Does a guy jacking off turn a lady on?

Does watching another mastrubate turn you on?

  • I'm F or M, and another jacking or jilling is gross.

    Votes: 2 0.2%
  • I'm F, and almost any M jacking off does it.

    Votes: 173 13.2%
  • I'm M, and almost any F jilling off does it.

    Votes: 553 42.2%
  • I'm F, and I turn on only when a special M does it.

    Votes: 163 12.4%
  • I'm M, and I turn on only when a special F does it.

    Votes: 96 7.3%
  • I'm F, and another M mastrubating does nothing for me.

    Votes: 28 2.1%
  • I'm M, and another F mastrubating does nothing for me.

    Votes: 5 0.4%
  • I'm M or F, and I enjoy watching anyone.

    Votes: 264 20.2%
  • I'm M, and "none of the above"

    Votes: 11 0.8%
  • I'm F, and "none of the above"

    Votes: 15 1.1%

  • Total voters
    1,310

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Another thread suggested a poll.

I suspect that what I was raised with (ugh! girls don't want to see that mess) doesn't apply.

I'd like to know how much it does, please.

If you're gay, please adjust your response appropriately.

Thanks!
 
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My reason for "other"

I voted other only because I have to be in the right mood in order to enjoy watching. And there's only a select few that I enjoy watching while in that mood. Make any sense?
 
I can watch damn near anything to do with consensual sex and enjoy it.

No kids.
No pets.
No urination/defecation.

Pretty much anything else consensual goes.
 
I'm into it - but it depends on the man involved. And as long as it isn't the fake induced pleasure that porn flicks provide. When I become involved with a man, I like to watch him jack off because it helps me to understand what he likes. I also do find it sexy as hell!
 
SexyChele said:
I'm into it - but it depends on the man involved. And as long as it isn't the fake induced pleasure that porn flicks provide. When I become involved with a man, I like to watch him jack off because it helps me to understand what he likes. I also do find it sexy as hell!

I do like to watch early on because like you said it helps with knowing what a man likes and how he likes it but I've never been turned on by it......just makes me jealous.
 
I love to watch my husband do it, but only if he's not looking at porn. I'm assuming that's where the jealousy comes in, Lynnzertorte? Didn't even think of that when voting.
I LOVE when my husband does it while he's looking at me. HOT. (course there is the problem of wasting a perfectly good orgasm on the outside -- love how it feels when he comes in me, and never saw the point to guys who want to come On you.) But the whole thing, watching his hands, the way he touches himself, slowly stroking while looking me in the eyes, the look on his face when he's getting really close and holding himself so hard, getting to really See him orgasm, in a way you can't when his face is an inch from yours....

On say, a porn video, or if I just happened across some guy who was masturbating, nahh. Don't have anything against it, per se, it just doesn't do anything for me -- I don't think. (Can't be absolutely sure unless I was hooked up to some Masters and Johnson's equipment or something. Supposedly, they found that women said they didn't respond to porn but actually did.) Don't know if that is because I'm not personally involved with the person, or because I don't usually find the guys in porn attractive.
 
Phoenix Stone said:
course there is the problem of wasting a perfectly good orgasm

Phoenix, it appears you and I have a a shared interest in the "bitch" factor......too funny.

As for a guy jacking off, other than for learning purposes, I don't see the need for it when I'm in the room....but maybe I need to open my eyes and try seeing it from another point of view. Something to think about.
 
Lynnezertorte said:
I do like to watch early on because like you said it helps with knowing what a man likes and how he likes it but I've never been turned on by it......just makes me jealous.
Jealous how? Jealous of what, pray tell?
 
But I'm also not in a relationship right now so the thought of any guy jerking off when I'm going without just makes me sad. What a waste. :(
 
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The special someone

Personally, if it is someone I love or like, I get a great kick out of watching him, not just sexually, but spiritually as well, but then again, i'm weird.
 
Re: The special someone

cat28 said:
Personally, if it is someone I love or like, I get a great kick out of watching him, not just sexually, but spiritually as well, but then again, i'm weird.
I like watching any guy masturbate...it's a turn on...but I agree that watching one's SO masturbate is on a whole other level, sexually and emotionally.
 
Ummm...YES.

I love to watch it. It sets me off, gets me so damn hot I can't wait to attack him. The very idea of it makes me horny.

Hell...even a message on my voice mail or a phone call at any hour from a special man saying, "Hey...listen to this" is enough to get me going all day long.

But not just ANYBODY can get that reaction from me. It has to be a man I'm comfortable with. Someone I have history with. Without that, that kind of phone call is just annoying...and of course, if I were not comfortable with him I wouldn't be seeing him naked to begin with, so that's a moot point...

Man, see? I'm even rambling now. The idea just GETS me. :D

S.
 
It only turns me on watching my husband doing it. Other males jacking off doesn't do anything for me.

*stardust*
 
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It has to be a special guy. We've got to have some kind of erotic connection then watching a man masturbate is amazing.

I love to watch my husband wanking. I love to watch the whole of him, not just his hand on his cock but his face and his body. I lovve seeing how he turns himself on.

I love to catch him masturbating on the sly too*wg* then i can pounce on him and take advantage of his horniness!
 
SexyChele said:
I'm into it - but it depends on the man involved. And as long as it isn't the fake induced pleasure that porn flicks provide. When I become involved with a man, I like to watch him jack off because it helps me to understand what he likes. I also do find it sexy as hell!

I'd have to go with your response, SexyChele, with the genders reversed.

I like watching any woman pleasure herself, but watching someone special can give me lots of clues about what to do with my fingers and tongue.
 
Great thread!

This is very interesting, I like masterbating in front of my wife or while she is in bed with me. We have come to an agreement that when she is not in the mood she will stroke me to a hard-on and then I take over and finish. It is a big turn on for me, but I don't know about her.
But this is an idea for a good thread "Do you like masterbating in front of your SO?
 
Lynnezertorte said:
Phoenix, it appears you and I have a a shared interest in the "bitch" factor......too funny.

As for a guy jacking off, other than for learning purposes, I don't see the need for it when I'm in the room....but maybe I need to open my eyes and try seeing it from another point of view. Something to think about.

Yeah, I noticed that, too. And you should have seen my previous av -- a very funny drawing of a prissy cat drawn by my daughter. I think you're the only other woman I've seen on here who's used a funny av.

As for the jacking off, it's just another way to enjoy him, for me. A nice visual, very sensual and inviting. Like watching someone you love dance.
 
I've always been a fan of MUTUAL masturbation. I think that kind of hot energy translates back & forth. Seeing a woman in front of me masturbating only makes me want to stroke that much harder.
 
Jerking off in front of my wife turns me on so much that it makes me want to jerk off, in front of her of course. What a wonderful catch 22!!
 
I absolutely love jack off in front of my girlfriend and my girlfriend loves to see me jack off.

When I do jack off for her tho, I usually dont do it all the way untl I cum, just as foreplay and such
 
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