Women who don't swallow ?

[Lucy_Lastic]

To Lucy_Lastic a ridiculous and irellivent answer to an innocent question. I see why your an X sugar daddy. Did I say that out load ?

Why ridiculous or irrelevant? You prefer forcing people to do stuff they don't want to do?

Your sex life (assuming you have one that involves more than a fist, kleenex and access to the internet) will improve tremendously if you take into account your partners likes and dislikes.

Sex is more fun if you're equal partners, not the archaic expectation of women existing to have stuff done to them and men being there to do it.

 

[twister947]

If he's a total asshole about it (the tone in your statement makes me think the guy in the made up situation is being a total asshole about it), I ask him to leave. Take your blue balls and jerk off in the car.

If he says, "I don't like oral sex", I accept that and we do something else. But I don't fool around with him again. I don't want to live without good oral sex.

I agree...rude and insensitive. I would hope we're all being held to the same standard .

 

[forgotmyantidepressants]

I agree...rude and insensitive. I would hope we're all being held to the same standard .

I never got the impression we're not. OP asked, and a few women responded.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

I think Lucy_Lastic has a valid point. If she doesnt like the taste why make her do it?
Have you tasted yourself?

That wasn't her point. She never said I don't like the taste. That would be a legit reply.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

Why ridiculous or irrelevant? You prefer forcing people to do stuff they don't want to do?

Your sex life (assuming you have one that involves more than a fist, kleenex and access to the internet) will improve tremendously if you take into account your partners likes and dislikes.

Sex is more fun if you're equal partners, not the archaic expectation of women existing to have stuff done to them and men being there to do

I asked a question. I never said anything about forcing a woman into doing anything. I have no idea why you took this innocent question to a level of "it's my body" and male dominance.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

You just act like an adult and say it's not something you enjoy. It's not difficult, is it?

Thank you ! Thats the simple answer

 

[womaneater58]

I tend to get really excited as we look into each others eyes as I watch her swallow but it doesn't really matter to me whether she swallows or not as long as she enjoys getting me there.

 

[Goldenfinger]

I had a gf long time ago that gave me a choice we could have sex or oral but not both. I chose sex. Then months later she said she wanted to give me a bj. But I could not cum in mer mouth, I had to tell her when I was about to cum and if I didn’t and came in her mouth she would let me finish and spit it on me. She was mean about the whole thing. I never came from a bj from any partner. It’s wasn’t until I met my wife that I did.

 

[emme8]

I enjoy vaginal sex, anal sex, hand jobs, and giving oral sex but... I HATE cum.

It's the taste. The consistency, The prickly feeling. The aftertaste that lingers. The sticky on my hands as I attempt to scrub it off. It just nauseates me.
The idea os spitting is even worse than swallowing. I'd be experiencing it even longer.

I had some potential Doms tell me they would want me to swallow. Ummm, maybe if you were perfect in EVERY other was would I try once.

My current Dom enjoys my blow jobs, but he would much rather cum inside me. Although once he came on my face, very soon after he was washing my face with wet wipes. (My expression must have been bonekill.)

I think I have swallowed about 5 times (all for hubby). Most often he tells me when he's getting close. If I let him cum good, it's in my pussy. Otherwise I finish him with various degrees of a ruined handjob.

 

[Rob_Royale]

My wife will swallow occasionally, but only when she's deep throating me and it's right back there and gone. She states unequivocally that she doesn't like the taste, nor the viscosity. I have tasted it, and I can't blame her there. In any case, nutting across her tits feels just as great as finishing in her mouth, so I'm cool with whatever she wants to do.

 

[Aging_Sorceress]

OK as a guy the saying goes "There is no thing as a bad blow job" For the most part that is true. I'm assuming a woman treats going down on her man like a man treats going down on a woman.

There is something about it though when a woman swallows my load. I don;t get it when a woman takes everything you got into her mouth only to hold it there to go spit it out. If she doesn't like the taste why hold it wouldn't you just release when I start to come ? Wouldn't it be easier just to let it slide down your throat ?

I've had some hot blow jobs where a woman not only swallows every drop but she continues to lick and suck the top of my head for every drop. I get hard now just thinking about that.

I've also had some of my best blow jobs by woman who get up and spit me out. It kind of takes away from the whole pleasure.

So my question to the ladies is Why ? Why not swallow ? Is there some hidden thing that I'm missing ?

To swallow or not to swallow is an ongoing debate. I am a swallower and always have been unless a guy wants to spray me. I am OK with that too.

I don't think taste is a reason not to swallow. Come is a bit smarmy but the taste is not awful I think not swallowing is more of a psychological or emotional reaction. Someone once said to me they don't swallow food they don't like, but I responded that they still did eat.

I don't criticize anybody who doesn't swallow. I think blowjobs are the ultimate pleasure someone can give a partner and for the recipient to be unfulfilled because the giver doesn't follow up as desired is rather callous.

 

[emme8]

Although I have deliberately left hubby unfulfilled several times, it wasn't due to my lack of swallowing.

I know how to fulfill a man's needs without having to swallow. And if my lack of swallowing would be a deal breaker for you, then yours needs are definitely going to remain unfulfilled until you can find someone who will.

