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Jasmine12345

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The man talks about his other lovers while in bed with her. He doesn't personally have sex with her often and usually just wants her to be around when he has another woman or he likes to be around when another man is with her. The thought of “sex objects ” evokes intense erotic heat throughout. He takes her to meet his buddies. Frequent house parties for small circle of intimate friends. She is a good third and a romantic subservient companion for him and his lovers.

Erotic conversation or simple RP in both public and private (On Lit only).

I don't enjoy BDSM rituals or the paraphernalia.
 
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Dominants are not factory packed dinners to be reheated and consumed mindlessly, sitting in front of an idiot Box.
In every dominants life there have to be continuous feedbacks and course corrections from the Sub.
Even thereafter,a strong dominant may require moral and emotional support from the sub in his weeker moments.
 
You are thinking too far ahead, too much and too serious for this ad.
My ad only suggests this is only for erotic conversation or simple RP and on Lit only.
Not intended going for a “relationship” online or offline.
 
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Jasmine12345 said:
You are thinking too far ahead, too much and too serious.
My ad only suggests this is only for erotic conversation or simple RP and on Lit only.
Not intended going for a “relationship” online or offline.
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There are no halfway interactions in the BDSM world.
 
Lance's comments are sort of valid. If you're just looking to roleplay a d/s dynamic, this probably isn't the place to be looking.

I was thinking about this in relation to the other thread you started involving the 'psychological' aspect of bdsm. I'm wondering if you think that 'actual' bdsm has to involved physical domination, and that the psychological aspect of it is a bit of an afterthought. I can only really speak for myself when I say that's very much not the case ... for me (and I suspect for a number of others on either side of the equation) the psychological aspect is at the core of the whole thing.

So if you're advertising yourself here as 'a submissive' seeking 'erotic conversation' regarding quite specific scenarios, but without that involving an aspect of domination on the part of the other person, it's a little confusing for people.
 
Jasmine12345 said:
You are thinking too far ahead, too much and too serious for this ad.
My ad only suggests this is only for erotic conversation or simple RP and on Lit only.
Not intended going for a “relationship” online or offline.
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They are talking about relationships and you are looking for a one off RP fun. Relationships are usually much more satisfying, but there is nothing wrong with co-writing this scenario either. I did both, enjoyed both, then stopped RPing because I was not into it anymore.

What LG is talking about is certainly true for BDSM, but you are not looking for that. At least not yet. Good luck in finding your writing partner!
 
KimGordon67 said:
So if you're advertising yourself here as 'a submissive' seeking 'erotic conversation' regarding quite specific scenarios, but without that involving an aspect of domination on the part of the other side, it's a little confusing for people.
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I read it completely differently -- she is looking to roleplay submission, but ONLY on the psychological level, hence no BDSM specific toys or scenarios. Given that submission does not really need either of those, I don't see any problems with her request. I personally draw the line at talking about others, when you are with me, you are with me, both in body and mind, the rest of the world does not exist for a while, but that's me. I am sure she will find enough guys here that will be happy to co-write her version too.
 
Yes, Annie, this ad is just an expression of my fantasy for a RP, not showing desire for a Relationship.

You are very perceptive and very courageous in articulating your thoughts.

A few men did come to my existing RP thread. None of them had your style.
All they said was "PM me".
 
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AnnieLit said:
I read it completely differently -- she is looking to roleplay submission, but ONLY on the psychological level, hence no BDSM specific toys or scenarios. Given that submission does not really need either of those, I don't see any problems with her request. I personally draw the line at talking about others, when you are with me, you are with me, both in body and mind, the rest of the world does not exist for a while, but that's me. I am sure she will find enough guys here that will be happy to co-write her version too.
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Yes, I get all this ... I'm mostly just suggesting that the bdsm personals is possibly not the place to post this, as people here are usually looking for actual bdsm, as per Lance's posts. She would be better off posting in the role-play section, as she is wanting to role-play a bdsm scenario, not actually be involved in one.
 
Jasmine12345 said:
For men (straight or bi) over 40 yo or any woman over 18 (Im straight )

The man talks about his other lovers while fucking me. He doesn't personally fuck me often. There are others come around. The thought of “sex objects to be used by men” evokes intense erotic heat throughout. He takes me to his buddies' houses. Frequent house parties for small circle of intimate friends. I am a good third and a romantic subservient companion for him and his lovers. The man can be very assertive and strong based on his confidence. Tough but not crude.

The above ideas should be enough for now. We can do erotic conversation or simple RP in both public and private (On Lit only).

I don't enjoy BDSM rituals or the paraphernalia.
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I feel like this is maybe where the issue is - if you are boiling 'real' bdsm down to 'rituals or paraphenalia', that's sort of missing the point. The psychological aspect IS, for a lot people, the core of any d/s dynamic - the physical aspects, the 'ritual', the paraphernalia are all, at least in my experience, options extras. If you are suggesting you want to experience the psychological aspect, that doesn't make it 'just roleplay' - it's still submission. But if you just want to role-play the psychological aspect then, as Lance suggested, the bdsm boards are probably not the place to look.
 
Jasmine12345 said:
Yes, Annie, this ad is just an expression of my fantasy for a RP, not showing desire for a Relationship.

You are very perceptive and very courageous in articulating your thoughts.

A few men did come to my existing RP thread. None of them had your style.
All they said was "PM me".
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Well, thank you!

