CCG’s Cave of Confessions

Except the ones who've tried on me. That knocks it down a percent lmao
So question for you. I have had several different guys that have said they don't cum from oral. And even if that's true. Which I'm sure many guys probably don't. Do you still enjoy it?
Like if you both go into it knowing that there's a very high percentage rate that you might not cum. Do you still enjoy having it done?
I'm not really one of those people that goes around bragging that I can make any guy have an orgasm from oral. However I still enjoy doing it even if I know there is going to be no prize at the end.
 
So question for you. I have had several different guys that have said they don't cum from oral. And even if that's true. Which I'm sure many guys probably don't. Do you still enjoy it?
Like if you both go into it knowing that there's a very high percentage rate that you might not cum. Do you still enjoy having it done?
I'm not really one of those people that goes around bragging that I can make any guy have an orgasm from oral. However I still enjoy doing it even if I know there is going to be no prize at the end.
It's still gonna feel good and probably lead to more so I don't know why someone wouldn't want it
 
“My confession is that I was an accidental prostitute for a while!

Hopefully you'll know what I mean about accidental afterwards, lol.

When I was an 18 year old fully legal senior, I had a part time job at a dentist's office as a receptionist. One day, the dentist asked me if I would like to earn some money babysitting for his kids. I'd met them, and they seemed like good kids so I agreed. Plus, he said he'd pay well, and he did.

The first few times, all was normal. Then one evening I went over and the kids and his wife were not there. He said they were at the grandparents and he was sorry for the mix-up. Then he said, since I was already there, maybe I'd like a drink? Now, I was one of those rare teens who didn't drink normally, but it sounded exciting.

You know where this is leading.

This happened several times. I never asked him for money, but he always insisted. Sometimes he'd slip it in my purse or coat pocket. And it was a LOT. I didn't want him to pay - I was a stupid young woman who was thrilled that this older, accomplished man wanted to be with me. He always paid, though.


I eventually started feeling really guilty, so I ended up quitting. I went away to college not long after, so nothing really came of it, but it helped with some of my expenses at school.“
You yada yadad over the best part.

 
So question for you. I have had several different guys that have said they don't cum from oral. And even if that's true. Which I'm sure many guys probably don't. Do you still enjoy it?
Like if you both go into it knowing that there's a very high percentage rate that you might not cum. Do you still enjoy having it done?
I'm not really one of those people that goes around bragging that I can make any guy have an orgasm from oral. However I still enjoy doing it even if I know there is going to be no prize at the end.
I can't speak for all men but I enjoy it if it's someone I have a connection with. For me, its about closeness and intimacy as opposed to finding the end goal as quickly and efficiently as possible.

If you'd have asked me this question in my early 20s there'd likely be a different answer but you'll have no argument from me the outlook of young men is extremely narrow sighted with a glaring lack of knowledge and an abundance of outside pressure.
 
“My confession is that I was an accidental prostitute for a while!

Hopefully you'll know what I mean about accidental afterwards, lol.

When I was an 18 year old fully legal senior, I had a part time job at a dentist's office as a receptionist. One day, the dentist asked me if I would like to earn some money babysitting for his kids. I'd met them, and they seemed like good kids so I agreed. Plus, he said he'd pay well, and he did.

The first few times, all was normal. Then one evening I went over and the kids and his wife were not there. He said they were at the grandparents and he was sorry for the mix-up. Then he said, since I was already there, maybe I'd like a drink? Now, I was one of those rare teens who didn't drink normally, but it sounded exciting.

You know where this is leading.

This happened several times. I never asked him for money, but he always insisted. Sometimes he'd slip it in my purse or coat pocket. And it was a LOT. I didn't want him to pay - I was a stupid young woman who was thrilled that this older, accomplished man wanted to be with me. He always paid, though.


I eventually started feeling really guilty, so I ended up quitting. I went away to college not long after, so nothing really came of it, but it helped with some of my expenses at school.“
Wait, so where did this lead?
 
