Hugs and random non-sex chat aka Our Court aka Hoes and Bros who empower each other

[MiaBabe23]

Morning Court, good to see everyone seems to have had a good day yesterday
I repeated my challenge yesterday from the day before, I also burned some incense as per our worthy Alchemist’s suggestion to indulge
I set you all a challenge today that may be tougher than any wallsit or intellectual feat - reverse a piece of imposter syndrome/ negative self talk about yourself or a situation. If you’d like to share it and what it becomes when you reverse it, I’m sure it would bring great inspiration to all

 

[DeeDeeX2]

Good morning my friends in the Court. The caffeine is kicking-in as I catch up all of the important events while I was sleeping beautifully.

There was no comet chasing to be had last evening. The Santa Ana winds were stong yesterday afternoon and there is a lot of dust and sand in the air in this corner of the realm at present. Needless to say that the visibility was poor and unfit for gazing into the heavens.

My apologies, but this wrench will not be serving cinnamon rolls this morning. I'll be having vanilla yogurt with blueberries instead. I feel the need to cut back on the sweet delights for the next few days, at least. ️

 

[DeeDeeX2]

Morning Court, good to see everyone seems to have had a good day yesterday
I repeated my challenge yesterday from the day before, I also burned some incense as per our worthy Alchemist’s suggestion to indulge
I set you all a challenge today that may be tougher than any wallsit or intellectual feat - reverse a piece of imposter syndrome/ negative self talk about yourself or a situation. If you’d like to share it and what it becomes when you reverse it, I’m sure it would bring great inspiration to all

I keep trying to convince myself that I am better looking than Kate Hudson, can play guitar better than Joe Walsh, and I'll never get any older. Sigh

 

[Dirtygirlndeer]

Let me correct myself.... I have a deep appreciation for ALL sexy feet, there are some things I only do to my Domme's sexy feet!

Nice save.

 

[FlyingThruLife]

Good morning to all the lovely people in here

I hope your day is filled with many antics and much joy.

I set you all a challenge today that may be tougher than any wallsit or intellectual feat - reverse a piece of imposter syndrome/ negative self talk about yourself or a situation.

I appreciate this challenge. I won't be sharing what piece of self talk I am reversing in full detail, but it has to do with work. (A very high stress job where negative self talk is very easy yet dangerous.)

 

[MiaBabe23]

Good morning to all the lovely people in here

I hope your day is filled with many antics and much joy.

I appreciate this challenge. I won't be sharing what piece of self talk I am reversing in full detail, but it has to do with work. (A very high stress job where negative self talk is very easy yet dangerous.)

That’s a really positive one to address, hope it gives you the self-belief you deserve

 

[HollyS]

Good morning lovely Court. The Alchemist did not sleep much last night, and thus slept until her alarm this morning. A rare thing indeed!

I'm enjoying my cup of coffee, and looking forward to a bit easier day today. It might still be busy, but not the stressful kind of busy.

I will ponder @MiaBabe23 's challenge while sip my coffee. This one will be tough - so many to choose from!

 

[HollyS]

On a fun note, your Alchemist's breakfast crossword included the words epee, moat, and lance.

 

[Boat1]

Morning Court, good to see everyone seems to have had a good day yesterday
I repeated my challenge yesterday from the day before, I also burned some incense as per our worthy Alchemist’s suggestion to indulge
I set you all a challenge today that may be tougher than any wallsit or intellectual feat - reverse a piece of imposter syndrome/ negative self talk about yourself or a situation. If you’d like to share it and what it becomes when you reverse it, I’m sure it would bring great inspiration to all

I'll try, but that is a VERY tough task, Your Highness, as the self deprecation I do, is truth-based...

 

[Boat1]

Good morning to all!
I hope you all have a smooth, productive and pleasurable day!

I'm currently traveling back to port, sideseas, soon to be in the shower, bouncing around like a pinball!

 

[HollyS]

Good morning to all!
I hope you all have a smooth, productive and pleasurable day!

I'm currently traveling back to port, sideseas, soon to be in the shower, bouncing around like a pinball!

Good morning, sir Boat!

 

[Boat1]

Good morning, sir Boat!

