Curious & Experiences

[stargame]

A bump to this thread and to hopefully stir up some chats...

I love what's going on in Virginia.

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

I didn't want to start another thread, so I'll ask this question here...

What is it about a cock that has peaked your interest in being curious or lead you to your experiences?

 

[rockoid2]

I didn't want to start another thread, so I'll ask this question here...

What is it about a cock that has peaked your interest in being curious or lead you to your experiences?

It started with shemale porn, then crossdresser porn. Then cocks cumming. Met a crossdresser and sucked their cock and I was hooked. Loved the texture, feel and taste. Loved how it got harder as I sucked. Loved that I got a creamy surpirse for my efforts!

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

It started with shemale porn, then crossdresser porn. Then cocks cumming. Met a crossdresser and sucked their cock and I was hooked. Loved the texture, feel and taste. Loved how it got harder as I sucked. Loved that I got a creamy surpirse for my efforts!

Nice... sounds like you had a real natural progression and porn let you opened the doors to the desires that were in you

 

[Bi_Guy50]

I didn't want to start another thread, so I'll ask this question here...

What is it about a cock that has peaked your interest in being curious or lead you to your experiences?

Fo me... divorced and without having sex as often as I was use too, started to look more at internet porn and what I looked at started to get wider and more of a variety

 

[SPARTAN047]

I've been a bit of a slut in the past and I have some experience, so I'd love to swap stories.

A few threesomes and gangbangs if anyone's curious.

 

[Ohio6979]

I didn't want to start another thread, so I'll ask this question here...

What is it about a cock that has peaked your interest in being curious or lead you to your experiences?

No sex with wife. Started in book sto,res with videos. Then to adult theaters. One horned day I let a guy suck me. I was hooked. Sex with no drama. Slow progression to going to bathhouses and gay bars

 

[Bi_Guy50]

I didn't want to start another thread, so I'll ask this question here...

What is it about a cock that has peaked your interest in being curious or lead you to your experiences?

Divorce... not getting enough sex... internet porn... then down that rabbit hole...

 

[OnaTangent]

Started chatting on sites like this some years ago and realized I could get aroused talking sex with guys. One thing led to another and really opened my mind.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Same here, chatting with what I thought was a woman, it was very open-ended nothing to suggest M or F, turns out it was M, and he started getting me hornier than any"woman" I had chatted with. I don't think I've ever blew a load like I did that day. It was very much ground zero, started chatting in the gay rooms on compuserve (remember that) got off way more there than other rooms.

Same, I had a guy on a chat site who gave better blow jobs than any woman.

 

[Sgts19]

If I ran into someone around where I live I'd at least try it. Might like it or might hate it but I'd have at least tried it. Running out of things in my bucket list

 

[Wag_that_tail86]

The desire is strong, I'm working on getting over my own fears and inhibitions.

 

[open_minded28]

If I ran into someone around where I live I'd at least try it. Might like it or might hate it but I'd have at least tried it. Running out of things in my bucket list

thats sort of how I ended up thinking when I finally decided to try it. It was a guy offering no-reciprocation blowjobs and I figured if I didnt like it, I just wouldnt go back for a second one. =) wasnt signing up for a lifetime of them or anything lol.

 

[open_minded28]

The desire is strong, I'm working on getting over my own fears and inhibitions.

also true of my first time(s). The very first time I was just receiving but my knees were shaking and I was super nervous. Not even 100% sure of what? Maybe that he would end up being a scam and was there to beat me up or something? Or maybe just the regular nerves of trying anything for the first time and not knowing what to expect, more of a fear of the unknown? I still get nervous upon meeting someone for the first time, that part has never gone away for me.

I think maybe I also had some fear of being gay. Like meeting another guy for sex would somehow change me, label me, or prove something about me. I think it was much worse than it needed to be because I wasnt trying to understand what it was scaring me. When I look back now I realize Im still the same person Ive always been. My actions dont define who I am, but who I am defines my actions. I assume everyone who has same-sex interactions do it for their own personal reasons. I mean, you cant say that the hundreds of thousands of people who drive a red Honda has the same motivation, feeling, lifestyle, right? So likewise does sucking a nice cock mean the exact same thing to all people regardless of age, gender, motivation, etc?

