Watching wife get fucked

She was embarassed and I was a little jealous but we laughed it off
I guess the fact that you were both present...

And thought you were doing something the other wanted. Might be an interesting story idea. Sort of like an adult version of the "The Gift of the Magi" story.
 
When I was younger I would never have imagined enjoying such a show but once you get into it, it is fantastic. Also as you get older, you become more realistic and realize that a woman really can handle several men and keep them satisfied.
Marriages have many phases of maturity. ..During our first 2 decades together if either of us had sex with someone else it could have contaminated our marriage with everlasting toxic doubts such as, "if sex with someone else feels so good, are we really the best person for each other?"

But there comes another phase, for us anyway, about 25 yrs after marrying, when we were both so absolutely convinced of our love and of the permanence of our union that petty sexual insecurities disappeared...forever. Sure, sex matters - a lot, in fact! But I began to realize that it pales compared to the Castle we've built together one stone at a time by raising great kids, working through numerous tragedies & health crises, forging lifelong friendships, travel, a planned retirement, and finally, informing our kids that after we die our ashes are to be blended and spread together. That is how strong our love is. So I was very comfortable with telling my wife, “From now on, go ahead and have sex with someone else once in a while if you want to. I'm fine with it because I know with absolute certainty that our Castle and all the ties that bind us will hold strong - that your home and your future will always be with ME.” It's a very liberating feeling.

I adore my wife. If being with a different man allows her to experience "like young again" orgasms - especially since menopause has made them so elusive - why wouldn't I want that for her? My wife and I have had sex with each other over 3000 times (>2/wk for >30yrs), so of course sex w/ someone else is going to be more exciting! It wouldn't be that he's a better lover, it would just be that he's someone new. I'm quite certain there's nothing he could do with his fingers, mouth or dick that I haven't done hundreds and hundreds of times already or would eagerly do if she asked. I wouldn't take her enjoying it personally and I wouldn't feel threatened by it. So tell me, why should I stand in the way of it?
 
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Also as you get older, you become more realistic and realize that a woman really can handle several men and keep them satisfied.
It isn't so much for me that she CAN, but that there is that special itch that most women seem to have to want all the men in the room notice and ultimately (and maybe even succumb to) desire for her.

And if women are in relationships with men who are okay with sharing, the idea becomes "why not?"
 
Marriages have many phases of maturity. ..During our first 2 decades either of us being with someone else might have contaminated our marriage with lingering doubts of "if sex with someone else feels so good, are we really the best person for each other?"

But there comes another phase, for us anyway - about 25 yrs after marrying - when we are both so absolutely convinced of your love and of the permanence of your union that petty sexual insecurities disappear...forever. Sure, sex matters - a lot, in fact! But I began to realize that it pales compared to the Castle we've built together stone by stone from raising a family, working through numerous tragedies & crises, forging lifelong friendships, travel, a planned retirement, etc... So I told her very clearly, “From now on, go ahead and fuck someone else once in a while if you want to. I'm fine with it because I know with absolute certainty that our Castle will stand strong - that your home and your future will always be with ME.” It's a very liberating feeling.

I adore my wife. If being with a different man allows her to experience "like young again" orgasms, why wouldn't I want that for her? Trust me, the only reason the sex would be better is because he's new - I'm quite certain there's nothing he's going to do with his fingers, mouth or dick that I haven't done hundreds of times already or would eagerly do if asked. My wife and I have had sex with each other over 3000 times since we've been together (>2/wk for >30yrs), so of course sex w/ someone else is going to be exciting! I don't take it personally and I don't feel threatened by it. So why should I stand in the way of it?
Some very good points and a good attitude to have. Having an occasional lover is good for there ego but it is also fun just because he is different. My wife claims that the first time with a new man (ie. new cock) is very special. The anticipation and then seeing how it feels and how well he uses it.
 
It isn't so much for me that she CAN, but that there is that special itch that most women seem to have to want all the men in the room notice and ultimately (and maybe even succumb to) desire for her.

And if women are in relationships with men who are okay with sharing, the idea becomes "why not?"
Once my wife realized that I was perfectly fine with her fucking other men, it really opened up her desires for new experiences.
 
Marriages have many phases of maturity. ..During our first 2 decades either of us being with someone else might have contaminated our marriage with lingering doubts of "if sex with someone else feels so good, are we really the best person for each other?"

But there comes another phase, for us anyway - about 25 yrs after marrying - when we are both so absolutely convinced of your love and of the permanence of your union that petty sexual insecurities disappear...forever. Sure, sex matters - a lot, in fact! But I began to realize that it pales compared to the Castle we've built together stone by stone from raising a family, working through numerous tragedies & crises, forging lifelong friendships, travel, a planned retirement, etc... So I told her very clearly, “From now on, go ahead and fuck someone else once in a while if you want to. I'm fine with it because I know with absolute certainty that our Castle will stand strong - that your home and your future will always be with ME.” It's a very liberating feeling.

I adore my wife. If being with a different man allows her to experience "like young again" orgasms, why wouldn't I want that for her? Trust me, the only reason the sex would be better is because he's new - I'm quite certain there's nothing he's going to do with his fingers, mouth or dick that I haven't done hundreds of times already or would eagerly do if asked. My wife and I have had sex with each other over 3000 times since we've been together (>2/wk for >30yrs), so of course sex w/ someone else is going to be exciting! I don't take it personally and I don't feel threatened by it. So why should I stand in the way of it?
Beautiful, that is real love
 
We discussed various "what-if" scenarios before. That night, I asked her beforehand if she wanted to explore one of them. She was receptive, but laid down some boundaries.
Very curious about the “process” and exactly what boundaries she presented….. 🤔
 
It seems to me that maybe the real question is what do YOU want.

I can tell you that it is so hot to watch your lady fuck. To be able to see her cum with another, knowing that she wants this.

Men are visual animals. Much more so than women. It's like the best porno in the world because you personally know the actors. Lol

Your husband thinks you're sexy as hell and wants to watch you fuck. Is there a sexier compliment?
That is bar-none unequivocally the best answer to why I guy would want his beautiful wife who he adores to have sex with another man. For the lucky guy….Treat her well!!!
 
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