Calling all BBW's

Ladies, I have seen a few posts that the boys who love us have started. But, I wanted to get us all together for a chat! lol...so drop in say hi! I think we are each others strongest support system. I have noticed wiht pride some have lots of attitude and confidence....I am hoping you will take those like me under your wing and give those of us lacking some guidance and a boost in our morale! Take care ladies....keep doing what you do girls!

Hey Girl..........

PROUD BIG GIRL.......
Sassy......We are amazing!!!!!!!!! And damn straight WE are our own best support system. I really want to support "ALL" BBW.....We need to find our own inner strength and light for support. Look in the mirror and say to yourself......"
I'm Gorgeous Just As I Am." Daily....It really works..Then dress up. Not necissarily cause you need to impress someone. But your doing it for yourself. YOU......FOR YOU.....The other thing that helps me is to remember I'm the only me there is on this planet. ONLY 1......Same with all of us sweetie.......God Bless YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

MS.BETHANY

PS> WITH THE GUYS, BEAT THEM AT THEIR GAME.........IF THEIR WORTH IT THEY'LL WANT YOU ON YOUR TERMS!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hi Bethany!

Thanks for the reply! You are so right about the dressing up part. I wear scrubs and sneaks, with my hair up at work all week. Sometimes I just feel blah and it is so easy to wear scrubby clothes around the house and out to do errands. But, every so often I love to take my hair down....and throw on something a bit nicer....wether it be sexy, or cute, or just new....and go out. Not always out out, but even just to Wally world....lol. Plus, a gf of mine pointed out that I have a very feminine hip shaking walk....high heeled boots and sandles just accentuate that....so girls if you wanna show off that butt....heels will do it! Just get out there and let it shake, if it jiggles a bit, good. I have learned in the last year what I have that appeals to men, but I also have learned what I have that I find appealing. That was much more important. Thanks for the words of encouragement Bethany, you have a lot of spirit hon, good for you! Take care and keep on doing what you are doing doll. Kisses for you dear!

Damn Straight!

MEN adore plus size women. I've learned this lately. WOW.....
I went out and bought myself a lot of new stuff. But you know what really makes me feel sexy? Sexy new undergarmets. Bras,panties, tight lacing corsets...........Corests being my favorite. I'm training my waiste down. And I sure love the hour glass figure it gives me. Feel like a starlett in it. They're awesome under a dress, or over jeans! Maybe with an oversized mens shirt? I guess thats why I'm so different. Women don't dress like that here. Its like t-shirts and jeans. Which I'll do that too, but I've been taking this thing to the next level. Being myself. AND IF OTHER PEOPLE CAN'T HANDLE IT, THEY CAN KISS MY WHITE ASS!

REMEMBER: BIG IS BEAUTIFUL!

Beth

Here is me...wishing you....good luck with your thread.

BBW in Ohio

Hey,

Am I the only one who gets hit on all the time online but never in real life?
Anyway... I just wanted to join the thread. Ummm... as for advice.... I don't really have any. I haven't even been in a relationship in 3 years. Give me sympathy!

Hey Sassy

Just wanted to drop in and say hey......since you were kind enough to do the same for me.
I think this is a great thread you started, something thats maybe not necessarily for men to hit on or pick up on......
I am with you on the not dressing up at work and then finding it easy to "schlump" around when not at work.......sometimes you just get so used to automatically reaching for that same "type" of clothes........
I mean even with hair.......I have really long, dark brown, natural curly hair...goes to the top of my waistband in the back.......but its SO hot here and at work I run around SO much, during the summer months its always pulled back in a braided pony tail........not the most attractive hair do......LOL.
Ah well.........I couldnt sleep so I thought Id pop on and see what was up......hope you all have a great Friday.......and yes........we are just as worthy as those that need to eat a two piece and a biscuit.......LOL.

It's all about attitude.....

This comes from a plus size woman... but the thing I've learned in my life time is ATTITUDE plays a major part in everything we say and do. You've got to be positive, think positive, act positive whether it's in your personal life or business life.

You have to like yourself for who you are, what you are and the way you are... Just be YOURSELF... nobody else can be that person for you except for you. If someone can't accept you for who you are, what you are and the way you are, piss on em... you don't need em in the first place.

We all have that care free person some where... we just have to find her and let her surface.

My best friend is a beautiful woman, slender, perfect teeth, great smile but she has very low self esteem. I'm not perfect in anyway, not even close, but she becomes baffled when we go out at the amount of men who will ask me to dance, etc compared to how many ask her. Personally, I think the personality has alot to do with it. I'm not afraid to get on the dance floor and shake my booty and God knows I've got plenty of booty to shake lol.... but... I know what my best features are and I know how to use them....

