Strap-on Sex - F to M

Bama and Au Man, too ....

... but where's Mr. Happy?

francypants said:

... but where's Mr. Happy?

Click to expand...

I've seen him on other threads and can get him back through a PM with the link...

I think it was on the BDSM Talk Strap on thread...

ok..... does anyone else really have this on their mind

I'm just listening to music.... and pondering.....
would Bonnie be the kind of woman who would give her man love
in a new way? Certainly a strange twist on love.

If so.... then how might a song change or how can I listen to it.
Push coming to shove....

Little changes. I'll leave it to you to figure out what words I was changing in my head. "Radio" doesn't seem to fit throughout. The song builds.... in intensity.
"Got my radio on".......... "Got my" hmmmm three syllables...? on...??

Free download....
http://www.metrolyrics.com/lyrics/143039/Bonnie_Raitt/Love_Letter
Love Letter - Bonnie Raitt
Sittin' in front of your house,
Like rain in early dawn
Workin' on a love letter
Got my radio on.

Got my eye on your window pane
And I smoked a lot of cigarettes.
Mercy, mercy but love is strange
And you haven't even kissed me yet.

Look comes to push,
Push comes to shove,
Shove comes to touch,
Touch will come to love.

Workin' on a love letter,
Listenin' to a love song,
I'm writing you a love letter, love letter,
Got my radio on...radio, radio

Hope you get the message baby.
I know that you're gonna let me in.
It's real in your neighborhood
And this is more than I'm gonna bend.

Look comes to push,
Push comes to shove,
Shove comes to touch,
Touch will come to love.

Why don't sit waitin'
Why don't behavin'
Love's waiting in the car,
In the car and rain now.

Workin' on a love letter,
Listenin' to a love song,
I'm writing you a love letter, love letter,
Got my radio on...radio, radio

Guitar solo

Look comes to push,
Push comes to shove,
Shove comes to touch,
Touch will come to love.

(3 times with adlibs)
Workin' on a love letter,
Listenin' to a love song,
I'm writing you a love letter, love letter,
Got my radio on...radio, radio

francypants said:

... but where's Mr. Happy?

Click to expand...

Hey Im still here babe,

Your the one that keeps running off on me

Give me a yell sometime, you know the addy

mr happy said:

Hey Im still here babe,

Your the one that keeps running off on me

Give me a yell sometime, you know the addy

Click to expand...

And I didn't even need to hunt you down!

My man has mentioned that he would like this, and i'm game.. but he also said he wants a "small" strap-on, so just how small should i get it?

What would be the best approach to initiating using it as well??

kickboxqueen said:

My man has mentioned that he would like this, and i'm game.. but he also said he wants a "small" strap-on, so just how small should i get it?

What would be the best approach to initiating using it as well??

Click to expand...

Good for you!

Well, that is a tough question to answer.

When we started we began with the Ultra Harness 2000 with the 6" dildo, but with my wife's inexperience thrusting and because she lacked the sensations a penis has, she had difficulty with pulling too far back and accidently exiting me.

The exit wasn't the problem, but the next thrust tha missed the mark was...
<ouch>

After our first try we ordered a 7" because she had already used a vibe that was 7" on me...

There isn't a width difference between the two models either. We have since moved up to the UR3 8" model. (Ultra Realistic)

We both believe the UR's are much more life like... Expensive, yes, but we use it more than all our others which are now collecting dust.

Sorry for the delay in replying, but I went back several pages to find where we had discussed this because there are many differing opinions.

au_man said:

Good for you!

Well, that is a tough question to answer.

When we started we began with the Ultra Harness 2000 with the 6" dildo, but with my wife's inexperience thrusting and because she lacked the sensations a penis has, she had difficulty with pulling too far back and accidently exiting me.

The exit wasn't the problem, but the next thrust tha missed the mark was...
<ouch>

After our first try we ordered a 7" because she had already used a vibe that was 7" on me...

