Does she expect more from him?
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Even as a guy I can answer that for you, because it will depend on the girl.
Every girl is different, same as every man.
Every girl is different, same as every man.
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but what about most girls?
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then which would be a more appropriate forum?
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That's not what Suzie said. Your first post in this thread has a poll which doesn't seem related to the question you asked.
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Does anyone have the number to Domino's? I'd like to order some paella.
I think you should know more about platonic love. I found my old article for you about relationships https://www.happymatches.com/blog/hook-up/best-hookup-sites
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oh yeah sorry i made a mistake...i mean't to ask if yes or no in relation to the thread/question..sorry guys
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Most girls have two legs. Most girls have hair. Most girls eat food every day. All meaningless facts. Beyond that, females don't share a brain. Even if we could tell you what most girls like/want, it would be meaningless. The only thing that means something is what *your* girl likes.
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Yep!!!
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I hate to burst your bubble, but they don't sell that.
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Okay... Let me throw some things out there for you that may or may not be helpful as your post seemed a little convoluted.
No girl is going to know if you are doing well with your job unless she sees your progress report or perhaps works with you.
If a girl/woman wants to get married (not all do), she would likely want a man who is financially stable. Meaning he can support himself, maybe even makes some extra and doesn't have a lot of debt. If she is younger, then a college man who is doing well in school and has at least a part time job would be a good start.
Girls/women generally like communication with their guy. Some like texts, some like phone calls, Some like both. How often they want to hear from you and what they want to hear will vary. If you text one woman three times a day, she might consider that excessive. Another woman might start worrying if she sends you a text and you don't respond within 5 minutes. Some women think *they* should not message the man at all. She will wait for you to message her. Some will freak if you mention sex. Some will like you to.
Basically you have to sum up the person you are with. Is she shy? If she outgoing? How does she dress? What does she like?
One thing that will work with pretty much all women is for you to bring her something she likes. Doesn't have to be expensive. Does she have a cat or a dog? Bring a toy or some treats for the pet. If she likes Diet Coke, bring her a cold Diet Coke. Maybe she likes a certain candy bar or has a certain color. Maybe she likes purple. Get a purple refrigerator magnet, a purple pen, a purple chip clip or really any little thing in her favorite color. She will like the fact that you took notice of something and remembered it.
But bottom line, communication is key. Don't ask simple questions like her favorite food or color because those lead nowhere. Instead ask her something like... If money were no object, what would your house be like? Where would you build it? How would the yard look? Would it be big or small? Describe the rooms. Or you could start small and ask her to describe her perfect kitchen. You can have a dialog back and forth about that, agreeing or disagreeing on various things and talking about why you would like or dislike them. You can learn a lot about her that way.
And when she is talking, try to listen. Even if she is yapping away a mile a minute (like I'm prone to do), look at her, smile and once in a while, parrot back a bit of what she said so it will at least look like you are listening. Example: So you say the Tipsy Cow has the best milkshakes ever? We'll have to go there sometime!
No girl is going to know if you are doing well with your job unless she sees your progress report or perhaps works with you.
If a girl/woman wants to get married (not all do), she would likely want a man who is financially stable. Meaning he can support himself, maybe even makes some extra and doesn't have a lot of debt. If she is younger, then a college man who is doing well in school and has at least a part time job would be a good start.
Girls/women generally like communication with their guy. Some like texts, some like phone calls, Some like both. How often they want to hear from you and what they want to hear will vary. If you text one woman three times a day, she might consider that excessive. Another woman might start worrying if she sends you a text and you don't respond within 5 minutes. Some women think *they* should not message the man at all. She will wait for you to message her. Some will freak if you mention sex. Some will like you to.
Basically you have to sum up the person you are with. Is she shy? If she outgoing? How does she dress? What does she like?
One thing that will work with pretty much all women is for you to bring her something she likes. Doesn't have to be expensive. Does she have a cat or a dog? Bring a toy or some treats for the pet. If she likes Diet Coke, bring her a cold Diet Coke. Maybe she likes a certain candy bar or has a certain color. Maybe she likes purple. Get a purple refrigerator magnet, a purple pen, a purple chip clip or really any little thing in her favorite color. She will like the fact that you took notice of something and remembered it.
But bottom line, communication is key. Don't ask simple questions like her favorite food or color because those lead nowhere. Instead ask her something like... If money were no object, what would your house be like? Where would you build it? How would the yard look? Would it be big or small? Describe the rooms. Or you could start small and ask her to describe her perfect kitchen. You can have a dialog back and forth about that, agreeing or disagreeing on various things and talking about why you would like or dislike them. You can learn a lot about her that way.
And when she is talking, try to listen. Even if she is yapping away a mile a minute (like I'm prone to do), look at her, smile and once in a while, parrot back a bit of what she said so it will at least look like you are listening. Example: So you say the Tipsy Cow has the best milkshakes ever? We'll have to go there sometime!
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