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kiwichyck

kiwichyck

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First of all, I know this subject has been done to death, but I need extra help! I've read all the threads I can find, watched porn, googled until my fingers hurt, and followed every smidgeon of advice I can find, so bear with me please. Short of begging Axel Braun to come to my house, I'm lost.

We've spent a LOT of time lately trying for the elusive G-spot orgasm and it continues to elude us. Frankly the squirting would be a bonus but I do believe that it is possible.

Anyway, anybody out there with experience of this please PLEASE help me! I can feel my G being stimulated, the sensation varies between absolute unadulterated bliss all the way through to feeling like poking an open wound.

Many a time I've spent the longest time teetering on the verge of orgasm until DH's fingers give out. It feels like I'm starting to pee but there's a blockage so it can't get out. If I add clit stimulation into the mix, then it just takes over and I have a clitoral O. A couple of times when I started cumming I got the outward/downward feeling that many people describe, but then the clit just took over and it was like the orgasm went backward and upward (I think those of you in the know will get what I'm saying - I hope).

Don't get me wrong, the sex is fantastic anyway, I'm just so jealous of you girls who enjoy regular g spot O's. Everything I've read says variations of the same thing, that we're doing everything right. It's just driving me nuts not being able to solve this problem or find any more specific information.

So, help a girl out huh?! ;)
 
The only way I can get a G-spot orgasm is to:

1) Be SUPER turned on, and you know exactly what I mean.

2) Have a good clitoral orgasm.

3) Then right away start stroking the g-spot hard and fast and then even harder. I like a g-spot vibe.


I'll squirt ~50% of the time.


I really hope you find it and enjoy it!

Good Luck!!!!
 
NaiveOne said:
The only way I can get a G-spot orgasm is to:

1) Be SUPER turned on, and you know exactly what I mean.

2) Have a good clitoral orgasm.

3) Then right away start stroking the g-spot hard and fast and then even harder. I like a g-spot vibe.


I'll squirt ~50% of the time.


I really hope you find it and enjoy it!

Good Luck!!!!
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same here, but i use a vib on the G-spot and it works like a charm. i have one with the little bend at the end, just made for that. and i seem to always squrit with a G - orgasm.

let us know how it goes ;-)
 
The first time I played with my g-spot, I laid a towel down so I could feel much more comfortable. Then I put on a porn video and got myself really turned on. I watched the video for about 15 minutes and then I started touching my pussy. I played with my clit for awhile, and then I stuck a finger inside, and played with my g spot. I squirted in about 15 minutes. That was the first time I did it, and I haven't really been able to do it since. I guess it only happens every once in a while. But my main advice would be:

Be super turned on (I think someone said that) because it makes everything feel so much better.
 
I am having the EXACT same issues! G-Spot vibe helps, but something seems to just "get in the way."
 
I don't usually try for a vaginal orgasm because I find the clitoral ones to be more intense, but I've had a few. I have a vibe dildo made out of several silicon orbs stuck together (think it was originally intended to be an anal toy, but oh well), the ridges passing over the G are quite effective, especially when combined with stimulation of the nipples. One thing to try is, see if it works better if your bladder is more empty or more full.
 
I got my girlfriend of the time squirting about 12 months ago. Similtaneous g and clit stimulation with fingers and tongue, plust the super turned on thing, of course.

And, uh, ecstasy can really help... :kiss:
 
Thanks so much for all your input.

None of it helps much, but thems the breaks I guess. We have ordered a g-spot vibe, so here's hoping that makes a difference although I'm not that optimistic given that vibes don't generally do much for me.

At least it is very nice to get advice which is slightly more deep than vague directions to where it may or may not be!

Any further thoughts gratefully welcomed.
 
When you get that needing to pee feeling, consciously take deep breaths and relax, and push out with your PC muscles. That's the opposite of what I tend to do as I approach a clit orgasm where I tend to tighten my PC muscles, so it took some practice to just relax and push the tension outward and downward.

But I've only manged it with a vibe - Hitachi magic wand, with the g attachment.
 
