Things a sub should NEVER say to her Dom

"Oh, just skip the whipping. You're too tired to do it right, then, I'd just take the belt away from you!"

Esclava

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Pyrolisk said:

if in fact you are dealing with a dom... i really doubt you'll make it to a third "why"... let alone a fifth!

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i'd agree.

• Think ball gag to bring the stupidity to a halt.
• Add permanent ink backwards across her forehead that reads "Because" when she looks in a mirror.
• Chain said smartass before a mirror in an empty room for the remainder of a weekday/weekend alone.
• Finish by not allowing removal of "Because" until said smartass had spent the day in public with people asking "why."

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AngelicAssassin said:

i'd agree.

• Think ball gag to bring the stupidity to a halt.
• Add permanent ink backwards across her forehead that reads "Because" when she looks in a mirror.
• Chain said smartass before a mirror in an empty room for the remainder of a weekday/weekend alone.
• Finish by not allowing removal of "Because" until said smartass had spent the day in public with people asking "why."

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........... evil......................................just evil.......................

3 whys

Pyrolisk said:

No sense of humor!

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Plenty thereof. That's why i "play" in this thread.

Pyrolisk said:

... When I am Dominant; I tend to be a Dom of few words, & I find that simpler is better.

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"Because ends with the day" can be counted on the digits of one hand. Marking, isolation, and command come simply to me. The sub on the other hand thinks it anything, but simple.

Pyrolisk said:

I suppose though if humiliation is Your thing.... good for You. God help Your sub.

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i use isolation as corrective punishment and nothing else. Removing myself from her presence answers her first "why." She'd never think of using a smartassed "why" again.

Humiliation reminds me of the word degradation. Her private contemplation of that "Because" humiliates the sub in her own little world. She gets to ask herself, "What possessed me to try the second 'why'?" If she's worth it, she'll answer her own question.

The public humiliation reminds the sub "why" she chose me over the vanilla world, or even another PYL. Good for me? Having to punish a submissive means:

• i didn't fulfill my duty as the PYL
• i have to question my own judgement for getting involved with a submissive that would ask three smartassed "whys"
• i had no right whispering Come to Me in the first place, and God help me.

Re: 3 whys

AngelicAssassin said:

<snip[*]i had no right whispering Come to Me in the first place, and God help me.[/list]

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AA,

Could you provide me with enough information to locate that piece of music on CD, please? It speaks to me...

I appreciate your assistance.

Esclava

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Esclava said:

Could you provide me with enough information to locate that piece of music on CD, please?

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You have one of three choices:

• Buy Fright Night I/II on DVD, and do a little electronic magic
• Find a copy of 'the only cd release (or only release anywhere at all, for that matter) of the instrumental version of "Come To Me" on the cd "Vampire Circus: The Essential Vampire Theme Collection"'
• Use a little more computer magic to flip that mpg to a wav file and record on a CD.

For the last choice, if you have an MP3 player, skip the bs conversion.

Thank you...

...very much!

Esclava

Don't say this to a sports fan...

"In the baseball game of our life, I am the pitcher; you are the mound - always under my feet!"

Esclava

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Hisownprecious said:

<snip>If it's something that i simply do not understand the need for {i.e, i do not see how it would further my training},if i am to trust Him, then i need to accept that perhaps this is something that i simply do not yet see the need for. If it is something that is completely out of the question, in my eyes, for me to do, then why ask why. If it is something that is absolutely against something that i believe or totally beyond my capabilities, then what choice do i have? i can walk away, ask for my release. Thank you again, dear, i was not expecting a lesson today.

joanna

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There is a BIG difference between asking "Why?" to gain information necessary to allow you to carry out instructions you have been given - and asking "WHY?" as part of the "Why Game".

If you ask yourself, "Why am I asking why?" and the answer you come back with is anything other than - because I need more information - then you are flirting with the "Why Game" and in danger of being disciplined by any of the aforementioned methods.