When dealing with someone online, the first thing most want to know is what you look like... my description of myself?? I look like a donut, round, fluffy and have a hole in da middle... That always gets them to laughing and what a conversation starter it is....

Keep smiling and just be yourself....

Sheshena......

Seshena said:

Just wanted to drop in and say hey......since you were kind enough to do the same for me.
I think this is a great thread you started, something thats maybe not necessarily for men to hit on or pick up on......
I am with you on the not dressing up at work and then finding it easy to "schlump" around when not at work.......sometimes you just get so used to automatically reaching for that same "type" of clothes........
I mean even with hair.......I have really long, dark brown, natural curly hair...goes to the top of my waistband in the back.......but its SO hot here and at work I run around SO much, during the summer months its always pulled back in a braided pony tail........not the most attractive hair do......LOL.
Ah well.........I couldnt sleep so I thought Id pop on and see what was up......hope you all have a great Friday.......and yes........we are just as worthy as those that need to eat a two piece and a biscuit.......LOL.

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HOpe your Firday is good too hon! Today was one fo those days.....just schlepping around with gruniges on and my hair in a bun....had to take granpa to a MD appointment. ANd wouldn't you know the doctor was one fine looking brother! SOOOOOO HOT!!!! Looked single too....and I looked like a mess. But when he looked at me and smiled....I smiled rihgt back like I was waering Liz Taylor's jewels and minks! Take care hon, feel free to yack at me anytime!

hi

LuvsDaddy said:

This comes from a plus size woman... but the thing I've learned in my life time is ATTITUDE plays a major part in everything we say and do. You've got to be positive, think positive, act positive whether it's in your personal life or business life.

You have to like yourself for who you are, what you are and the way you are... Just be YOURSELF... nobody else can be that person for you except for you. If someone can't accept you for who you are, what you are and the way you are, piss on em... you don't need em in the first place.

We all have that care free person some where... we just have to find her and let her surface.

My best friend is a beautiful woman, slender, perfect teeth, great smile but she has very low self esteem. I'm not perfect in anyway, not even close, but she becomes baffled when we go out at the amount of men who will ask me to dance, etc compared to how many ask her. Personally, I think the personality has alot to do with it. I'm not afraid to get on the dance floor and shake my booty and God knows I've got plenty of booty to shake lol.... but... I know what my best features are and I know how to use them....

When dealing with someone online, the first thing most want to know is what you look like... my description of myself?? I look like a donut, round, fluffy and have a hole in da middle... That always gets them to laughing and what a conversation starter it is....

Keep smiling and just be yourself....

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That is so funny...the donut comment....someone once compared me to a Kripsy Kreme.....sweet soft and fluffy......and best when hot! Loved the entire post hon....so preach on girl! Take care and have an excellent weekend. Lots of kisses to you and your advice.....Bye

a little tea and sympathy

botticelliangel said:

Hey,

Am I the only one who gets hit on all the time online but never in real life?
Anyway... I just wanted to join the thread. Ummm... as for advice.... I don't really have any. I haven't even been in a relationship in 3 years. Give me sympathy!

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Well hon it has been about 8 years for me....adn I am only 28, since I have been in what even closely resembles a relationship. Yeah yeah, so here is a cup of tea my dear and a little sympathy, courtesy of me! I do get hit on all the time online.....it is so rare that I ever get hit on in real life. I think the last time I got truly hit on was April 1, 2001....and you can imagine what I thought that was about. *rolls eyes*......he was genuine, but I was not biting that night. I did get flirted with at Xmas time by a cute guy working at the mall....I think he was on crack! I keep getting how great I am in bed form the men I have F*ed and the men who are my close freinds say I am just the best....to my gf's I am funny, smart and sweet....just would be nice to fine the man that sees all that too....oh well. I am not gonna dwell...gonna head out and have me a few cocktails to unwind and see what is going on in this dead little town. Kisses!

Florida gal

Hi all, I'm fairly new to the board...

I'd appreciate a bit of low key flirting from the guys

... OK I have to do my "I don't diet any more rant...

After many too many diet regimes over the years that never did more than take off the first 30 lbs, even when I had the will power to noit cheat for months, and even went so far as to cut out the slice of bread that was allowed a day for two months... I finnaly said I was never going to stress myself out with dieting again.

I still wont diet, however my situation changed in 2003 when I was in a car accident (I was rear ended by a taxi cab during rush hour. He didn't even step on his breaks) I have two ruptured disks in my lower back, a couple more down there that are herniated and about three herniated in my neck.

I now have a handicapped tag, since I can't walk more than a about 100 yards or so before my back gets to the place it hurts to just stand.

After the accident my weight started going up again (from around 200 to close to twice that) and I have hypertension now (under control with meds) but for the last year and a half I have been considering Gastric Bypass. Not to get down to stick figure size, I'd be perfectly happy being 200 and statuesque again, anything less than that would be a bonus; but health wise I have to do something before it is too late.

