Oral sex

[Stoicbutfun]

Why are some men reluctant to perform oral sex on their partners, compared to women? Almost all women definitely want to perform oral sex on their partners.. give your opinion for discussion, friends.... this is a place to discuss sex... if you want to discuss morals, maybe this is not the place, let alone talk about morality. this is not the place.... thank you.

I just adore licking a woman, it’s a huge pleasure and I have had an ex who didn’t want it, (or going down on me) but indulged me in licking her, but the rest of my experiences, love it, the sight of her pussy, the aroma, the taste, the sounds, it is a wonderful thing,

 

[LMWM321]

I’d rather go down on my partner than she me, if forced to choose

Same... As much as I LOVE receiving oral sex, If I had to chose between giving and receiving it, it would be to give it. ..I'm absolutely nuts for going down on my wife.

And giving it MUST include rimming her as well. For me, cunnilingus and anilingus go hand and hand. I'd be devastated if my wife ever told me I could no longer do either.

 

[willi1796]

Same... As much as I LOVE receiving oral, If I had to chose between giving and receiving it, it would be to give it. ..I'm absolutely nuts for going down on my wife.

And giving it MUST include rimming her as well. For me, cunnilingus and anilingus go hand and hand, and always in that order. I'd be devastated if my wife ever told me I could no longer do either.

That's how I feel too, I also love to lick her pussy and her asshole and I love to lick her in her natural state without any soapy taste

 

[Haida_lee]

in my experience it is opposite of yours

Haida_lee, in my 50 years of being sexually active, i have experienced the opposite of you. I have been eager to perform oral sex with ever women I have been with. About a 1/3 of those never reciprocated oral on me. Another 1/3 would give oral some. A 1/3 eagerly performed oral on me.​

That means my opinion was refuted by you... but I don't know the exact number... my opinion was just based on the results of the chat.

 

[Statius]

That means my opinion was refuted by you... but I don't know the exact number... my opinion was just based on the results of the chat.

Wow lol. Welcome to Lit I guess!. Make a comment based on conversations you've had they come out of the woodwork to prove you wrong! But I actually suspect your right, maybe just not for a LitE audience. I've met guys who refuse to go down on a woman, plenty of them. I also think that generally speaking women are more willing or try harder to please a guy rather than the other way around.

 

[willi1796]

Maybe because men only ever think about themselves. I can't understand why a man doesn't want to satisfy a woman orally.
I really enjoy seeing her lips, getting to know her natural smell and taste. I also enjoy hairy ones, and especially all the smells and tastes a natural pussy has to offer. Be it sweat from exercise, urine from peeing, or even after orgasm, it simply turns me on.
Unfortunately, everyone is different, and that's a good thing; otherwise it would be boring.

 

[Statius]

Had a guy tell me once he expected a blowjob from a woman but would never go down on her because that where they pee

 

[willi1796]

Had a guy tell me once he expected a blowjob from a woman but would never go down on her because that where they pee

I have read that many times, it doesn't bother me, neither in women nor in men

 

[LMWM321]

Maybe because men only ever think about themselves. I can't understand why a man doesn't want to satisfy a woman orally.

Maybe... But it could also be the guys first experience with oral was very unpleasant. ..Maybe his partner had very poor hygiene or maybe he picked the wrong time for his first time to engage in it (ie., while she was menstruating).

And I'm quite sure the converse has happened for some women as well - ie., her first time giving a BJ was unpleasant because of the guys poor hygiene OR, because the guy became very aggressive. I shudder at how porn is influencing what young men think a BJ should be like. To be clear, holding a woman's head down when she doesn't EXPLICITLY ask for it is rape. And yet, that seems to be what most BJ's look like in porn. Fucking horrible. If I were a woman, that would kill my interest in it, for sure.

Those first experiences can forever affect how one feels about oral. Thankfully for me, the first time I went down on a girl was pure heaven. And I was always a perfect gentlemen when women have gone down on me.

 

[willi1796]

Maybe... But it could also be the guys first experience with oral was very unpleasant. ..Maybe his partner had very poor hygiene or maybe he picked the wrong time for his first time to engage in it (ie., while she was menstruating).

And I'm quite sure the converse has happened for some women as well - ie., their first time giving a BJ was unpleasant because of the guys hygeine OR, because the guy was POS who become aggressive and held her head down until he finished. I shudder at how porn is probably influencing what young men think a BJ should be like. To be clear, holding a woman's head down when she doesn't want that is rape. And yet, that seems to be what most BJ's look like in porn.

Those first experiences can really forever affect how one feels about oral. Thankfully for me, the first time I went down on a girl was pure heaven. And I was always a perfect gentlemen when women have gone down on me.

Yes, I agree with you, there are men who are assholes. I'm not one of those, and luckily, I haven't had a man like that yet, and I'm lucky with my wife.

 

[Statius]

I have read that many times, it doesn't bother me, neither in women nor in men

Well it's BS excuse first of all, secondly you can't demand what you're not willing to give. If I want head then I gotta go down! And like I said yesterday, my favorite thing to do. Drives her wild like it does me. What's better than that? .

