Justfantasies
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Do you think about him and masturbate or pretend that your other lovers are him?
Root Causes for Fetishes
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Do you think about him and masturbate or pretend that your other lovers are him?
L8tnIt
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I personally enjoy being tied up myself, and. I have a theory as to why I do:
I lost my virginity to an older woman who got me drunk & date-raped me. I would never want for anyone I know to go through such.
I would rather be in restraints [chains or ropes] and used by her, just so that there is no possible way that I can ever be such an aggressor.
I even once briefly dated a girl later wh had a rape fetish herself; I imagine that it doesn't take much to figure out why that relationship didn't last.
I lost my virginity to an older woman who got me drunk & date-raped me. I would never want for anyone I know to go through such.
I would rather be in restraints [chains or ropes] and used by her, just so that there is no possible way that I can ever be such an aggressor.
I even once briefly dated a girl later wh had a rape fetish herself; I imagine that it doesn't take much to figure out why that relationship didn't last.
LekaSveta
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I like getting tied up too, but I have no idea where it comes from, I'd never done it with anyone before I started dating the woman I married, but I found I really liked being a sub for her which is odd because in all my previous relationships I had always been the more aggressive and dominant partner.
Panty Fetish
For me, I believe that my panty fetish stems from seeing up my mother's skirt and seeing the dark smudge of her pubic hair through her panties. Later in life I used to immediately be able to detect the scent from both my mother and sister after they had been for a piss and that scent is now a huge trigger and hence I believe my love of worn panties.
For me, I believe that my panty fetish stems from seeing up my mother's skirt and seeing the dark smudge of her pubic hair through her panties. Later in life I used to immediately be able to detect the scent from both my mother and sister after they had been for a piss and that scent is now a huge trigger and hence I believe my love of worn panties.
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Foot fetish
I truly don’t know where my foot fetish comes from and have thought about this a lot myself. Even from a very young age I remember finding feet to be very attractive and even “naughty.” I have no memories of where this developed from. My only guess is that I was raised in a fairly strict and religious home where nudity was “evil” and during summers when women would wear shorts and sandals or simply go barefoot around me, I was enticed by seeing skin of any kind as a child. Even today, although I don’t think my foot fetish is “naughty” or that nudity is “evil” at all, I think I still find feet sexy and desire them.
I truly don’t know where my foot fetish comes from and have thought about this a lot myself. Even from a very young age I remember finding feet to be very attractive and even “naughty.” I have no memories of where this developed from. My only guess is that I was raised in a fairly strict and religious home where nudity was “evil” and during summers when women would wear shorts and sandals or simply go barefoot around me, I was enticed by seeing skin of any kind as a child. Even today, although I don’t think my foot fetish is “naughty” or that nudity is “evil” at all, I think I still find feet sexy and desire them.
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Cfnmlover84
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My fetish for cfnm and male stripping started when i went to college and met a guy who is a professional male stripper, His stories about how older women sucked and played with his cock turned me on to the fetish. I love the idea of repressed housewives sucking a big young cock with whip cream.
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I haven't pretended that my other lovers are him. I try to focus on the person I am with. As for masturbating about my former professor, I definitely have. Le sigh.
Justfantasies
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I have a similar obsession with a person in my past and I masturbate thinking of her all the time. Usually it is circumstances which turn me on but which would probably never have happened
MidKnight1378
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Personally for me I believe it’s because I was always a very curious person. That’s why I hold two science degrees and became a science teacher. Always curious.
My fetish is rather common to a milder level in many women. Everyone tells us to cover it all up. . . of course we buck against and want to show it off! But the deeper desire to purposely show it all off intentionally-- be watched so intimately? I don't know how mine got this deep. I often do wonder that, though. I try to not do it--and i can't.
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Pee4Fun
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I minored in psychology in college and took a course on human sexuality. Having said that...
By definition, a fetish is an item or behavior that is required in order for a person to achieve arousal and orgasm. It's mandatory. If you, like me, can get turned on and enjoy sex without it, you do not have a true fetish.
For example, I have a strong fondness for anything related to pee. It really arouses me. But, I can enjoy typical "ordinary" sex very much.
I just wanted to clear this issue up. My guess is that the vast majority of us here at Literotica don't have fetishes, according to the aforementioned definition.
By definition, a fetish is an item or behavior that is required in order for a person to achieve arousal and orgasm. It's mandatory. If you, like me, can get turned on and enjoy sex without it, you do not have a true fetish.
For example, I have a strong fondness for anything related to pee. It really arouses me. But, I can enjoy typical "ordinary" sex very much.
I just wanted to clear this issue up. My guess is that the vast majority of us here at Literotica don't have fetishes, according to the aforementioned definition.
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Well there is that,, but I was thinking of that as something that helps you uncover them more than something that actually causes them.
LekaSveta
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I have a pretty intense attractions towards many of the female members of my family (I'm a gay woman) with my mother and sister I can understand why, my biological father was a serial abuser and a sadistic bastard so my mother, my sister and myself needed to be close to survive. But my attraction goes beyond just them, when we had a lot of family here over the holidays, many of whom I haven't seen in years, my aunt and two of my cousins nearly drove me crazy!