I;m not too worried about allowed foods after the surgery, I've done my homework, and after about 2 years the new postion attached by the stomach takes on some of the old processing jobs of the part that has been disconnected.

The thing that I am considering is that with the antihistamines I take for an over active immune system, I need to take in a bit more water than normal. I "chug" liters of water. I don't know if I will be able to adjust my water habit to taking smaller sips more often.

If anyone has any experience with this procedure, PM me and let me know how you are coping with it. I want to be sure I hear a wide variety of views before I do something that is irreversable.

Have some for me, too!!

Cocktails that is lol...

SOME men can be just total pricks... and I DID say SOME..... NOT ALL.....

Let me tell ya.... after my divorce, I met this man... we dated, fell in love and I moved in with him. We lived together for five years. He was EVERYTHING I had ever wanted in a man, loving, giving, caring, affectionate, always complimenting me on what I wore, always noticing new hairdo's, new shades of eye shadow, nail polish, etc..... We lived together from 1993 to 1998.... then he told me about HER... what the heck... maybe she reads the forums LOL... her name is Belinda.... how he had NEVER gotten over her... she jilted him and married his cousin...welllllllllllll... the cousin had money... once the money was gone... so was he. Then she decides she's been in love with Bo all this time.... and he told me he had decided to move in with her.

I loved him enough to let him go.... my world was shattered.... He told me I didn't have to move out and that I could stay in his house rent free. I told him NOOOOOOO because anytime the two of them had an argument, it would be too easy for him to work his way back in with me and I wasn't going to put myself in that situation.

Well.... this gets better... so just bare with me....

He won a 100,000.00 law suit on behalf of a wrongful termination case... now that the money is gone... guess what?? SO IS HE!!! He didn't see this coming, why??? She's making him move. He started coming back around, claiming he needs someone to talk to.... yeah right!! He's horny and thinks I'm gonna put out... NOT THIS CHICKY..... He had his chance and he blew it. He swears up and down that he loves me and he's sorry he hurt me and all this other blah blah blah bullcrap.... and then in the SAME breath, he turns around and comes on to my room mate in front of me. What a jerk!!! And, like a fool, she's eating it all up, too!!

Guess I said all of that to say this..... LADIES.... don't EVER settle for second best!! You're the best and you deserve the best..... If a man really loves you... if he really wants to be with you... he'll wait and he'll do it on YOUR terms... not his.

The same advice goes to men about women... I know there are women out there who just use and abuse men.... now... if we can hook all the users up together, then the rest of us decent men and women would have a better chance of hooking up.

Thanks for letting me vent!! Have a wonderful weekend everyone!!

Huggles and smoochiessss...

This has started out to be an interesting thread and I wish all the BBWs the best and hope that you all build a strong thread in here and in life. I appreciate what a Big and Beautiful Woman has to offer and you guys dont get the attention you deserve. Have fun and be who you want to be, dont worry about what others think and be confident in you. That I guess is my advice to throw out there for the day. I'll keep an eye on here for sure. If you ever need a guy for whatever reason just let me know...and again good luck to all.

Lookinguphill said:

This has started out to be an interesting thread and I wish all the BBWs the best and hope that you all build a strong thread in here and in life. I appreciate what a Big and Beautiful Woman has to offer and you guys dont get the attention you deserve. Have fun and be who you want to be, dont worry about what others think and be confident in you. That I guess is my advice to throw out there for the day. I'll keep an eye on here for sure. If you ever need a guy for whatever reason just let me know...and again good luck to all.

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Kisses to you

Private_Label said:

Hi all, I'm fairly new to the board...

I'd appreciate a bit of low key flirting from the guys

... OK I have to do my "I don't diet any more rant...

After many too many diet regimes over the years that never did more than take off the first 30 lbs, even when I had the will power to noit cheat for months, and even went so far as to cut out the slice of bread that was allowed a day for two months... I finnaly said I was never going to stress myself out with dieting again.

I still wont diet, however my situation changed in 2003 when I was in a car accident (I was rear ended by a taxi cab during rush hour. He didn't even step on his breaks) I have two ruptured disks in my lower back, a couple more down there that are herniated and about three herniated in my neck.

I now have a handicapped tag, since I can't walk more than a about 100 yards or so before my back gets to the place it hurts to just stand.

After the accident my weight started going up again (from around 200 to close to twice that) and I have hypertension now (under control with meds) but for the last year and a half I have been considering Gastric Bypass. Not to get down to stick figure size, I'd be perfectly happy being 200 and statuesque again, anything less than that would be a bonus; but health wise I have to do something before it is too late.

