The 50 Plus Cafe, Pub, All-Nite Greasy Spoon and Dive Bar

Oh I didn't get wise to my own stuff til i was 50.... I am much wiser now then i was in my 20s and 30s.... I figure people out pretty quickly and if you aren't adding to my life you are missing and you gotta go...I am a master of boundaries.....

Didn't we talk way back when about sort of being the same person in feminine and masculine versions.....


I think we did.


I know we talked about how if someone isn't adding to our lives that they go issuing.
 
I wish! I have a 4-page questionnaire that needs to be completed before I see the lawyer on Monday.

My bed got delivered today. The delivery guys were going to take some parts that came with the bed. They couldn't understand why I wanted them. I finally had to say, "Just  DROP it!"

When I came back from walking the little girl, the lawn guy was there. He was gaslighting me about something he promised to do (and hasn't done). I had enough and fired his ass. Now, I have to decide if I want to cut the grass myself or hire another service. Basically, all they did was mow and blow and go. I have a level lot; I can mow it, I think.

Then the boat guy, Frank, showed up. I climbed up into the boat and threw down all the stuff that was in the storage areas while Frank winterized the motor, and removed the prop and battery. Then we put the giant cover on the boat. It's a 24 ft so the cover is HUGE and unwieldy. Frank did most of the work.

This weekend will also be trying to figure out why my docking station and new laptop aren't getting along. 🙄 I just want stuff to work! Is that too much to ask? 😆😆
That sounds like a lot of shit done 👏🏽 Give yourself a bit of credit you are doing brilliantly. Anything gets you down call into the bar and ask your friends to help…….because we will 😘
 
I completely understand where you are coming from. It's like the tests have come out of the woodwork. I won't get into my list that is quite similar on a different aspect, but overwhelmed is the common denominator. The one driving me the most nuts is garbage disposal. I'm down to one side of my sink and the nasty filler in the other one that rises and falls occasionally is :sick: disgustingly gross. I still have to fix all the holes in the walls that the POS graciously placed and the shower tiles that he dented in. Let alone all the damn clutter that needs to go. I have found a place that would give me a dumpster for $450 for 15 days. I think I found my summer plan.

It's like all at once I see everything and then I want to fix it right now, but it's not possible.
No it’s not! ……prioritise by what pisses you off most and work back from there
 
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