The clit and her g-spot

[Bigaug]

I read too many postings here about guys climbing on their lady or a lady and sticking it in and fucking her brains out, how their huge cock satisfied her, etc etc, I am not saying a lady can't orgasm by intercourse alone, but guys, lick and suck that clit, rub her rough little g-spot, give her a number of orgasms before you jump on top and blow your load. It's a two way street, it's all about the full pleasure. Our best sex (besides masturbating ourselves) was me going down on her, a finger in her pussy, maybe one in her ass, and making her explode to the point she squeezes my head between her legs and then the finale of us both cumming again together. Just saying.....

 

[Wonderer67]

Everyone is different and you have to find that out. My wife’s clit is extremely sensitive. So much so, that direct stimulation can be very painful for her.

So we found other things that make her feel good. She gushes when her g spot is stimulated in certain positions. Cunnilingus focuses more on her opening and lips than the clit.

There are other places that are very sensitive (in a good way) for her. She loves kissing. Being held.

And sometimes we both enjoy a good hard fucking.

It’s what works for the both of you.

We practice orgasm control… so she cums a hell of a lot more than I do. Her pleasure is really my pleasure and over the years we have found out what feels best for her.

This dynamic works really well for us.

 

[live4thebj]

You are talking like everyone should do what you say. Here are facts after being with 20 woman (more or less because I lost count).

1. There are woman that can cum from just penetration.

2. There are woman that can cum from anal sex.

3. I never been successful with the G-Spot for woman.

4. Oral works 100% of the time with every single woman I done it to.

5. Woman sometimes just want to fuck and not concerned about cumming.

6. There are woman that cum from giving head.

7. There is woman that can cum from just tit play.

8. There are woman that can cum just by licking and kissing a spot on their shoulder. That one was a big surprise for me. Especially where it happened and who it happened with.

9. There are woman that want to experience incest whom are afraid to initiate.

And the list goes on.

 

[Wriggle]

The G-spot may be an extension of the clitoris,

 

[TheVegasMark]

Do lovers ever talk...??

 

[Swuq]

I read too many postings here about guys climbing on their lady or a lady and sticking it in and fucking her brains out, how their huge cock satisfied her, etc etc, I am not saying a lady can't orgasm by intercourse alone, but guys, lick and suck that clit, rub her rough little g-spot, give her a number of orgasms before you jump on top and blow your load. It's a two way street, it's all about the full pleasure. Our best sex (besides masturbating ourselves) was me going down on her, a finger in her pussy, maybe one in her ass, and making her explode to the point she squeezes my head between her legs and then the finale of us both cumming again together. Just saying.....

My experience is woman come harder and multiple times when I go down them. This always is the first thing I do. Then I fuck her brains out.

 

[Deadfreak]

Do lovers ever talk...??

Great point .......
Not frequently or openly enough

 

[Swuq]

Great point .......
Not frequently or openly enough

I have learned that when I go down them that ask for her feedback. What is working and what isn’t. They are not all the same. Part of the fun is learning makes her squirm.

 

[FreckledSprite]

Assuming women are a monolith

Getting to know someone as an individual and their likes/dislikes

 

[bobsch703]

After we had been married for awhile, I went looking for my wife's g-spot and soon enough found that little rough patch inside her vagina on the anterior wall. I worked it a bunch of times, in hopes of finding a new way to make her come and maybe even squirt, but it never really did anything for her. I even used one of those g-spot toys on her, and while she got off on it, it was nothing anything different than any other toy, my fingers, my tongue or my dick. She probably just liked the vibration and penetration, because holding it on the g-spot or rubbing it across the g-spot didn't elicit any different or more intense reactions than anything else.
Her clit, on the other hand, I have been intimately familiar with since we started having sex. I can use that thing to make her cum with just my hand (she claims I have magic fingers), my tongue or my dick. As a matter of fact, since I'm not into quickies and getting my partner off feeds my ego, eventually I'd play a game where I would get her off with my hand, my mouth and my dick before I would focus on letting myself come. Later toys were added so sometimes there would be a fourth different way to get her off added to the repertoire. I also love how I can make it swell to two or more times its normal size when I stick my fingers, a toy or my tongue in her ass.
Whether you call it a hang up or whatever, due to self esteem issues I've always wanted to get whoever I was with off at least once, usually more, before I focusing on myself coming. Making them come feeds my ego, and in my dating days I figured making sure they really enjoyed it increased my chances of getting asked back

 

[Sct73]

I find each woman to be a bit different, some a lot different. I enjoy learning how and what they like. I enjoy even more doing everything for them that she desires

 

[drobert44]

I find each woman to be a bit different, some a lot different. I enjoy learning how and what they like. I enjoy even more doing everything for them that she desires

Cant wait to try out my G spot buzzer on my GF.