I;m not too worried about allowed foods after the surgery, I've done my homework, and after about 2 years the new postion attached by the stomach takes on some of the old processing jobs of the part that has been disconnected.

The thing that I am considering is that with the antihistamines I take for an over active immune system, I need to take in a bit more water than normal. I "chug" liters of water. I don't know if I will be able to adjust my water habit to taking smaller sips more often.

If anyone has any experience with this procedure, PM me and let me know how you are coping with it. I want to be sure I hear a wide variety of views before I do something that is irreversable.

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Go for it, I had the surgery in Nov of 2004 and Im down 130 pounds. Yes it is a whole new life style of eating and honestly I don't miss the old foods. In fact most of them make me sick when I have tried them.
It is a daily struggle to get in the protein and the water. But so well worth the effort. Before surgery I took 12 different meds for lots of problems. I now take nothing and Im very healthy, have not felt this good in years and my whole attitude on life has changed.
I weigh 230 now, and I feel sexy and whats more, I have lots of guys tell me I look sexy. I will never be a skinny person, probably will level off at about 150. But if I never lost another pound I would could deal with that, now I love myself and don't really care if anyone else loves me or not.
I did this surgery for myself, not to get a guy to pick me up.
I say love yourself and go for it.

Missed this post, sorry ladies *king of all bbw's bows*

bethyj32 said:

PROUD BIG GIRL.......
Sassy......We are amazing!!!!!!!!! And damn straight WE are our own best support system. I really want to support "ALL" BBW.....We need to find our own inner strength and light for support. Look in the mirror and say to yourself......"
I'm Gorgeous Just As I Am." Daily....It really works..Then dress up. Not necissarily cause you need to impress someone. But your doing it for yourself. YOU......FOR YOU.....The other thing that helps me is to remember I'm the only me there is on this planet. ONLY 1......Same with all of us sweetie.......God Bless YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

MS.BETHANY

PS> WITH THE GUYS, BEAT THEM AT THEIR GAME.........IF THEIR WORTH IT THEY'LL WANT YOU ON YOUR TERMS!!!!!!!!!!!!

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That's actually right, if you find a guy like me, who is a whore for the bigger girls, you can pretty much get anything you want out of me. But however, when it's bedroom time, I tend to take a little control. Not in any devious manner, unless you like it that way. At minimum what I try to do is create an experience that will remain a permanent part of the sexual rolodex in your head.

All you have to do, is flip back to the experience and you instantly get soaked. How's that sound? Egotistical? Nope. Overconfident? FUCK YEAH.

Kevin

I bow to all of you Beautiful Ladies too. I'm a very big fan of larger ladies and love seeing them.

j

hummmmmmmmmmmm

I wanted to stop by and say hello......
I recently lost 60 pds. The old fashioned way. Its taken me 2 yrs. 40 of it falling off since Febuary. I'm really doin' ok. But hit this nasty platuea. Its lasted 2 weeks, and I want to scream. but you know. It'll drop eventually. So 49 left. Work and more work. Lol. But its comin off. Lol. So I just wanted to say Hi... and say stay strong.

God bless,
Beth

suzieq4u_r said:

Kisses to you

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Thanks Suzie....I appreciate it...everywant to talk let me know.

bethyj32 said:

I wanted to stop by and say hello......
I recently lost 60 pds. The old fashioned way. Its taken me 2 yrs. 40 of it falling off since Febuary. I'm really doin' ok. But hit this nasty platuea. Its lasted 2 weeks, and I want to scream. but you know. It'll drop eventually. So 49 left. Work and more work. Lol. But its comin off. Lol. So I just wanted to say Hi... and say stay strong.

God bless,
Beth

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Congrats! Keep up the good work...we are all pulling for you to reach your goal.

Blowing s to the sexy ladies here.

Darkknight2010 said:

Blowing s to the sexy ladies here.

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Hi ladies and gents

I left a kiss for Lookinuphill then forgot to write something down lol.....I want to congratulate all those that have lost their weight YOU ROCK!!! It inspires me to get along in my diet also not because I want to be skinny god forbid....but to be healthier, which I am....I'm one of the lucky ones who has the weight but dont have the health problems and my doctor keeps a close eye on that...but I do fluctuate up and down and I KNOW I can lose it....my goal is to be a size 16-18 and I'd be totally happy with that....not that I'm not happy now lol....I'm proud of myself and I do have lots of fun....in the last year I have been more active socially and sexually and I am still astounded by how many men love bigger women....I've had a lot of fun to

I am an 18 yr old bbw and I have always wished that I could post pictures of myself on lit for as long as I have known about the site... I DIDN'T like my body but when I posted everyone loved them I feel a hell of a lot better about myself now... lit viewers have to be the best people out there! I love you all!!

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