Chaos: Don't Stress, Undress

[Deadfreak]

You're so vein, I bet you think this thread is about you...

Spelled vane wrong

 

[UnquietDreams]

What does setting better examples mean? Being decent human beings?

But these fuckers don’t care about that. Here they can cowardly hide behind some stupid username bully women and bring them down.

They should get a beating.

Even if that were possible, it is a bad answer. At best you are returning evil for evil, and that is bad math. At worst you are reenforcing the offender's sick view that they are the victim, not the one they victimized. Ignored and shunned works better. Don't feed them

And most of all, if anyone feels unappreciated or bad about what they get back when they are brave enough to post, they should not post. Bravery should be cherished, not be meant to feel gross.

 

[Deadfreak]

What does setting better examples mean? Being decent human beings?

But these fuckers don’t care about that. Here they can cowardly hide behind some stupid username bully women and bring them down.

They should get a beating.

They would enjoy the beating

 

[Mr_bogey]

You're so vein, I bet you think this thread is about you...

This is your 4th name since you were exposed as a misogynistic douchebag. She has blocked you under your 3 previous handles and you won't stop stalking her.
She has been kind in not exposing you. Im not as kind. You are pond scum.

 

[LupineOne]

Even if that were possible, it is a bad answer. At best you are returning evil for evil, and that is bad math. At worst you are reenforcing the offender's sick view that they are the victim, not the one they victimized. Ignored and shunned works better. Don't feed them

And most of all, if anyone feels unappreciated or bad about what they get back when they are brave enough to post, they should not post. Bravery should be cherished, not be meant to feel gross.

Exactly. Attention, any attention, is how they feed. Perfectly said.

 

[Mr_bogey]

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Congrats. You blew up the board once and now you contributed to driving a women away from posting. What's next?

 

[Deadfreak]

This is your 4th name since you were exposed as a misogynistic douchebag. She has blocked you under your 3 previous handles and you won't stop stalking her.
She has been kind in not exposing you. Im not as kind. You are pond scum.

This post is an eagle Mr. B

 

[tyguy2104]

Anyone want to come make sweater pumpkins with me?
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I love eating pumpkin

 

[AuntieDisco]

Yes. Yes you can. Every single damn day the mood strikes.

That’s a beautiful shot. Thank you. You’re absolutely stunning.
I wish I could go all wolf and pounce

I’m sure you can move like one
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[Deadfreak]

Well fuck. The stress level sure has risen.
This is why I haven't been on a certain unsocial media site I used to enjoy
The few outweigh the many, or are louder and meaner.
There's just no easy answer, that's all I've got to say

 

[LostHorizon]

Yeah more toxicity is what we need.

Even if that were possible, it is a bad answer. At best you are returning evil for evil, and that is bad math. At worst you are reenforcing the offender's sick view that they are the victim, not the one they victimized. Ignored and shunned works better. Don't feed them

And most of all, if anyone feels unappreciated or bad about what they get back when they are brave enough to post, they should not post. Bravery should be cherished, not be meant to feel gross.

Obviously beating them up isn’t possible.

My point is it’s easy to be a lowlife piece of shit when one is hiding in anonymity. In real life behavior like that catches you a beating (literally or figuratively) at some point. That’s not bad math, that’s reality. That’s why they do it behind a keyboard.

These people are the worst kind of bullies imaginable. Ignoring them doesn’t solve the problem, it never does.

 

[UnquietDreams]

Obviously beating them up isn’t possible.

Obviously beating them up isn’t possible.

My point is it’s easy to be a lowlife piece of shit when one is hiding in anonymity. In real life behavior like that catches you a beating (literally or figuratively) at some point. That’s not bad math, that’s reality. That’s why they do it behind a keyboard.

These people are the worst kind of bullies imaginable. Ignoring them doesn’t solve the problem, it never does.

Sure it does. The only power is what you give them. No audience, no power. You respond, even negatively, you give them what they really want.

I ignore pond scum, I don't yell at it.

 

[UnquietDreams]

Obviously beating them up isn’t possible.

My point is it’s easy to be a lowlife piece of shit when one is hiding in anonymity. In real life behavior like that catches you a beating (literally or figuratively) at some point. That’s not bad math, that’s reality. That’s why they do it behind a keyboard.

These people are the worst kind of bullies imaginable. Ignoring them doesn’t solve the problem, it never does.

Also? Amanda and all of the women here don't need me to defend (or avenge) them. They are more than capable of taking care of themselves.

 

[Deadfreak]

Also? Amanda and all of the women here don't need me to defend (or avenge) them. They are more than capable of taking care of themselves.

They have proven that for sure by having the gargantuan balls to post in the first place
They all get a standing O vation from me (not that they need it)

 

[Mr_bogey]

Also? Amanda and all of the women here don't need me to defend (or avenge) them. They are more than capable of taking care of themselves.