 

[bobsch703]

As a guy, I really don't care if she swallows or spits. How can you complain if you just orgasmed?
That being said, while it's not a big sample size, the 10 women that have blown me to orgasm have all swallowed without complaint.

 

[jays78]

Only been swallowed twice. To be fair, oral usually doesn’t get me off, just really worked up. Once im rock hard, all I want to do is eat her pussy and then fuck.

Both bjs that ended in swallowing were amazing, but the wife’s doesn’t like to so just memories for me.

 

[badonkadoku]

It stings

It STINGS???

 

[Erosfan]

My late wife really enjoyed giving me blow jobs and she was amazing at it. She did not swallow, she just let it run out of her mouth and continued to suck until I got too sensitive.
I never had a problem with that. We didn't snowball, but I enjoyed kissing her after we finished. She never hesitated kissing me after I had gone down on her.

 

[MichelleSwan]

OK as a guy the saying goes "There is no thing as a bad blow job" For the most part that is true. I'm assuming a woman treats going down on her man like a man treats going down on a woman.

There is something about it though when a woman swallows my load. I don;t get it when a woman takes everything you got into her mouth only to hold it there to go spit it out. If she doesn't like the taste why hold it wouldn't you just release when I start to come ? Wouldn't it be easier just to let it slide down your throat ?

I've had some hot blow jobs where a woman not only swallows every drop but she continues to lick and suck the top of my head for every drop. I get hard now just thinking about that.

I've also had some of my best blow jobs by woman who get up and spit me out. It kind of takes away from the whole pleasure.

So my question to the ladies is Why ? Why not swallow ? Is there some hidden thing that I'm missing ?

I'll reference this to a query from my husband regarding swallowing. After his first experience with a male I was full of questions particularly how he felt. Performing oral he enjoyed the scent and taste of his lovers penis, the height of arousal as he was about to cum, my husband wanted so badly his semen in his mouth with every intention to swallow his load. Until it happened, he felt the spurts against his tounge and roof of mouth, pursing in between his gums and cheeks filling his orface. A bitter sweet (literally) taste of seed as this man pulled his cock from my husband's mouth, them something happened mentally and he spit. He invisioned all the tiny sperm swimming around in his mouth and didn't want it in his tummy. This is similar to some girlfriends accounts of why they don't swallow. I've never explored this, if anyone has any explanation for the rift

 

[dr2brd]

I don't understand the importance of swallowing, honestly. Just an evidence of male's domination probably? My wife is great in orals and really loves it. I often don't even understand did I cum into her mouth or not and did she swallow or let it loose. And absolutely don't care since it's always a seventh heaven

 

[LeaHaven]

sounds gross but I want to try it, just to say I have done it

 

[Bonnie_Does]

The mouth is the gateway to our stomachs and when something is introduced to it our natural instinct is to swallow it. The first time I had a man "cum" in my mouth while sucking him off, it was only natural to swallow the warm, creamy thick stuff. A lot say the taste is awful but I rather disagree with them, although that first taste was not all that pleasant.
Side note; My mother who is a Scotch whiskey lover once told me that the taste of cum is an acquired taste like that of a fine Scotch whiskey! I can't attest to that since I have never tasted whiskey of any kind. I have tasted many shots of cum from a variety of men though!!!! Hence the name Bonnie does!

 

[womaneater58]

sounds gross but I want to try it, just to say I have done it

I volunteer to be your first.

 

[MissyDaddyGirl]

The mouth is the gateway to our stomachs and when something is introduced to it our natural instinct is to swallow it. The first time I had a man "cum" in my mouth while sucking him off, it was only natural to swallow the warm, creamy thick stuff. A lot say the taste is awful but I rather disagree with them, although that first taste was not all that pleasant.
Side note; My mother who is a Scotch whiskey lover once told me that the taste of cum is an acquired taste like that of a fine Scotch whiskey! I can't attest to that since I have never tasted whiskey of any kind. I have tasted many shots of cum from a variety of men though!!!! Hence the name Bonnie does!

Love it! I had a shot of it this morning and it only took a couple minutes. He was loaded too!!

 

[TinaG_2023]

The mouth is the gateway to our stomachs and when something is introduced to it our natural instinct is to swallow it. The first time I had a man "cum" in my mouth while sucking him off, it was only natural to swallow the warm, creamy thick stuff. A lot say the taste is awful but I rather disagree with them, although that first taste was not all that pleasant.
Side note; My mother who is a Scotch whiskey lover once told me that the taste of cum is an acquired taste like that of a fine Scotch whiskey! I can't attest to that since I have never tasted whiskey of any kind. I have tasted many shots of cum from a variety of men though!!!! Hence the name Bonnie does!

Your mother said that?? I can't imagine my mom ever sucking a cock...ever!! Maybe I should ask her!
Oh and by the way, I do suck cock and swallow and love it!!

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

I think that there should be an alternate thread named "Men who don't swallow"; however, from my experience, I believe it would have very few responses.

 

[SouthByWest]

Doesn't matter to me if they swallow or not, but almost all of the women I've been with have, unasked. Have no idea why.