 

[MaturemanAJ]

Why are some men reluctant to perform oral sex on their partners, compared to women? Almost all women definitely want to perform oral sex on their partners.. give your opinion for discussion, friends.... this is a place to discuss sex... if you want to discuss morals, maybe this is not the place, let alone talk about morality. this is not the place.... thank you.

I don't think your statement is accurate.
From my experiences 50% of women at best give oral. I myself love giving oral for long periods of time. Now I will say a full un trimmed bush does nothing for me at it ruins the pleasure I receive.
Do women like licking a guys hairy chest? I have never had that happen.
I am picky so hygiene is very important to me if you can't taje care of yourself I don't have any interest.
I would rather not receive if I haven't showered recently.

 

[Luvloosepussy]

I have been eating pussy since I was a teenager and all the girls I have been with since then would gladly reciprocate but most married women who are cheating on their husbands will do lots more than just oral.

 

[strongnsensual]

Licking a woman is one of the greatest joys in life. The tastes, the aromas, watching her pleasure build, feeling her respond... It's just exquisite.

 

[willi1796]

Well it's BS excuse first of all, secondly you can't demand what you're not willing to give. If I want head then I gotta go down! And like I said yesterday, my favorite thing to do. Drives her wild like it does me. What's better than that? .

I don't know anything hotter

 

[cuck72]

I get more excited eating pussy then fucking it. I LOVE! going down between and girls' legs and lapping up her excited wet pussy. Smelling her pussy and getting her squirting juices in my mouth and face, OH YESSSSSSSS! Then licking her butthole and curling up my tongue to fuck her butthole.

 

[OldJock60]

I get more excited eating pussy then fucking it. I LOVE! going down between and girls' legs and lapping up her excited wet pussy. Smelling her pussy and getting her squirting juices in my mouth and face, OH YESSSSSSSS! Then licking her butthole and curling up my tongue to fuck her butthole.

I hear ya! These days I’m more interested in eating a woman’s ass. The ass is a deal breaker for me with women. If they weren’t into it being done to them, I broke off the relationship.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

Why are some men reluctant to perform oral sex on their partners, compared to women? Almost all women definitely want to perform oral sex on their partners.. give your opinion for discussion, friends.... this is a place to discuss sex... if you want to discuss morals, maybe this is not the place, let alone talk about morality. this is not the place.... thank you.

Well Haida, 2 points
It is morally wrong for a woman to please a man and not get satisfied in return.
If this is the case your dating the wrong men.

 

[cuck72]

I can't think of ANYTHING! more pleasurable than performing oral sex on a woman or a man.

 

[hulmule]

Yes i love going down on a woman, but menopause has taken that away from me...

 

[OneEyedSteve]

Why are some men reluctant to perform oral sex on their partners, compared to women? Almost all women definitely want to perform oral sex on their partners.. give your opinion for discussion, friends.... this is a place to discuss sex... if you want to discuss morals, maybe this is not the place, let alone talk about morality. this is not the place.... thank you.

Almost all women want to perform oral sex? Where in Earth did you hear that load of nonsense. I've known women that only don't because they think it's part of what needs to be done, and they're rubbish at it as a result.
I've also been with women who love doing it, including my wife. It's her favourite sex act.
As for cunnilingus, I think with some.men it's a cultural thing. I grew up with Jamaican friends and it really wasn't something they were into. Made life fun for me when I got with girls from their community.

 

[Haida_lee]

Almost all women want to perform oral sex? Where in Earth did you hear that load of nonsense. I've known women that only don't because they think it's part of what needs to be done, and they're rubbish at it as a result.
I've also been with women who love doing it, including my wife. It's her favourite sex act.
As for cunnilingus, I think with some.men it's a cultural thing. I grew up with Jamaican friends and it really wasn't something they were into. Made life fun for me when I got with girls from their community.

"almost all" ... means not all, friend. There is indeed no valid data or survey results that confirm my opinion.

 

[KyleR215]

I love going down on a woman. I feel that there is nothing more intimate and special.

However, in my experience, I have found that most women do not like to reciprocate or have an interest on going down on me. I have found that of those women the ones that do do it reluctantly out of obligation and never until I cum.

 

[CierraMom2025]

Why are some men reluctant to perform oral sex on their partners, compared to women? Almost all women definitely want to perform oral sex on their partners.. give your opinion for discussion, friends.... this is a place to discuss sex... if you want to discuss morals, maybe this is not the place, let alone talk about morality. this is not the place.... thank you.

Great post!

 

[Haida_lee]

Well Haida, 2 points
It is morally wrong for a woman to please a man and not get satisfied in return.
If this is the case your dating the wrong men.

I speak as if it were based on my regional culture. So the principle of "women are to serve men" is still embedded in our daily lives. Even though women have high positions and salaries, their status is still below that of men. So my opinion has a basis, my friend. And hopefully, with the development of the times and communication technology, there will be gender equality that will disprove my opinion.