Im not saying that everyone should run right out and clamp their lips around a dick right now. Maybe everyone who hesitates does that for good reason and a same-sex encounter is just not for them? Maybe they'd feel too guilty or ashamed or something. I just know that for me, well, I've just answered that curiosity and realized it didnt change me or how I saw myself.

 

[write_or_wrong]

also true of my first time(s). The very first time I was just receiving but my knees were shaking and I was super nervous. Not even 100% sure of what? Maybe that he would end up being a scam and was there to beat me up or something? Or maybe just the regular nerves of trying anything for the first time and not knowing what to expect, more of a fear of the unknown? I still get nervous upon meeting someone for the first time, that part has never gone away for me.

I think maybe I also had some fear of being gay. Like meeting another guy for sex would somehow change me, label me, or prove something about me. I think it was much worse than it needed to be because I wasnt trying to understand what it was scaring me. When I look back now I realize Im still the same person Ive always been. My actions dont define who I am, but who I am defines my actions. I assume everyone who has same-sex interactions do it for their own personal reasons. I mean, you cant say that the hundreds of thousands of people who drive a red Honda has the same motivation, feeling, lifestyle, right? So likewise does sucking a nice cock mean the exact same thing to all people regardless of age, gender, motivation, etc?

Im not saying that everyone should run right out and clamp their lips around a dick right now. Maybe everyone who hesitates does that for good reason and a same-sex encounter is just not for them? Maybe they'd feel too guilty or ashamed or something. I just know that for me, well, I've just answered that curiosity and realized it didnt change me or how I saw myself.

Good for you! And thanks for sharing with us.

What you do doesn't change who you are.

 

[Bandit17]

Married but very curious. Got an offer of the above for tonight... Decisions

Hope it was fun!

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

Hope it was fun!

Can you post an update?

 

[Bandit17]

Hi. I was not the one with the date. But would love to have the update as well. Are you going on a date too?

 

[mscottm1962]

Haven't posted in a while because there was nothing to post.

I am off today because of the holiday, but my wife had to work. My son was also off and home, so no hosting for me.

I started hitting local chats and lists and found someone 'needing his back door worked on'. He couldn't host either. He asked if I had a garage, but I don't. I told him about the guy I did in a storage building, but he didn't have one of those. He mentioned a couple of public park restrooms with locks on the doors, but I like a little more privacy than that. If I get arrested, public sex isn't on my number one list.

Anyway, since we couldn't make anything happen I just finished masturbating in the bathroom, licked my own cum off my hand, and thinking of what might have been.

 

[open_minded28]

Haven't posted in a while because there was nothing to post.

I am off today because of the holiday, but my wife had to work. My son was also off and home, so no hosting for me.

I started hitting local chats and lists and found someone 'needing his back door worked on'. He couldn't host either. He asked if I had a garage, but I don't. I told him about the guy I did in a storage building, but he didn't have one of those. He mentioned a couple of public park restrooms with locks on the doors, but I like a little more privacy than that. If I get arrested, public sex isn't on my number one list.

Anyway, since we couldn't make anything happen I just finished masturbating in the bathroom, licked my own cum off my hand, and thinking of what might have been.

thanks for the update!
story of my life, it seems - either we can't line up logistics (hosting, day/time, etc) or there is a mismatch of desires. Seems a lot of guys online are too quick to meet up. If that's someones thing I'm certainly not one to judge! But personally I'd really prefer to meet someone I've gone back and forth with a few times at least. Someone I feel sort of comfortable with and enjoy their company. I've meet with a few over the years who swear they are looking to take their time - more of an exploratory and pleasure based experience, not just a quickie. And unfortunately (in my experience anyway) that is rare. Instead they show up and just want to get me off in a hurry and run away.
Bah, I'm probably being too picky! But I'm at the stage where I've satisfied curiosity and now just want to have something mutually pleasurable - relaxed, comfortable, easy going. Journey over destination, that sort of thing. I guess that's a big part of what drew me here - hoping the guys on Lit were more apt to be communicative, interested in exploring fantasies, not so much about hit and run.