You do not need to blindly accept or attempt to carry out any command you don't understand. A good Dom will allow a good slave to question for clarity. The operative words there - in both places - being "good". If you have not been a good slave and have played the "Why Game" before...shame on you for trying to get away with it again. In my experience, you only cross one Dom in life that will allow you to get away with it one time...and one time only.

Pay close attention to the reasons you ask "Why" and they will keep you out of the mirror staring at the ass you've made of yourself as you contemplate Master's righteous response to a frivolous question - written backwards on your forehead in permanent marker.

Esclava

And P.S.: You cannot just walk away from your Dom. You must deal with him. You can ask for your release - but it will be up to your D to release you. I say again; if he is a GOOD Dom, he will not punish you for questioning because you genuinely don't understand something. But, smartasses ALWAYS get punished...

Just a note to add before allowing this thread to go back to it's regularly scheduled topic ...

If you need more information as a sub, then you had bloody well better ask rather than just hoping that you got the meaning - if, as a Dominant, your sub needs more information, that does not mean that you have, in any way, failed ... it means that there was (most likely) a simple miscommunication that could - and does - happen in any relationship, D/s, BDSM, or nilla.

As for this thread, as discussed earlier somewhere along the line - it's entire purpose was to give submissives/slaves/bottoms/whatever a place to air the thoughts that they have that they know they can't say to their Master/Mistress/Top/Daddy/Mommy/again, whatever ... on occation, we, and other dominants, have posted things along the lines of "yeah, if our boy/girl said that, they'd be in big trouble" or "that'd get you a whuppin you wouldn't enjoy" ... but to take things (especially something that was specifically posted as a game) so entirely seriously ... not cool. I have had a lot of fun with many portions of this thread, but I have always felt that some of the comments towards the submissives were out of line for what this thread is ...

*steps off her soapbox* Done highjacking the thread. Someone please move back to topic (I would, but can't think of any new ones )

Miss Karen

Thank you...

...Miss Karen!

And BTW, I would never say to you:

"No, I will not mop the floor with the condom covered mop handle in my mouth!"

Esclava

I have always liked the fact that we can speak our minds here. One has to have a distinct type of sense of humor to accept some of what is posted in response. Personally, I have enjoyed most of it. I just didn't want HOP to feel like the options she pointed out were the only ones she had. I apologize if I caused confusion or sowed seeds of confrontation. Please forgive me. E

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Esclava said:

...Miss Karen!

And BTW, I would never say to you:

"No, I will not mop the floor with the condom covered mop handle in my mouth!"

Esclava


Good idea

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My recent favourite was when walking with Him, asking............... if he was ok, or did he need a wheelchair?

I was only trying to help...honest

I ended up tied like St Andrews Cross to the bottom of a bed, while He tried to 'help' turn my ass and legs black & blue!!

Not a remark I will repeat...but I am still tempted to try the very innocent 'why'

Should i be scared now or later..!!..

it was embarassing, really

"is that as hard as you can hit?"
(ill never ever live that down)

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vella_ms said:

"is that as hard as you can hit?"
(ill never ever live that down)

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i bet you wont

in response to " Do I detect a note of sarcasm in that comment" never never respond with more sarcasm in your "No, Master, I would never..."

when told "I'm in charge here" dont respond with "Ok" as if its actually an option or an issue up for discussion.

OregonGal said:

when told "I'm in charge here" dont respond with "Ok" as if its actually an option or an issue up for discussion.

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Worse yet.....

Don't respond with, "You think?"

Esclava

Esclava said:

Worse yet.....

Don't respond with, "You think?"

Esclava

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Or with "If you say so..." while rolling your eyes ...

Pyrolisk said:

... & when asked to take out the gargabe; do not attempt to lead your Mistress to the door.

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Now that was funny ... http://img.villagephotos.com/p/2003-8/363868/AngelicA.gif

Been there done that and gone one hell of a paddling.

Thank god for my job!

On reflection, almost anything is a mistake if it starts:

"But you wouldn't dare...."