There are few different styles of RPing. Some like to do it in the threads, some in PMs, some in chat rooms, I personally prefer shared google docs that both parties can edit. At first I chose it out of the convenience of editing and adding images, but then I was told by a few RP partners that it was very exiting for them when they happened to be online when I was writing -- they could see in real time letters appearing on the screen, me changing my mind and re-writing a sentence, making silly mistakes and having an autocorrector take care of those. For them it was much more personal than just reading the final version.

So don't judge people by the fact that they don't want to write with you in the threads. Sure, most of them can't write, but not necessarily all. Send them PMs, talk about how they see this working, and go from there.
 
AnnieLit said:
Well, thank you!

There are few different styles of RPing. Some like to do it in the threads, some in PMs, some in chat rooms, I personally prefer shared google docs that both parties can edit. At first I chose it out of the convenience of editing and adding images, but then I was told by a few RP partners that it was very exiting for them when they happened to be online when I was writing -- they could see in real time letters appearing on the screen, me changing my mind and re-writing a sentence, making silly mistakes and having an autocorrector take care of those. For them it was much more personal than just reading the final version.

So don't judge people by the fact that they don't want to write with you in the threads. Sure, most of them can't write, but not necessarily all. Send them PMs, talk about how they see this working, and go from there.
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I suspect people who like the interactive docs method have a love of the written word and the creative process. And yes it does seem more intimate, and more human, for we all have flaws, they make us special and unique.
 
Booboobear84 said:
I suspect people who like the interactive docs method have a love of the written word and the creative process. And yes it does seem more intimate, and more human, for we all have flaws, they make us special and unique.
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I suspect that in order to enjoy the written form of role playing one. at a minimum has to have a love of the written word. It might not be enough for a successful play, but without it I can't imagine the story getting too far.

I was told that the biggest part of the attraction was the fact that they knew that I was writing it at that very moment. Which meant that they knew exactly what I was thinking about. If it happened to be a sex scene, then what was on the paper (em...screen), was at that very moment in my mind. If you want to masturbate to a thought of a penpal, then knowing that right now she is thinking in details about deepthroating your cock might be very helful. LOL
 
man talks about his other lovers while fucking you .... these would be other subs, whores, cumsluts, bitches needing to be used and abused.........
 
Jasmine12345 said:
For men (straight or bi) over 40 yo or any woman over 18 (Im straight )

The man talks about his other lovers while fucking me. He doesn't personally fuck me often. There are others come around. The thought of “sex objects to be used by men” evokes intense erotic heat throughout. He takes me to his buddies' houses. Frequent house parties for small circle of intimate friends. I am a good third and a romantic subservient companion for him and his lovers. The man can be very assertive and strong based on his confidence. Tough but not crude.

The above ideas should be enough for now. We can do erotic conversation or simple RP in both public and private (On Lit only).

I don't enjoy BDSM rituals or the paraphernalia.
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Actually you are precisely what I am looking for. If we were able to meet physically, I would make you dress with just a shirt and a skirt, that can be opened easily in the front. I would take you to a porn cinema, where I would seat us next to a very young guy. As young as possible. Ideally a virgin. After some time, I would start to fondle your breasts, making sure he notices. After some time, when I'll be sure he watches, I will open your shirt, and after fondling your breast under the shirt for a moment, I will take it out for him to see. I'll tell you then to check if he has a hard on, by putting your hand on his dick over his pants. Then I'll make you open his fly and put your hand inside his pants and masturbate him over his underwear. I want you to make him come in is pants. Meanwhile, I'll open your skirt, to feel how wet you are and for him to see.
If this is the type of things that turns you on, and if you are willing to play the game, let's move on, and tell me how to DM you (I'm not very fond of public discussions)
 
Yes let's take him home. In the cab, I completely open your skirt and cares it allowing a full view. When we exit the cab, he is distressed because the huge wet spot of his orgasm in his pants is very visible and enhances the viewof his hardon. Before paying the cab, I stroke his dick in front of the cabbie. He goes red as a tomato.
In the elevator, I open his fly and take out his dick. I make you kneel to start to suck it. It smells of his dried sperm. As the elevator stops, we enter my flat, I undress you comletely and hand him over to me. You know what I like, and after some fondling you mount him cowgirl style. Neither of you is allowed to come. When youfeel he is coming you get off him. It' his time to be on his knees. I make him open my fly carees me trhough my pants in front of you. I take my prick out and make him kiss my balls and suck me. Then I make him stand and take is balls in my hand and squeeze them until its painfull. I have him fuck you while your on your back. I startto fuck his mouth while he fucks you. You have a perfect view of my dick entering/exiting his mouth. I let him suck it for some time, and when I feel he is coming close to come in you, I move to the other end and fuck him in the ass. Each of my pushes forces him to push farther into you.
 
Jasmine,
I'm new here, sorry if this was not thé place.
Not sure what you're looking for here. Honestly I don't understand.
Not sure if the style comment is meant to snub me, anyway,I don't care about your style, I just care about your kinks ... Is there somewhere you can follow me, or just do we leave it at this ?
 
Killdozer69,
Thank you for responding.
No, no snubbing there. I really can't do the RP the way you do.
Thank you again. I'll rest. Have a good day
 
Killdozer69 said:
Not sure what you're looking for here. Honestly I don't understand.
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She:"not so much for isolated hardcore sex scenes."

You:"I start to fuck his mouth while he fucks you. You have a perfect view of my dick entering/exiting his mouth."
 
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