Straight guys who like gay sex

[mmarfox]

I very “hetero-flexible”. Meaning I mostly like women but definitely like playing with guys from time to time. Recently though it’s been more of a thing and I feel it’s turning more into straight up bisexual. I’d say I’m 70-30 at this point because I’ve had some amazing experiences bottoming for guys in recent history. Romantically though, I can only be in relationships with women. Just not into the dynamic with another guy.

 

[Greekguy1963]

I am a straight man however I occasionally have gay thoughts that really turn me on

Same

 

[ZacharyFagg]

It's mind boggling to me how far men will go to deny they are Bi or have Gay tendencies. Look call yourself whatever you want, but you are lying to yourself if you believe you are a heterosexual male with a cock in your mouth or ass. I am Bi and it is what I am. I love sex with men and I love sex with my wife. Hence I am Bi, not heterosexual.

What about those who absolutely do not want a cock in their mouth or ass, but are ok letting a guy please them?
I've been with plenty of men like that. They aren't going to reciprocate, in fact they don't even want to see my cock. They just want to cum and go.
Straight men have been doing that with guys like me forever. They aren't gay or bi. They aren't attracted to men. They won't suck a cock. It's just easy sex.

 

[Johnnysako]

Just enjoy yourself

 

[MrRandyWatson]

I identify as straight. However, there is a difference between sexual orientation and romantic orientation. I identify as straight because I’m 100% heteroromantic. I don’t want to date a man, marry a man or really even have a friends with benefits relationship with a man, but would I have sex with a man? Yes. Would I have sex with multiple men at once? Yes. Would I be an absolutely depraved slut for as many men as I could handle? Fuck. Yes.

 

[Wag_that_tail86]

We spend a lot of time defining what we are because sometimes it involves complex feelings or understanding ourselves better. And there can be stigma attached to admitting gay or bi tendencies, which is too bad, we should be able to do what feels right for each of us.

 

[Deleted member 5476586]

I think the only thing that matters is that two men want to share sexual pleasure. Labels aren’t really needed, even if we treasure them.

I’m much happier with my sexuality because I understand it’s what I am, and who I want to be. For me, “gay” is a label to be proud of, but it’s not really required.

 

[tristantrotsky]

I think the only thing that matters is that two men want to share sexual pleasure. Labels aren’t really needed, even if we treasure them.
I’m much happier with my sexuality because I understand it’s what I am, and who I want to be. For me, “gay” is a label to be proud of, but it’s not really required.

Sex is meant to be enjoyed in whatever combination or configuration we prefer.
Value-judgement doesn't come into the equation. Pleasure is pleasure.

 

[Swuq]

I play with pussy and cock. I enjoy fucking women and being fucked by men. I would describe myself as bi but when I am riding a hard cock, at that moment I a very gay.

 

[eroticbum]

Labels ! Why is it so important to label a person or put them into categories?
I'm not into Gay porn, but I do love watching porn that involves a nice cock.
I am cock curious, so I guess this makes me Bi-curious. Knowing I'll never find a woman with the equipment
I would like, I am going to hope for a sissy to be my first cock. What does that make me if I suck a sissy?
Knowing I'll never find a sissy I need to get comfortable with the fact my first cock will be that from a guy.
Once that finally happens what do I label myself? Think I'll be bi-sexual with a possible hint of closet gay because I will want to experience anal sex next.
Sooooo many labels just to experience a cock

 

[Renee1967]

(this is my first post on LGBTQIA+ forum)

There is such a thing as heterosexual people who can enjoy homosexual activity. I've been strongly heterosexual my entire life, but I have also shared BJ, HJ, and even anal intercourse with other guys, and enjoyed it (sometimes). I say "strongly" heterosexual because ever since I was a child, from before I even knew what sex was, girls made me feel a certain way. When I was young, I got nervous and tongue tied. They seemed like a magically fascinating, magnetically attractive, other species. Boys seemed unremarkable, like simply the same species. As I got older, I felt soul-wrenching emotional pull towards women, in addition to raging physical desire. Holding a woman in my arms can feel like "being whole." I never have, and never could, feel anything remotely like that towards a male.

But some years ago I started j/o to porn with a friend. At first we just got naked, watched (straight) porn, and masturbated. But eventually we started sharing BJs. It was easy to immediately enjoy the feeling of slowly kissing and licking a hard cock. It took a bit longer to get accustomed to cum, but eventually I loved that too. I can definitely get turned on by feeling cum shooting into my mouth, or all over my face, or splashing on my body. Also, I have many times experienced frotting, with him and others. That is my favorite MM activity. It's so sexy masturbating with another guy, with a bit of massage oil and our cocks rubbing together. It's an absolutely amazing feeling, just breathtaking. It makes me hard as a rock feeling another warm, erect, oiled cock slipping and sliding against mine. And it is so delicious cumming that way, and seeing and feeling another cock throbbing and squirting all over mine and his. I've also penetrated another guy a handful of times, and had OK-to-excellent orgasms that way. I've also felt a guy cum inside me, but didn't get much sexual feeling from that. But sex with another man, no matter how great, feels like masturbation. It doesn't feel like making love, and never could for me.

I hesitate to call that "bisexual" because "bi" implies some kind of equivalence. To me, they are not remotely similar. One is an emotional, spiritual attraction, with many dimensions. The other is like an enjoyable sex toy, with one dimension. I love it and sometimes crave it, but it's still one-dimensional. I don't know the proper word for this orientation, or if there even is one.