There isn't a width difference between the two models either. We have since moved up to the UR3 8" model. (Ultra Realistic)

We both believe the UR's are much more life like... Expensive, yes, but we use it more than all our others which are now collecting dust.

Sorry for the delay in replying, but I went back several pages to find where we had discussed this because there are many differing opinions.

Click to expand...

Since we have never even used a dildo, would you recommend perhaps starting w/ that?? I could very easily bring one of mine in, that would make it comfortable for me too..

I hate to sound so naive, but i know all of this stuff would just totally blow my man's mind..

I wonder if most men would prerfer a small toy or a strap on.Is the sensation different?Maybe one is more pleasurable?I think maybe with a strap on,you may feel closer to him...(have never tried it though,either way)

kickboxqueen said:

Since we have never even used a dildo, would you recommend perhaps starting w/ that?? I could very easily bring one of mine in, that would make it comfortable for me too..

Click to expand...

Well, there are a million options!

It is always best to start slow, like with one finger, then two and maybe three to get him relaxed and ready for more.

Starting small is best and also helps to build trust which is very important before you begin going wild and humping the daylights out of him.

I must admit though that the sight of my wife wearing her strap on is very exciting to me now and immediatly get hard just seeing her with it on, but in the beginning it was rather intimidating.

One way to begin would be with your fingers and working up to a dildo...

If you wear your strap on harness and work up to the dildo that fits your harness it is then just a simple matter of attaching the dildo to your harness.

That is one of the pluses of the system...

It you begin with something smaller and you and your lover agree it is an easy matter to switch to a larger toy!

You can have a lot of fun just wearing your strap on without using it on his bottom!

My wife will "dress" herself in many different ways. She has put on crotchless undies over her harness then with the dildo runing down her leg will put on a tight pair pf stretch pants she call "leggings" which then shows her massive "bulge" while we watch a strap on DVD or streaming move on the puter.

The hotter she gets the more suggestive she gets and will begin to rub her bulge suggestively...

Then she will have me slowly lower her pants, exposing her "hardness" and ask me to stroke her like. Then when she is ready guides herself to my mouth for a little BJ...

When she is hot enough she then takes me by the hand and leads me to the bedroom where we have a small t.v. and DVD player... She turns on one of our many strap on DVD's and then the fun begins...

She is very orgsamic and always seems to have plenty of orgasms while thrusting into me and when she is warn out she pulls out of me, rolls onto her back and has me mount her.

Then she allows me to play with myself while riding her until I come on her chest.

She often has one ot two more orgams especially when I come while ridding her.

I guess what I am getting at is that if he is willing I don't see why you shouldn't have everything ready...

Start with a few drinks if you enjoy adult beverages and then just play...

Too much planning can ruin the experience for you both. Have plenty of options,(toys) plenty of quality water based lube, and make sure you put something down on the bed that is easy to wash.

Do I even need to suggest that he be cleaned inside and out?

alisonwunderlnd said:

I wonder if most men would prerfer a small toy or a strap on.Is the sensation different?Maybe one is more pleasurable?I think maybe with a strap on,you may feel closer to him...(have never tried it though,either way)

Click to expand...

Yes, they are very different sensations internally. Using your fingers to stimulate the prostate gland is all together different.

If the angle of the strap on is just right you can stimulate the prostate gland while thrusting which will cause quite a flow of precome...

When my wife is enjoying her orgams it really doesn't matter what she is hitting inside me...

It is enough that she is enjoying using me and enjoying her orgasms... I love hearing her rapid breathing, moaning and groaning and hearing her tell me she is coming and seeing her expressions change...

au_man said:

Yes, they are very different sensations internally. Using your fingers to stimulate the prostate gland is all together different.

If the angle of the strap on is just right you can stimulate the prostate gland while thrusting which will cause quite a flow of precome...

When my wife is enjoying her orgams it really doesn't matter what she is hitting inside me...

It is enough that she is enjoying using me and enjoying her orgasms... I love hearing her rapid breathing, moaning and groaning and hearing her tell me she is coming and seeing her expressions change...

