Cyber-Sex: Typing while Masturbating?

smy3th said:
Er, um, (tries to losen collar, wipes forehead) so, you, um, just sit there typing and squeeze your thighs together or something? Wow! I suddenly regret not being a woman.

I'm also trying to imagine you demonstrating this skill to your friends. Like: how could they tell what was happening?

I don't think most women can do this, and extremely few men, at least, not without special equipment I have not yet imagined.

Yup, I can pretty much orgasm anywhere I feel like it (well, the only problem is the actual orgasming part - its hard to do that inconspiciously).

And the ways to tell what is happening is I get flushed, a little squirmy, and its hard for me to remain quiet.
 
smy3th said:
Really? The statistics I've seen say that a great many women have never had an orgasm at all, and many rarely have them. If it were so easy they could do it on the subway, I don't think they'd have any trouble at all when they got to more private ways of going about it. Maybe we should do a poll about this.

So, in your case, you could type and masturbate simultaneously?

Elenia26 said:
Nope, here's one woman who can't. And something like 80 % of American woman have never had an orgasm in their lives. Isn't that sad?

I know exactly what causes it...kind of what caused it in me. Strict upbringing, a lot of guilt attached to sex, and a conservative viewpoint. Took me years to get over it and become the sex-loving nympho I am - but I still can't come at the drop of a hat. It takes some time. Not an enormous amount, but definitely direct stimulation.

Yes, I think the reason most women haven't had an orgasm at all is this very thing, guilt, sexual hang ups, etc.

I am not a sex therapist, but I do not believe that there are many women out there who simply cannot have an orgasm due to physical reasons. Other than the unusual medical issues, I think it is all psychological. I just don't buy the alternative.

For instance, when I was about 8 or 9, my mother walked in on me masturbating. Of course, I was just a kid, I didn't know what I was doing. I just knew I was doing something that felt good. She told me I was filthy and that nice girls don't do that. I felt bad at the time, but fortunately I've never much listened to her anyway so it didn't affect me. I'll bet it could have, and I consider myself fortunate that it didn't. But physically, I am the same person. Just so happens I didn't go in a different direction after being told that what I was doing was wrong.

Get over the mental block, and I believe most women have an equal orgasmic capacity.

(For the record, I can only orgasm "at the drop of at hat" via my own solo efforts. I can do it in about 15 seconds. But in a sexual situation with another person, it takes mor time and more work.)
 
LadyFunkenstein said:
Yes, I think the reason most women haven't had an orgasm at all is this very thing, guilt, sexual hang ups, etc.

I am not a sex therapist, but I do not believe that there are many women out there who simply cannot have an orgasm due to physical reasons. Other than the unusual medical issues, I think it is all psychological. I just don't buy the alternative.

For instance, when I was about 8 or 9, my mother walked in on me masturbating. Of course, I was just a kid, I didn't know what I was doing. I just knew I was doing something that felt good. She told me I was filthy and that nice girls don't do that. I felt bad at the time, but fortunately I've never much listened to her anyway so it didn't affect me. I'll bet it could have, and I consider myself fortunate that it didn't. But physically, I am the same person. Just so happens I didn't go in a different direction after being told that what I was doing was wrong.

Get over the mental block, and I believe most women have an equal orgasmic capacity.

(For the record, I can only orgasm "at the drop of at hat" via my own solo efforts. I can do it in about 15 seconds. But in a sexual situation with another person, it takes mor time and more work.)
I'm wondering what brings you to the conclusion that the orgasmic difficulties of other women are almost entirely psychological rather than physical? Just because you can do a "look Ma, no hands," does that mean than any woman physically could also? What would lead you to that conclusion?
 
bisexplicit said:
Yup, I can pretty much orgasm anywhere I feel like it (well, the only problem is the actual orgasming part - its hard to do that inconspiciously).

And the ways to tell what is happening is I get flushed, a little squirmy, and its hard for me to remain quiet.
Sounds like you are a good candidate for cyber-sex.
 
stories

go to the stories and that way you can scroll down while you stroke off It's grand try the incest stories it works for me if not then go to lolitampegs and watch some movies like some cute chick swallowing cum.....mummmm always works for me and my stiffie :nana:
 
smy3th said:
I can visualize phone sex, but I'm having a hard time visualizing cyber sex, cause I just don't see how I can type and masturbate at the same time. Typing one handed is slow, hard and takes concentration. I just don't see how I'm gonna be able to get off with the other hand at the same time. For those of you who have tried this, just how did you go about it?
How do you think I got this name???
 
I can handle cybersex... I admit pussy.org goes a long way to help a sister out. Phone sex is just as good. . . Oddly enough, it was my conservative upbringing that brought out the imagination that makes it all good. :D I guess I figured that if I can't have it in the flesh, I'll get it however I can.

*Kharis*
 
pellso27 said:
go to the stories and that way you can scroll down while you stroke off It's grand try the incest stories it works for me if not then go to lolitampegs and watch some movies like some cute chick swallowing cum.....mummmm always works for me and my stiffie :nana:
That's fine if what you are looking for is to stroke off to some pre-written stories. I don't know if I would quite call it cyber sex, though. Also, you could download the story to a PDA, and then take it where it's more comfortable to read (or you could just print it out).