So question for you. I have had several different guys that have said they don't cum from oral. And even if that's true. Which I'm sure many guys probably don't. Do you still enjoy it?
Like if you both go into it knowing that there's a very high percentage rate that you might not cum. Do you still enjoy having it done?
I'm not really one of those people that goes around bragging that I can make any guy have an orgasm from oral. However I still enjoy doing it even if I know there is going to be no prize at the end.
it's usually a mindset for me to be able to cum from oral, i love getting it, it feels amazing, but it's not the best way or easiest way to make me cum. there have been several women who in the heat and intensity of the moment have made me finish extremely quickly, but usually i feel guilty that its taking too long and get in my own head, and push the action along. i consider myself a "pleasure dom" (though that was challenged in an earlier post :ROFLMAO: ) and derive the majority of my pleasure from that of my partner. so im sure it has more to do with what's going on in my head than the quality of the experience.
 
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Thank you for the replies. I appreciate them. ❤️
I can relate on many levels because oral is not my first choice the pleasure department for myself
 
So question for you. I have had several different guys that have said they don't cum from oral. And even if that's true. Which I'm sure many guys probably don't. Do you still enjoy it?
Like if you both go into it knowing that there's a very high percentage rate that you might not cum. Do you still enjoy having it done?
I'm not really one of those people that goes around bragging that I can make any guy have an orgasm from oral. However I still enjoy doing it even if I know there is going to be no prize at the end.
I never have. And you it feels amazing.

Here’s a perspective I think is healthy. I have a friend that says she’s never came from oral. I’ve had a few ladies that said that and I happily converted them (also, they probably lied to me to get me to do it … honestly they could just ask). Anyway, before I have a chance to brag about my skills, she says “of course all men tell me they can get me there!”

And she goes on to just to say how she wishes it was low pressure. That it was in the moment and you didn’t have to have the almighty O.

I think that was really healthy of her. I think it’s a great perspective.
 
Thank you for the replies. I appreciate them. ❤️
I can relate on many levels because oral is not my first choice the pleasure department for myself
.What's been beautiful for me is taking the time with your partner to play with what works and what doesn't and learning to enjoy each other right where you are in the process. I wish I'd learned that early on. Then again I probably wouldn't have listened to my older self lolol.
 
Thank you for the replies. I appreciate them. ❤️
I can relate on many levels because oral is not my first choice the pleasure department for myself
I wanted to reply, because I think my post kind of led to things going off the rails a little. It was really intended as funny repartee, following up on CCG's post. I didn't think it would be taken so literally.

In no way was it supposed to imply that everyone should like oral, or that if a guy doesn't cum it's a failing on either side, or anything like that. We all know sex is a very individual thing.

My 💯 thing wasn't supposed to be a brag, either. I thought it was just a funny way to continue the conversation.

So I'm sorry if I hurt anyone's feelings or came across as a braggart. Not my intention at all.

I think it's good we had this conversation, though. In real life, there is a lot more to peoples' relationships than whether someone orgasms or not. I don't think people should judge sex like a performance or contest, nor judge themselves if they are different from the next person.

I am just somewhat flippant when I post here, sometimes. Please don't take things like this too seriously. ❤️
 
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I wanted to reply, because I think my post kind of led to things going off the rails a little. It was really intended as funny repartee, following up on CCG's post. I didn't think it would be taken so literally.

In no way was it supposed to imply that everyone should like oral, or that if a guy doesn't cum it's a failing on either side, or anything like that. We all know sex is a very individual thing.

My 💯 thing wasn't supposed to be a brag, either. I thought it was just a funny way to continue the conversation.

So I'm sorry if I hurt anyone's feelings or came across as a braggart. Not my intention at all.

I think it's good we had this conversation, though. In real life, there is a lot more to peoples' relationships than whether someone orgasms or not. I don't think people should judge sex like a performance or contest, nor judge themselves if they are different from the next person.

I am just somewhat flippant when I post here, sometimes. Please don't take things like this too seriously. ❤️
I don't think anyone was upset. I thought it was a good and fun conversation. 🤷🏻
 
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