Click to expand...

might be a stupid ?, but what is your wife orgasming from? the concept? or is there something in strap-ons that i'm missing??

I'll vouch... my gf has had orgasms from using dildos and probes on my ass. Simply from the excitement and power she feels when doing it (her words).

WyldChylde said:

I'll vouch... my gf has had orgasms from using dildos and probes on my ass. Simply from the excitement and power she feels when doing it (her words).

Click to expand...

Thank you! I'm running to the store after work for some toys tonight I think i'm going to startw/ a small dildo, and then see how that goes over..

Just be sure to let us know how it goes!

Good luck!

kickboxqueen said:

might be a stupid ?, but what is your wife orgasming from? the concept? or is there something in strap-ons that i'm missing??

Click to expand...

Not stupid at all!

The Ultraharness 200 has additional attachments that can be adjusted so if you choose, you can use a dildo for yourself and/or a butt plug or another dildo...

My wife tried the attachment for her pussy and found that she came too fast and too often, so she stopped using any of the attachments.

She began wearing crotchless panties to cushion the harness as it bumps her clit as she is thrusting, so between the visual of watching her dildo thrusting into me and the slight bumping she receives when she "bottoms out" she has many orgasms, so don't think this is all about the "guy."

It seems that the dildo's with the balls also have more of an effect on her clit than the jelly type that isn't as realistic.

The straps must be rather tight which will pull the triangle against your clit...

Fun stuff, eh?

It IS very exciting for a woman ...

... especially when she sees her man getting very excited himself and moaning over it. For me it's a combination of the feeling of power - but not in a lording it over him kind of way. It's more of watching him give up his power and strip away his manly armor and become just a sensual, shameless animal.

Mmmm.

You may want to read my story, Love Letter to a Sleeping Man, about playing with a man's ass for the first time and the stages he goes through.

http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=155449

francypants said:

... especially when she sees her man getting very excited himself and moaning over it. For me it's a combination of the feeling of power - but not in a lording it over him kind of way. It's more of watching him give up his power and strip away his manly armor and become just a sensual, shameless animal.

Mmmm.

You may want to read my story, Love Letter to a Sleeping Man, about playing with a man's ass for the first time and the stages he goes through.

http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=155449

Click to expand...

Welcome back M'Lady.

Seems we may have two new members and I hope you enjoyed the read.

{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}} Lady francypants

I love to get fucked

http://bossbitches.spicetraffic.com/bossbitches_strapon_galleies/4/main.jpg

I love to jerk off while I get fucked

http://bossbitches.spicetraffic.com/bossbitches_strapon_galleies/1/color/strapon_ritarooters_giselle_2_51.jpg

more

http://www.epicgals.com/gfg12/cd04184.jpg
http://tgp.angela-d-angelo.com/sets/Strapon_Blondes_Gangbang/th7.jpg
http://tgp.angela-d-angelo.com/sets/Strapon_Blondes_Gangbang/th5.jpg
http://www.epicgals.com/gfg2/magkidsob_029.jpg
http://www.epicgals.com/gfg2/magkidsob_015.jpg
http://www.epicgals.com/gfg2/magkidsob_080.jpg
http://tgp.strapon.com/sets/Amaera_Ben/th9.jpg
http://tgp.strapon.com/sets/Amaera_Ben/th16.jpg
http://tgp.strapon.com/sets/Amaera_Ben/th2.jpg
sorry...I get carried away.

Thanks for the pics...

We are more about real life and advice, but cool none the less.

Question

Do most people here prefer the guy on his back or on his knees?

Hilarious!

I loved the abject silliness of the cumshot mpegs ... especially the girl sitting to the left of the guy in the later ones who is laughing and covering her face with embarrassment. Even the gals in the first one who scream in surprise and ickiness when they make the guy cum. What did they think he was gonna do?

It amazes me that these girls are so ... girlie.

Guys, does this turn you on? Or turn you off. I'm, as always, curious.

Francy

PS. Now, given the subject of this thread, I would like to see some butt action.