I just talked my sub into having one. What I did was to make her lube up her vibe or Dildo and stick one in her ass and one in her pussy and then plunge away. Then if the guy licks you while you are doing that or plays with you with a vibe, watch out! Thar she blows!!!! Make sure you put a towel down. Oh and when you do the one in the pussy make sure you angle it upward toward the g-spot. If you feel in your pussy upwards there is a raised kind of area and that needs to be stimulated and that is your g-spot. A toy you should invest in is a saturn wand. Check it out on njoytoy.com Happy cumming!!!
 
this is kiwichycks SO here

after further investigations on the net today we may have come up with the answer.

on a different forum site there was the same question.in this it said that the problem maybe in fact that she cant pee in anywhere but the toilet.
when her body gets the sensation "to pee" it automatically shutsdown. therefore you can with her g spot for as long as you like but nothing happens.

comes down to re programming your brain into thinking that peeing isnt bad and dirty, but an ordinary natural act.
suggestions were to try peeing alone in different places in your house until you were comfortable with that.after

all its not that much to clean up
 
yup, you have to override the conditioned response.

almost as if you are trying to pee deliberately, counter to what we all do with kegels. but this is while very turned on, and with much stimulation..for me its at least 15 minutes. its a little corner you turn in your mind, and be assured, its not pee that squirts out (but so what if it was..doesnt matter if it feels good!)
 
I had had every type of orgasm, but never squirted. Somehow,the man that I am with now can make me do this by manual (hand) stimulation only. It actually scared me at first because I felt like I needed to pee but couldn't. Yet I got soaked...he got soaked...it was amazing...had never felt anything like it before...but have since. My friend is only into manual stimulation because of a medical condition. But whatever it is that he does, he does it well.
 
I did it today. The conditions were: had just woken up from a nap including an erotic dream, bladder full, vibe dildo with ridges/spheres (pressing towards the front of my body), vibe egg on the clit.
 
Are you hitting the G?

kiwichyck said:
First of all, I know this subject has been done to death, but I need extra help! I've read all the threads I can find, watched porn, googled until my fingers hurt, and followed every smidgeon of advice I can find, so bear with me please. Short of begging Axel Braun to come to my house, I'm lost.

We've spent a LOT of time lately trying for the elusive G-spot orgasm and it continues to elude us. Frankly the squirting would be a bonus but I do believe that it is possible.

Anyway, anybody out there with experience of this please PLEASE help me! I can feel my G being stimulated, the sensation varies between absolute unadulterated bliss all the way through to feeling like poking an open wound.

Many a time I've spent the longest time teetering on the verge of orgasm until DH's fingers give out. It feels like I'm starting to pee but there's a blockage so it can't get out. If I add clit stimulation into the mix, then it just takes over and I have a clitoral O. A couple of times when I started cumming I got the outward/downward feeling that many people describe, but then the clit just took over and it was like the orgasm went backward and upward (I think those of you in the know will get what I'm saying - I hope).

Don't get me wrong, the sex is fantastic anyway, I'm just so jealous of you girls who enjoy regular g spot O's. Everything I've read says variations of the same thing, that we're doing everything right. It's just driving me nuts not being able to solve this problem or find any more specific information.

So, help a girl out huh?! ;)
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Squirting and the ellusive G
Step By Step.

1: The exact location... what are you using to get it?

The best way to get the G is with a partner who inserts fingers all the way, palm up and gently curl the tips of the fingers toward the chin.

Add clitoral (no vibration) soft slick touch or tongue, good rythem not too much speed is required.

I have used this on others, always works, always squirts, and I always hear OMG (insert name here).
 
siren319 said:
Squirting and the ellusive G
Step By Step.

1: The exact location... what are you using to get it?

The best way to get the G is with a partner who inserts fingers all the way, palm up and gently curl the tips of the fingers toward the chin.

Add clitoral (no vibration) soft slick touch or tongue, good rythem not too much speed is required.