But like I said, to me, cyber-sex implies live interaction, not just reading or viewing static stories or images.
 
bisexplicit said:
Yup, I can pretty much orgasm anywhere I feel like it (well, the only problem is the actual orgasming part - its hard to do that inconspiciously).

And the ways to tell what is happening is I get flushed, a little squirmy, and its hard for me to remain quiet.

I'll need some video documentation please...
 
Pretty difficult, it requires a lot of multitasking.

LadyFunkenstein said:
I dunno, I think most women CAN do it. I used to do it on the subways in NYC.

This is possible? I have the sudden urge to try this.
 
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smy3th said:
I can visualize phone sex, but I'm having a hard time visualizing cyber sex, cause I just don't see how I can type and masturbate at the same time.

Typing? What is this, 1993? That's what webcams and wireless headsets are for.
 
adajh588 said:
This is possible? I have the sudden urge to try this.
Must have something to do with subways. Apparently, subways rock. I wonder if it is only possible in subways. I wonder if a Subway restaurant would do instead?
 
smy3th said:
Yeah, so how do you do it?
Well, I get to IM'ing with someone interesting, and then type with one hand. Unless it's really good, then I'll take a time-out to type more.

The biggest problem is something that keeps hitting the sp a ce b ar wh i le I' m t ry in g to t y pe .
 
sticky_keyboard said:
Well, I get to IM'ing with someone interesting, and then type with one hand. Unless it's really good, then I'll take a time-out to type more.

The biggest problem is something that keeps hitting the sp a ce b ar wh i le I' m t ry in g to t y pe .
Must be your chin, bragger.
 
I tried it once and its not worth it. I ended up typing like almost a full story back and forth. We had to take turns in the end. Its very difficult to reach the places that need attention while sitting down. A vibrator helped. Its just not worth all that typing, to much work and not enough fun.
 
In all my cybersex experiences, I never masturbated while I was cybering, though on some occasions it was arousing enough to give me a hard on. Later, after we finished, if the encounter was good enough, I'd masturbate. I can't see someone typing one handed and trying to cyber too.
 
It's not so much typing one-handed......If I'm really into the conversation.....and the right words are said....I get turned-on....

Then, all I have to do is turn over, and get to grinding :D

Thank god for lap-taps and being a girl!
 
naughtygirl69s said:
It's not so much typing one-handed......If I'm really into the conversation.....and the right words are said....I get turned-on....

Then, all I have to do is turn over, and get to grinding :D

Thank god for lap-taps and being a girl!


Gulp.
 
adajh588 said:
This is possible? I have the sudden urge to try this.
I wonder if the NYC subways will see a sudden surge in ridership now? Probably, they'll assume it is because of high gas prices.

Any of you ladies who are able to make yourself cum without hands, please don't do it while driving a car. I'm wondering if that's why so many women talk on their cell phones while driving - hope not. The idea of roads filled with orgasming women having phone sex while driving is enough to get me off the road. Probably flipping them off won't do any good either - what good does it do to give a visual "fuck you" to a woman who is already phone fucking?
 
naughtygirl69s said:
It's not so much typing one-handed......If I'm really into the conversation.....and the right words are said....I get turned-on....

Then, all I have to do is turn over, and get to grinding :D

Thank god for lap-taps and being a girl!
Personally, even if I were able to masturbate without using my hands, I still wouldn't be able to type at the same time. Masturbation just takes too much concentration. At some point, even reading becomes difficult, and one just has to close one's eyes and focus, focus, focus. Don't you?
 
smy3th said:
I'm wondering what brings you to the conclusion that the orgasmic difficulties of other women are almost entirely psychological rather than physical? Just because you can do a "look Ma, no hands," does that mean than any woman physically could also? What would lead you to that conclusion?

Life has brought me to that conclusion. frank discussions and sexual experimentation.

It just so happens that a post I made earlier to another thread works here too. I am too lazy to type it again, but here it is:

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?p=13781172#post13781172

As you will see, an authority higher than me says at least 90% of anorgasmic women are that way due to psychological issues. I'd think at least 97%, but why quibble.

(Is there some sort of epidemic on this board of folks who say, "Hey, some women can't have an orgasm. :Shrug: whattaya gonna do?")

BTW, "Look Ma, no hands" isn't magical in the slightest, nor is it impressive. It simply is using my own thighs to stimulate my clitoris. I typcially cross my legs slightly higher than normal.
 
Interesting. I would not have guessed that.

I certainly don't mean to be arguing with you here. You certainly know more about females and female orgasms than I do. I'm here trying to learn about women, 'cause they are a mystery to me.

However, I don't necessarily think you can extrapolate that statistic on female orgasm in general to female hands free orgasm. People vary in many ways. Maybe you are right and other women could physically do it if it weren't for the psychological blocks, but I don't think anyone can say that for sure. I think though that as far as the actual current practice of cyber-sex, most women would not find that they could do it that way. My wife orgasms almost every night, but it takes a LOT of VERY strong stimulation. If she could be treated to be able to do it hands free on the subway, I'm sure she'd want that treatment.
 
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