 

[TheVegasMark]

thanks for the update!
story of my life, it seems - either we can't line up logistics (hosting, day/time, etc) or there is a mismatch of desires. Seems a lot of guys online are too quick to meet up. If that's someones thing I'm certainly not one to judge! But personally I'd really prefer to meet someone I've gone back and forth with a few times at least. Someone I feel sort of comfortable with and enjoy their company. I've meet with a few over the years who swear they are looking to take their time - more of an exploratory and pleasure based experience, not just a quickie. And unfortunately (in my experience anyway) that is rare. Instead they show up and just want to get me off in a hurry and run away.
Bah, I'm probably being too picky! But I'm at the stage where I've satisfied curiosity and now just want to have something mutually pleasurable - relaxed, comfortable, easy going. Journey over destination, that sort of thing. I guess that's a big part of what drew me here - hoping the guys on Lit were more apt to be communicative, interested in exploring fantasies, not so much about hit and run.

Perfectly said..."Journey over destination"....As a Bi-MWM....Wouldn't it be nice if a question like "Would you be interested in me getting you off" could be asked without judgement..?..If its a no...Move to the next...!

 

[open_minded28]

Perfectly said..."Journey over destination"....As a Bi-MWM....Wouldn't it be nice if a question like "Would you be interested in me getting you off" could be asked without judgement..?..If its a no...Move to the next...!

Indeed, that would be fantastic! I had a really good friend that (when we lived near each other) I used to have over every weekend for a movie and just hang out. I would often wish that I could just ask the simple question without it impacting anything else. If the answer is 'no', then so be it!
I appreciate some of the tools online that can help us potentially find a good match but even still, I have to weed through dozens of guys trying to find someone that lines up well. Thats time consuming and disheartening. If only we could ask that question as you suggested!!!!
I assume that part of the 'problem' is that everyone is highly individual and the tools dont really address the nuances of what someone may be looking for. But I also blame ourselves for not taking the time to divulge those details. Too often a profile (and yes, I have been guilty of this too!) just includes some of the most basic information. Nothing at all about what might be a perfect situation, deal-breakers, etc.
I tried starting a free site years ago to sort of deal with this aspect but gave up - its too hard to keep scammers and fakes out and becomes a full time job.
I no longer have an active account with them, but I found bisexualplayground to be a decent one. At least there I felt like a good bit of people were real and put effort into finding each other. I actually found two playmates there - one female and one male.
I love your idea of the simple question, and I so wish society was at a point where we could ask such things without judgement, as you said. One of the things I try to do is be open minded enough to listen to what turns others on and not pass judgement, even if its not something Im personally interested in. ok, to be honest its also self serving! lol -- I actually enjoy hearing about what turns people on and more importantly, what aspects of it appeal to them and why. It turns me on to learn what turns others on, even if the subject matter is not appealing to me. In turn they get some sense of relief in being able to share, being understood and respected, and I get to hear erotic stories/fantasies =)

 

[OnaTangent]

Same here, chatting with what I thought was a woman, it was very open-ended nothing to suggest M or F, turns out it was M, and he started getting me hornier than any"woman" I had chatted with. I don't think I've ever blew a load like I did that day. It was very much ground zero, started chatting in the gay rooms on compuserve (remember that) got off way more there than other rooms.

Same here...mind blowing...

 

[Northwind75]

I didn't want to start another thread, so I'll ask this question here...

What is it about a cock that has peaked your interest in being curious or lead you to your experiences?

My wife lost interest in sex and I got very very horny. I didn't want to run around with another woman so I started thinking about maybe getting a BJ from a guy. I answered an ad on Doublelist and met a guy that wanted to give me a BJ with no reciprocation necessary. We chatted a few times and then met for lunch and then coffee. We discussed things and I decided to give it a try. I was brave enough to reciprocate and enjoyed it.

 

[Uncut1969]

My wife lost interest in sex and I got very very horny. I didn't want to run around with another woman so I started thinking about maybe getting a BJ from a guy. I answered an ad on Doublelist and met a guy that wanted to give me a BJ with no reciprocation necessary. We chatted a few times and then met for lunch and then coffee. We discussed things and I decided to give it a try. I was brave enough to reciprocate and enjoyed it.

Wow good for you can’t wait to experience