There are some who deny that this is even a thing. But it is. And I'm not sure how to respond when I try to explain my sexuality, and somebody who isn't me, and doesn't have my orientation, tells me I am incorrect. What does that even mean? I'm telling them firsthand my experience, and they're telling me my experience doesn't exist? It defies logic, I just give up.

a lot of this is in our minds

I was always drawn to women, but I have never had the fulfillment of a useful long term relationship

I decided I could be the better wife/girlfriend so I set out to achieve it

I forced myself to become fully homosexual, but as a trans girl, I really consider myself as a straight woman.

I hope that made sense.

 

[Bassytian]

This is an interesting topic. I am attracted mostly to women, but one day I stumbled across gay porn. The bottom looked and sounded very much like a female and I found myself wildly attracted to him.

So, I am attracted to anyone that is feminine. I'm not sure what label to use for that, but I'm honestly not worried about putting a name to it. I like what I like, it's as simple as that.

 

[Escierto]

a lot of this is in our minds

I was always drawn to women, but I have never had the fulfillment of a useful long term relationship

I decided I could be the better wife/girlfriend so I set out to achieve it

I forced myself to become fully homosexual, but as a trans girl, I really consider myself as a straight woman.

I hope that made sense.

I consider you a straight woman. Why do you say you forced yourself? In some ways I say the same about myself. I knew what I wanted but I was afraid so I had to force myself to go through with it.

 

[Escierto]

This is an interesting topic. I am attracted mostly to women, but one day I stumbled across gay porn. The bottom looked and sounded very much like a female and I found myself wildly attracted to him.

So, I am attracted to anyone that is feminine. I'm not sure what label to use for that, but I'm honestly not worried about putting a name to it. I like what I like, it's as simple as that.

Yes, me too. What matters is the femininity not what is between their legs. In fact if I relate to someone as a woman, I completely forget about their genitals.

 

[Bassytian]

Yes, me too. What matters is the femininity not what is between their legs. In fact if I relate to someone as a woman, I completely forget about their genitals.

Admittedly, my attraction to feminine males have only been through porn, I have never actually been with one in person. Well, I have chatted and been on webcam with some but that's it.

 

[Escierto]

Admittedly, my attraction to feminine males have only been through porn, I have never actually been with one in person. Well, I have chatted and been on webcam with some but that's it.

That is a similar path to the one that I travelled. After accidentally encountering a transgender woman online, I chatted with more people on cam. After that my desires grew and I felt compelled to meet someone in person. It was a long and twisted journey for sure.

 

[Bassytian]

That is a similar path to the one that I travelled. After accidentally encountering a transgender woman online, I chatted with more people on cam. After that my desires grew and I felt compelled to meet someone in person. It was a long and twisted journey for sure.

I would probably have to move to do that. There's not a lot of people like that where I live. If there are, I have no idea where to find them.

 

[Escierto]

I would probably have to move to do that. There's not a lot of people like that where I live. If there are, I have no idea where to find them.

For transgender women, the promised land is Thailand and the Philippines. The Philippine women have an advantage in that most of them speak English. In sheer numbers they say the US and Brazil have the most trans people. As far as I know I have never knowingly encountered a trans person in the US. Unknowingly? Probably.

 

[Bassytian]

For transgender women, the promised land is Thailand and the Philippines. The Philippine women have an advantage in that most of them speak English. In sheer numbers they say the US and Brazil have the most trans people. As far as I know I have never knowingly encountered a trans person in the US. Unknowingly? Probably.

You know, I have heard the same thing. I'd have so save a hell of a lot of money for that though lol.

There is a transgender woman where I work but they are incredibly rude, major turn off.

 

[Escierto]

You know, I have heard the same thing. I'd have so save a hell of a lot of money for that though lol.

There is a transgender woman where I work but they are incredibly rude, major turn off.

There are some trans dating sites with local women but I only used one, Grindr. Grindr is terrible in every way but I did chat with a lovely trans woman who was very interesting. Unfortunately for me, a pure bottom but for someone else, she would be great.

 

[RideFl71]

First off if you like gay sex your not straight.. Your either bi curious bi or gay... Not fuckn straight.. Simple as that!!
Or pan sexual bs.

 

[Bassytian]

There are some trans dating sites with local women but I only used one, Grindr. Grindr is terrible in every way but I did chat with a lovely trans woman who was very interesting. Unfortunately for me, a pure bottom but for someone else, she would be great.

I'm a pure top so she would have been great for me, like you said.

 

[Escierto]

I'm a pure top so she would have been great for me, like you said.

Yes, indeed. She was really cute with a nice personality too. Fun to talk to as well. So I guess it is possible to find someone.

 

[Renee1967]

You know, I have heard the same thing. I'd have so save a hell of a lot of money for that though lol.

There is a transgender woman where I work but they are incredibly rude, major turn off.

I'm sorry you had a bad experience with a sister t-girl, honey. Yes you are correct, some of us can be incredibly rude. (Reasons).

Most of us are quite pleasant though, so don't throw the baby out with the bathwater.

 

[Bassytian]

I'm sorry you had a bad experience with a sister t-girl, honey. Yes you are correct, some of us can be incredibly rude. (Reasons).

Most of us are quite pleasant though, so don't throw the baby out with the bathwater.

Oh no, I'm not, don't worry. I've never been one to judge an entire group of people on the actions of a single individual.

That one is the only one I've knowingly met, but their rudeness is understandable. That person uses they/them pronouns, just to clarify. I know life can't be easy for y'all.