 

[Artfan2]

I did my recent fantasy - age gap. His informative years were way before the internet was invented. He thought the clit and g were the same thing, bless. Now he knows better

Good for you! It sounds like you taught an old dog some new tricks. Hopefully he showed you a thing or two too.

 

[drobert44]

Good for you! It sounds like you taught an old dog some new tricks. Hopefully he showed you a thing or two too.

Bless you!

 

[nsa69kink]

I find exploring her body the greatest turn on. Feeling & watching her body jerk, twitch, orgasm, squirt ..... dear LAWD, that drives me totally insane

 

[Lucien_Al]

Cant wait to try out my G spot buzzer on my GF.

My partner does not like a vibe on her g spot at all. She much prefers simple pressure to the spot with a dildo or fingers and the moment you start any stimulation to her clit at the same time she starts to edge over and over. Normally she wants to stop after the first one as they are so intense. Despite the clit play she says her orgasm is completely different when there is g spot stimulation that clitoral alone.

 

[ReadyOne]

Some women cum from pressure -- hard pressure -- on their g-spot.

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

Some women do this, some women do that...

We're all different, guys. The guys who think they can give multiple orgasms with their tongues? Yes, you can, sometimes, with some women. But it that's your go-to, your vocabulary is very limited. Sometimes I love having a guy go down on me. But if he knows his way around female anatomy as well as a lot of men only pretend to, then - depending on my mood, how horny I am, which side of my cycle I'm at, whether the day has a T in it, maybe it's raining, whatever - he'll find that sometimes I'd way rather a couple of fingers on my g spot, or maybe my nipples REALLY need that attention now, or whatever.

Think of a woman's body as a book, and learn to read! Check the index regularly, read all the appendices, be willing to skip a chapter or go back to page one when you think you need to. Those guys are quite rare but they're the ones that'll get the best out of me, and will get the best in return.

 

[Cogan]

Some women do this, some women do that...

We're all different, guys. The guys who think they can give multiple orgasms with their tongues? Yes, you can, sometimes, with some women. But it that's your go-to, your vocabulary is very limited. Sometimes I love having a guy go down on me. But if he knows his way around female anatomy as well as a lot of men only pretend to, then - depending on my mood, how horny I am, which side of my cycle I'm at, whether the day has a T in it, maybe it's raining, whatever - he'll find that sometimes I'd way rather a couple of fingers on my g spot, or maybe my nipples REALLY need that attention now, or whatever.

Think of a woman's body as a book, and learn to read! Check the index regularly, read all the appendices, be willing to skip a chapter or go back to page one when you think you need to. Those guys are quite rare but they're the ones that'll get the best out of me, and will get the best in return.

Amen!

 

[TheVegasMark]

Amen!

The game is different everytime one goes to work on their lover....I enjoy my partner giving me an audio lead....The moans and sighs make my cock wet and diamond cutting hard...I end up in a different place that gets her over the top with those sounds...!!

 

[GOODLUCKEVA]

I totally get what you're saying that every woman's body has its own rhythm, and it's all about being present and in tune with what feels right in the moment. The ones who really take the time to listen and learn are the ones who create the best experiences, and that's what makes all the difference.

 

[nsa69kink]

So true. They are all different. ....never ran across 9, but hearing about it might be stimulating. LOL. To rest though, 100%, On #1 though, I have foud that this is reserved for the larger penis penetration - a feeling of fulness and entering the cervix area.

No no no, bollox to do with the size of ur schlong, it's how well u use it by reading her body & hearing her

 

[oldguymem]

Communication and understanding the other's desires is so important and rarely is done.

 

[TpHuRmUpSsT_1]

I read too many postings here about guys climbing on their lady or a lady and sticking it in and fucking her brains out, how their huge cock satisfied her, etc etc, I am not saying a lady can't orgasm by intercourse alone, but guys, lick and suck that clit, rub her rough little g-spot, give her a number of orgasms before you jump on top and blow your load. It's a two way street, it's all about the full pleasure. Our best sex (besides masturbating ourselves) was me going down on her, a finger in her pussy, maybe one in her ass, and making her explode to the point she squeezes my head between her legs and then the finale of us both cumming again together. Just saying.....