Good morning, Holly!
I'm still thinking about your warm, cozy fireplace picture...
That's the kind of setting that would cause me to doze off, sitting up on the sofa. Lol

 

[HollyS]

Good morning, Holly!
I'm still thinking about your warm, cozy fireplace picture...
That's the kind of setting that would cause me to doze off, sitting up on the sofa. Lol

It's funny! I was soooooo relaxed and sleepy feeling when I went to bed. For some reason, though, I couldn't drop off to sleep. I was half-in, half-out (dare I say in and out?!?) for a long time, and just got up eventually.

 

[Boat1]

It's funny! I was soooooo relaxed and sleepy feeling when I went to bed. For some reason, though, I couldn't drop off to sleep. I was half-in, half-out (dare I say in and out?!?) for a long time, and just got up eventually.

Fire good! Lol

 

[DeeDeeX2]

Fire good! Lol

Says the character with the 'Abbie Normal' brain.

 

[MiaBabe23]

I'll try, but that is a VERY tough task, Your Highness, as the self deprecation I do, is truth-based...

Then it’s all the more important that you do it, modest FeatherOilHangman!

 

[HollyS]

Hallooooo!!

How are the courtiers today?

I think I thought of something for the Queen's challenge, but I'll wait til more people are around, I think. Or I might keep it to myself?!? IDK!

Back to the lab for your trusty Alchemist. Still more whine than gold at hand!

 

[FlyingThruLife]

Just got back from work. The positive self-talk seemed to have worked for me so I'm pretty happy about that, although I'm absolutely exhausted. It's been one hell of a day

 

[HollyS]

Just got back from work. The positive self-talk seemed to have worked for me so I'm pretty happy about that, although I'm absolutely exhausted. It's been one hell of a day

Woohoooo! That sounds fantastic. Glad you're off work!

 

[DeeDeeX2]

Hallooooo!!

How are the courtiers today?

I think I thought of something for the Queen's challenge, but I'll wait til more people are around, I think. Or I might keep it to myself?!? IDK!

Back to the lab for your trusty Alchemist. Still more whine than gold at hand!

You've piqued my interest, fair lady. Let's hear your thoughts. Inquiring minds want to know.

 

[FlyingThruLife]

Thanks! I'm super happy it's the weekend because the last 3 weeks have been non-stop go go go, and this is the first weekend I get to chill. I hope you're done in the lab soon and can join us with relaxation!

 

[HollyS]

You've piqued my interest, fair lady. Let's hear your thoughts. Inquiring minds want to know.

Okay, I'll try.

I came up with a bunch for work, which I suspect a lot of people have, lol.

But the one I want to work on is hard for me to articulate. It's based on the feeling that I'm not good at relationships. Of course, that's a pretty big umbrella, so I've been trying to narrow it down.

The one I'd like to address is that I'm such a people-pleaser by nature that I lose track of myself. This, in turn, makes me feel like I don't know how to be truly intimate, because you have to know yourself to give yourself to someone.

Makes me feel crazy sometimes.

So, my self talk is to believe in myself, and stop trying to please.

Holy shit, that was way TMI.

 

[TXRafe]

Okay, I'll try.

I came up with a bunch for work, which I suspect a lot of people have, lol.

But the one I want to work on is hard for me to articulate. It's based on the feeling that I'm not good at relationships. Of course, that's a pretty big umbrella, so I've been trying to narrow it down.

The one I'd like to address is that I'm such a people-pleaser by nature that I lose track of myself. This, in turn, makes me feel like I don't know how to be truly intimate, because you have to know yourself to give yourself to someone.

Makes me feel crazy sometimes.

So, my self talk is to believe in myself, and stop trying to please.

Holy shit, that was way TMI.

not at all, stop worrying about how we will respond (giving in to the people pleasing) and just speak your truth...when you speak your truth out into the world you attract the people who will be willing to accept you for who you are and not who they want you to be.

 

[HollyS]

not at all, stop worrying about how we will respond (giving in to the people pleasing) and just speak your truth...when you speak your truth out into the world you attract the people who will be willing to accept you for who you are and not who they want you to be.

I know that at an intellectual level. Some things are so ingrained, though, that it's hard to internalize a different way of being.

 

[TXRafe]

I know that at an intellectual level. Some things are so ingrained, though, that it's hard to internalize a different way of being.

oh yeah, i definitely agree. its often a lot easier said than done. but i feel like when other people mirror that positive energy and can empathize it creates an environment to slowly make those changes. you got this. i mean, im constantly trying, @MiaBabe23 gets frustrated with me on at least a daily basis because i won't submit .