I have used this on others, always works, always squirts, and I always hear OMG (insert name here).
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Location, location, location lol.
It feels to me like the right place thats for sure but Dh most often does not feel any discernable "spot".
Objects used fingers (my own and his), and dildo. Best results with his fingers.
Do add clit, gets me to a great O, but no squirt, and nothing that I would classify as radically different to a clit orgasm on a good day.

There is plenty of enjoyment in the practising anyway.
 
I know this may sound stupid, but I really don't get out much.
Where is the G-spot? Last time I ever did anything was about 2 years ago with a loser I called my "boyfriend" and I never got arroused or anything (too small in the pants).
 
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HornyInBKLYN said:
I know this may sound stupid, but I really don't get out much.
Where is the G-spot? Last time I ever did anything was about 2 years ago with a loser I called my "boyfriend" and I never got arroused or anything (too small in the pants).
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Insert one or two fingers in your vagina palm side up. Approximately 1-2 inches inside on the upper wall you will feel spongy tissue. That is your G-spot. When massaged for several minutes, you will feel a sensation like you need to pee. Keep massaging the area and you should squirt. It will not be urine, but ejaculatory fluid. Hope this helps!!!!
 
Fellatio Lover said:
Insert one or two fingers in your vagina palm side up. Approximately 1-2 inches inside on the upper wall you will feel spongy tissue. That is your G-spot. When massaged for several minutes, you will feel a sensation like you need to pee. Keep massaging the area and you should squirt. It will not be urine, but ejaculatory fluid. Hope this helps!!!!
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*blink* 1-2 inches? Well maybe I'm thinking of the wrong sensitive spot as my g-spot or something, but the spot that makes me squirt is an inch from my cervix, not an inch from the outside. :confused:
 
Extremely interesting!

I have the same problem. I had only one experience that was great and the guy was just a buddy...not even in a relationship.
When he started, it was very uncomfortable and then, one day, I squirted!
Since, it has never happen again :confused: That was at least 3 years ago!

My s/o is very caring and enjoy to try...just not happening. I do have vaginal orgasms but, they are so less intense without the G spot stimulated directly! A cock looks like it's too soft as a stimulation for me... Does anyone understand what I mean? Does anyone feels like that too?
 
sunandshadow said:
*blink* 1-2 inches? Well maybe I'm thinking of the wrong sensitive spot as my g-spot or something, but the spot that makes me squirt is an inch from my cervix, not an inch from the outside. :confused:
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It might seem closer to your cervix than the outside because of the position you may be in at the time. I've heard 2-3 inches in, 1-2 inches in - it varies from person to person...that's why it's so hard to find. Well, that, and the fact that you can't really feel it unless it's aroused.

http://www.lady-porn.com/straight/columns/!cid_part1.jpg
 
LadyJeanne said:
It might seem closer to your cervix than the outside because of the position you may be in at the time. I've heard 2-3 inches in, 1-2 inches in - it varies from person to person...that's why it's so hard to find. Well, that, and the fact that you can't really feel it unless it's aroused.

http://www.lady-porn.com/straight/columns/!cid_part1.jpg
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I agree with Lady Jeanne. It has to be aroused and that is when/where you are able to feel it. When not feeling it, it is because it is not aroused or not stimulated enough. Mine is more almost close the the entrance of my vagina. Everybody is different; some are very lucky; some are rare or some just can't find it. It took me almost a few months to find my gspot with lots of readings and stimulations. Don't give up because I did for 15 years...now I feel like Goddess Fountain. :D

Gypsy_Lis :rose:
 
Hi kiwichick and HrnyBkln.

There has been lots of the right advice in here for you. So no point going over it all again. However, the two things I would like to comment on are:

1. Get really aroused, I spend a long time on foreplay with the woman before trying gspot stimulation. Then as i ease my finger(s) in gently, I then gently massage the spot;
2. I always "talk" her through, the need to pee can be scary and embarrasing, so the woman needs to feel comfortable with this. I let her know it is just part of the feeling it and relax, let if flow. Some really squirt, others it is copious amounts of fluid. The sensations you will feel are sensual bliss.

A nice sunny afternoon with your partner is always a great time to enjoy the exploration for this.

have fun.
 
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