This is true. She doesn't need me to defend/protect her. Supporting her and having guys say this behavior is unacceptable is important though --- not to her but so some people know their behavior is not ok. Both people i mentioned have history. They need to be called out because ignoring it wasnt working.
I learned a lesson decades ago on staying silent. This was wrong and I won't be quiet about it.

 

[PassionatePanther]

Also? Amanda and all of the women here don't need me to defend (or avenge) them. They are more than capable of taking care of themselves.

You’re right that we don’t need the good guys sticking up for us, but I for one appreciate when men call out other men’s BS. It somehow goes a little further sadly. 3 cheers for the mutherfucking patriarchy

 

[UnquietDreams]

This is true. She doesn't need me to defend/protect her. Supporting her and having guys say this behavior is unacceptable is important though --- not to her but so some people know their behavior is not ok. Both people i mentioned have history. They need to be called out because ignoring it wasnt working.
I learned a lesson decades ago on staying silent. This was wrong and I won't be quiet about it.

And you know the history, so that makes sense. To me, he is just another uncivil, uncouth, entitled asshole.

 

[MindYaBitness]

Also? Amanda and all of the women here don't need me to defend (or avenge) them. They are more than capable of taking care of themselves.

I appreciate that, we are strong & capable. But, sadly, male bullies, of the keyboard misogynist variety, often only get it when better men call them out. I'm grateful for friends on here who don't let bad behavior go unnoticed.

 

[UnquietDreams]

You’re right that we don’t need the good guys sticking up for us, but I for one appreciate when men call out other men’s BS. It somehow goes a little further sadly. 3 cheers for the mutherfucking patriarchy

I agree-- there can be salvage when someone makes a mistake. And I am not in a position to throw the first stone -- people have had grace in my life, and I learned to be better. But I think we are talking about people who chose to be assholes as a life choice. They are toxic and they know it. Unfortunately you have people who don't want to be respectful and don't want to learn. They suck diseased weasel dicks, but there you are.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

Obviously beating them up isn’t possible.

My point is it’s easy to be a lowlife piece of shit when one is hiding in anonymity. In real life behavior like that catches you a beating (literally or figuratively) at some point. That’s not bad math, that’s reality. That’s why they do it behind a keyboard.

These people are the worst kind of bullies imaginable. Ignoring them doesn’t solve the problem, it never does.

It doesn’t “catch you a beating” it catches you the fucking presidency. Violent posturing plays their game and creates the exact world that lets that behavior thrive. It places the emphasis on male strength to “protect” which is the root of the behavior in the first place. You fight this shit not as individual gladiators in a pit but as a community that says this ain’t allowed here.

 

[MidwestPrincess23]

I think we could all use a palate cleanse

We’ve chatted about this in S&S… but can anyone really argue feet in b&w??

**edit to add… if this doesn’t stop the fuckery happening here, I’ll likely follow my girlfriends and see myself out for a while

 

[UnquietDreams]

I think we could all use a palate cleanse

We’ve chatted about this in S&S… but can anyone really argue feet in b&w??

No, no I can't.

 

[MandaPandaa]

Also? Amanda and all of the women here don't need me to defend (or avenge) them. They are more than capable of taking care of themselves.

Thank you. I don't need anyone fighting my battles but it is lovely to feel the support of friends and other people who care about us. It's good to have men who are willing to call out the poor behavior of other men.

This is true. She doesn't need me to defend/protect her. Supporting her and having guys say this behavior is unacceptable is important though --- not to her but so some people know their behavior is not ok. Both people i mentioned have history. They need to be called out because ignoring it wasnt working.
I learned a lesson decades ago on staying silent. This was wrong and I won't be quiet about it.

It is true - but I appreciate it all the same. One of the things I love about you is that you're always there for people you care about.

 

[van_delay]

I think we could all use a palate cleanse

We’ve chatted about this in S&S… but can anyone really argue feet in b&w??

**edit to add… if this doesn’t stop the fuckery happening here, I’ll likely follow my girlfriends and see myself out for a while

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OMG. Just what I needed right now.

 

[Deadfreak]

I think we could all use a palate cleanse

We’ve chatted about this in S&S… but can anyone really argue feet in b&w??

**edit to add… if this doesn’t stop the fuckery happening here, I’ll likely follow my girlfriends and see myself out for a while

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Voice of reason
I will allow myself the distraction and use my imagination and memory to picture myself leading the owner of these beautiful feet out of the tub onto a fuzzy mat. I will take the towel I warmed in the dryer for 4 minutes and 20 seconds and wrap the body with a long hug before gently caressing every centimeter with the drying touch of the towel.
After all of the soft smooth skin has been attended to, I hand over the towel for the lady to do whatever she needs for the hair (I know better than to mess with the hair).