's a hardcore masochist, it might excite him and somehow enhance his pleasure - but from the memories I have of having been kicked/hit in the 'nads when younger, the last thing I was interested in for some time afterward was sex!
 
You are not comfortable with it. Therefore, don't do it.

Now with communication you might find activities that he'd like that you would be comfortable with.

I'd want to know, if I were you, what sort of things he had done pain wise that has led up to this? If he has experimented it would be good to know how far he has been able to go and how he felt about each of the things he has done.

If he hasn't done anything at all to this point, it would worry me that he'd ask you to be the agent of something he knows practically nothing about. I'd also worry about damage as you do. Furthermore I'd worry about being blamed for the whole mess if it went wrong.

Hopefully someone with more experience will come along and inform those of us with less about the safety concerns of things like this.

Fury :rose:
 
This can be a part of CBT (cock & ball torture), and there are safe ways to do CBT, and not safe ways to do CBT... you mentioned that "he read somewhwere that it makes for great sex"... what exactly is it about the act that he thinks makes for great sex? Giving up control? Humiliation? Pain? Has he ever done something like this before? Does he have masochistic tendencies? Are you comfortable causing pain? You do have a right to refuse if you are uncomfortable; personally I'd need a better reason than "I read it makes for great sex".

If y'all are both comfortable with going forward, I'd do some Googling for information on CBT, and possibly get a copy of The Family Jewels, which is supposed to be a good book on the subject.

I found an article on the Good vibrations site on CBT, for you to start with.

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Don't be too freaked out by this request. I am friends with a lovely couple who engage in this sort of thing and it's a massive turn on for both of them. She's one of the few femdommes who I simply adore and he is one of the few male subs I can stand to be in a room with for longer than about 20 minutes.

It's actually not too far off the mainstream of desires, just read up on it a bit first. If you aren't comfortable then don't do it, but don't worry about it seeming a little "odd". Trust me plenty of others out there do this and love it.
 
Ball-kicking is NOT where I'd start, especially for someone newer to pain/CBT, etc.

My first step after communicating as suggested would be reading up on CBT safety; as CM pointed out, there's plenty of info on that around. The last thing I'd want to do is damage someone because I was uninformed, and there's a very real possibility of harming the testes with hard impact and other types of play.

Secondly, I'd start with something I was comfortable with. Perhaps clothespins, then squeezing/pulling/slapping during sex (I know guys who like a hard pull or squeeze as they're coming) before moving on to harder slapping and impact. Toys--even things as simple as rulers and leather shoelaces--can produce some cool, and very intense, sensations.

A lot of feedback during and after each activity is very important to me as well.
 
start with slapping?

won't cause damage but will give him a taste of the pain.

or don't.
 
Ball kicking with high heels? I'm not sure..... I'm not into BDSM per se but my M likes me to handle his cock and balls quite rough sometimes. I had to get used to the idea and it took a lot of playing around to find the right way to do it. With the slapping, for instance, you both have to find out which position is best and what force you can use. You also need to be able to control your movements because we founds that the same slap or pull is fantastic here and hurts like hell there.

We bought a little flogger and are experimenting with it now. Like with the slapping it takes some practice to be able to handle 'the thing' right. Like playing darts: it looks so easy but then you try and don't even hit the round board at all if you know what I mean.

Like others have said: the heels thing is not a good idea to start with and if he has not been doing this before he needs to find out first too if the fantasy is as exciting as the real thing by carefully trying and building up to the fact.

I know from M that what looks kinda painful to me actually makes him very sensitive and therefor it makes sex better sometimes. I'm okay with that, but if you feel funny and can't get used to the idea and when it puts you off, you should not do it!
 
This thread is wrong on so many levels I don't know where to begin.

Love the testicles. Kiss them, lick them, never ever hurt them.
 
WriterDom said:
This thread is wrong on so many levels I don't know where to begin.

Love the testicles. Kiss them, lick them, never ever hurt them.
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You're a wise wise man.
 
o__0

I just could NOT do this. I would have to be punished for disobeying. I just can't do that sort of thing. When M and I were active, for my birthday he handed me my paddle and presented his OWN bottom to be tanned. (I know, right?) I cried so hard.... I couldn't do it. He acted disappointed in me and punished me by whipping my tail end hard. Its just not in me to bring pain to someone. Not unless they KNOW they will get off on it. If they know the pain will induce pleasure, then I might be persuaded to do it... but only along with many tears and much agony on my part.
 
SweetGigi said:
.... unless they KNOW they will get off on it. If they know the pain will induce pleasure, then I might be persuaded to do it...
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Well, that's why you have to start small to both define the level of hurt you are willing to give and he is willing/able to take for it to be still pleasurable for both.
 
Testicular and penile injury is easy to inflict. Permenant and quite serious damage can easily result from unlearned explorations. I strongly opposse this type of play for all but the most educated and experienced participants. As was rightly said, there are right and wrong ways but all too often people engage in the wrong ways.

As resiliant as the male genitals are, they must be handled with care, even when being tied, slapped, pinned, sounded, or even kicked. Isn't BDSM awesome? :devil: :D
 
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ChainedRebel said:
... there are right and wrong ways ...

As resiliant as the male genitals are, they must be handled with care, even when being tied, slapped, pinned, sounded, or even kicked. Isn't BDSM awesome? :devil: :D
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As far as my testicles go, there is, IMO, no "right" way to kick (/tie/slap/pin) them.
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TooTiredToLive said:
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As far as my testicles go, there is, IMO, no "right" way to kick (/tie/slap/pin) them.
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Mmmmm...long red nails gently scratching and toying and pinching all around...smothered and completely confined in bondage tape...stretched and wrapped in luscious cord and tied to a spreader bar...flogged and slapped until the precum drips freely...a long spiked nail pressing dangerously and controlling into the shaft...Oh yes...Uh hum, sorry, I just happen to enjoy a touch of CBT. :)

It's almost as much fun doing it to another as having it done to me. Almost... ;)
 
i can accept teeth and nails being used, but punching etc, not on my jewels people, if it can draw blood or bruise its too much
 
Ball kicking is related to ball punching and though they sound extreme, they can be as mild or as wild as the bottom wants. The key is to go slow and remember not to break your toys.

A strong kick to the balls without preparation or knowledge can result in permanent damage or more likely just the receiver throwing up. Many men experience an urge to vomit when kicked or punched in the balls. Not much fun during a scene, so you might want to experiment with mild taps to the scrotum first then build up to more forceful blows. Also, many players actually deliver the blow to the perineum, the space below the scrotum keeping the balls from absorbing the full force of the blow.
 
I wonder if the OP and her boyfriend live in Guelph, Ontario... from this article, maybe so...

But I love the last line of the article: "None of the women reported injuries." Umm, hey, writer? If the guy wants to be kicked, why would the women have any injuries to report???
 
goodgirl2 said:
My boyfriend wants me to put on my high heels and kick him in right in his testicles as hard as I can before we have sex. I am very unsure of this and I have been putting him off on this,he told me he read somewhere that it makes for great sex. I don't want to damage him for life. Do you think if I just do it once and make it hurt him bad enough he wont want me to ever to do it again??? Why would a guy want his balls to be kicked? I did kick a couple of guys back in high school but they had it coming not one of them asked me to do it................. :confused:
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You'd kick guys in the balls that you don't like, but you wouldn't kick your boyfriend, whom you love? That's just mean.

Sir_Winston54 said:
But I love the last line of the article: "None of the women reported injuries." Umm, hey, writer? If the guy wants to be kicked, why would the women have any injuries to report???
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Any woman kicking me in the balls will have injuries to report.
 
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