Breastobsessed84
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Masturbate, screw around online, occasionally cheat
What do all of you in sexless marriages do for sex?
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Deadbed1968
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You gotta do what you gotta do
van_delay
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Currently doing it.
SPARTAN047
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Unmarried but that's me all right, and therefore it's what I might do if I had been hitched.
trevorness
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My wife was drunk the other night and snuggled up to me amorously, and said “So I guess you are not interested in sex any more…” And I sputtered what?! I am very interested! She passed out, snoring in my face.
I guess I do not communicate my desires clearly.
I guess I do not communicate my desires clearly.
write_or_wrong
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Wow, so sad and funny at the same time. Going from hopeful to no chance in seconds. So sorry! Next time prevent that last drink and maybe there will be a happy ending.
like to pee myself and wear differevt panties and and pull up diapers.
drobert44
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Same, bro.....same
Britva415
"Alabaster," my ass
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What’re you gonna do now?
trevorness
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Overcome 25 years of poor communication habits and tell her I would love to have sex?
Britva415
"Alabaster," my ass
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Attaboy!
That's what I did. Took a while, ha (over the years, I did try, again and again. But grew weary of it after no results...but then tried again recently, much more determined this go around!).
Before that: erotic stories, phone sex, Playboy, Penthouse, Hustler, DVDs, women masturbating, lesbians, three way sex, wife sharing, cum shots, then I started flirting with other women at my work, old girlfriends on Facebook. Then one on one cam shows, strip clubs...and then...overcoming our poor communication habits! I confessed my hunger to my very religious wife, and was very unapologetic about loving to jack off to porn but that I wanted more and a connection with her, like therapy for my lust. Months later, she happily watched me masturbate to my favorite porn models and I watched her take a larger dildo and orgasm repeatedly with it. Really got off on it, I bought one larger and thicker than me, paid good money for a good realistic cock. Fun!!
Anihotrod11
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It's been almost 2 years since I've had sex with my wife,
This led to more masturbating and porn,
And I started taking an interest in hard cocks too.
This led to more masturbating and porn,
And I started taking an interest in hard cocks too.
OldnCurious
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I won't say I am in a sexless marriage, but I do go long stretches without sex. When that happens I simply masturbate and I visit sites like Lit, view porn, or engage in chat.
Patsysub
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i would love to chat&e-mail with you to share our secrets&fantasies&stories and giving you some tasks!
SpicyMama38
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My marriage isn’t sexless, but it might as well be. I don’t get at all the sex I want and my husband has made it clear he has no interest in anytime more than vanilla sex once, maybe twice a month. I know that some might think it’s better than nothing, but I haven’t had a orgasm with him since before our kids were born and while he is “satisfied” I’m left feeling completely neglected.
I compensate by having a very rich masturbation practice and one time I had a beyond exciting night with another man.
I compensate by having a very rich masturbation practice and one time I had a beyond exciting night with another man.
RoanMtn
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I'm in the same situation. It's been over 20 years for me. Like many others I masturbate, but I miss the intimacy and cuddling, which you can't get from masturbating.
I felt the same way so I did one on one cam shows with other women, private sessions. Very intense orgasms as she encourages and complements me as the cum shoots up my neck, she's smiling, now moaning as she rubs one out, says she's impressed with the amount of semen I've got splattered all over my chest. Very intense and pleasurable. But it's not free, it costs per minute, ha.
My issue is I also wanted conversation about my wife, my porn secrets, what I wanted to do with my wife. In fact I audio recorded a few orgasmic sessions with my wife using a dildo some years ago, I thought things were going to improve between us but then she refused to use them and she got boring again overall. I did have a 30 year old very sexy and intelligent cam lady from Columbia get me off for a few months. And one from France, very cute. So me and my cam ladies would masturbate to my audio recording of my wife cumming with her dildo, listening to my wife talk dirty and moaning. We would all masturbate together basically. That was incredibly fun.
Also went to a very upscale strip club and the rubbed out lap dance orgasm was nice. But not cheap ha. Also debated going to a legalized massage parlor and sex clubs in Toronto. But then I resolved to try to turn my church wife back into my play partner, have written about that on here. So I've given up the cam shows and clubs.
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Dorc
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We should chat. I’m in TN as well.
SmokingFap
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I'm sorry for your mostly sexless and bland situation. But that's why God created porn and gave us arms long enough to masturbate with.
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