Hi all, married to a beautiful woman here for over 30 years. She's been seeing a 29yo guy for the last 3 years and we talk about everything. Prior to having kids we had a bit of a crisis when I discovered she had slept with a few guys without me knowing. Once we got past that, we agreed to talk about it openly and it became something that has actually kept us closer. It has kept our sex life alive. More people do it that you'd expect. Love sharing with others in the same situation.