Shibari/RopeWork Appreciation

For me, tying and getting tied are both fun. You spend time being very close to someone you like, maybe unclothed, maybe not, but very close nevertheless.

Whether you're tying or getting tied, you're doing something you know is pleasing to the other person, and that's a whole separate thing from the physical contact which tying or being tied necessitates.

This closeness is exciting, and so is the intimacy of being trusted or trusting your partner. And so are the novel sensations of friction, tension, binding and immobilization which the bottom experiences - which the top gives them.

Some people go further and then either just have sex or do other kinks, like spanking or wax or roleplaying, while one partner is tied.

The untying process can be a whole game of intimacy on its own. And aftercare is a bonding and trust-reinforcing experience.

For some people, the domination and submission is fun and thrilling.
 
Being tied is honestly one of my favourite things. Even when it’s not sexual. It’s complete mental and emotional freedom.

When sex is involved, I’m just soooo turned on the whole time. And I always cum harder
Sounds hot. What is your favorite thing about being tied up?
 
Beautiful. Love the rope work completely immobilizing her thighs. For an extended session, a cushion under the knees would be nice.
As others have recently noted in this thread, being tied creates a complete sense of relief/freedom that allows a rope bunny to just lean into the control offered by the bindings. Here you can see just how calm and relaxed she is. A surrender of beauty. Possessed and contained.

Were I her, I would welcome whatever came next. Spanking, toys and/or teasing, erotic humiliation, deep fucking with or without orgasm permitted. Throat fucking and/or spit roasting. More spanking. Denial. Left with a buzzing toy while he goes out to pick up take away. Repeat. Or a whole new sequence of being his personal whore and fuck toy.
 
Being tied is honestly one of my favourite things. Even when it’s not sexual. It’s complete mental and emotional freedom.

When sex is involved, I’m just soooo turned on the whole time. And I always cum harder
Exactly this.
There is something about the ritual of being tied. The way you must stay still and cooperate while your rigger sets the ropes and knots. The anticipation of the ropes binding and not knowing what he has in mind. The way the rope restricts movement. Making every muscle twitch, shift of weight and intake of breath noticeable in a whole new way. The way it overtly reminds me that every bit of me is his.
There is a way in which being tied relieves you of all responsibility. My brain stops being so busy. I fall into subspace and submission and just feel and release to his wishes. The restraints reminding me I have chosen to give up control. That if he wants to use the rope to push against my clit or ride between my lips, or bind my breasts and nipples in ways that please him esthetically or create additional sensation/pain/humiliation/exposure or denial - it's because I've chosen to allow him all this use and more of my body. My breath quickens. I feel my heart racing... and then calm as he winds me completely in his control.

And yes... everything becomes more intense. A walk around the block in my rope harness, becomes the most intense foreplay. A spanking that I can't squirm any from, makes me drip down my thighs. And when he allows me to cum, I cum so hard he wonders if I might break the ropes... but no... they just bite a little deeper and make me cum even harder.
 
https://i.pinimg.com/736x/e9/fd/81/e9fd81410bf7733e0ef46fd1c13625e2--open-window-restraint.jpg

This could just as easily be posted in the Control thread. I'm sure I've posted this image before, or at least reposted it. And my imagination goes wild every time I encounter it.

I don't think of myself as an Exhibitionist. I don't really get a thrill out of taking my clothes of in front of people I don't know. I feel uncomfortable about free use situations or having pictures or video taken of me while naked or sexually compromised. It mostly just makes me feel afraid, uncertain, worried.
However... it all starts to flip if it is at the behest of my D. Especially if he has been playing with me in all the ways he has learned to push my buttons and take me down Depravity Lane where my eager to please, subby head space will teach me that I crave things I didn't think I wanted or liked. This gets multiplied when I feel certain that no matter what happens he will keep me safe, stop if I safe word and not cross agreed upon limits. It's these grey areas of "not my thing, but not out of bounds" that dance on the edge of how I see myself sexually, push me into discomfort as I bend to his sexual desires and sadistic play. The fact that he wants me to try something, do something, engage with activities that are in that grey zone pushes my need to obey and please him and zeroes out all objections.

This scene... tied beautifully in a restraint that must expose her breasts and pussy completely, pushes lots of edges for me. Placed in front of a window... daylight... unable to see behind me who enters the room. The high rise makes the window exposure more of a feeling that she can be seen... but my brain goes twisted places.... Has he coordinated with a friend to photograph from another building? Has he set up a viewing party with a telescope where people are having cocktails and watching me? He tells her has. And then he shows her pictures on his phone sent from his voyeur photographer so she knows she is being seen. 😳
 
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