Married Cocksuckers, Have you confessed to your wife?

No I have not confessed that I have given oral to a guy in the past and my partner is pretty conservative in her thinking. I told her recently that I have masturbated with other guys mutually just because I was horny and it was easily accessible at the time... She was pretty accepting of my curiosities. We even went to a Korean spa together and I told her about my experiences in the sauna there and she was supportive of that and said it was fun to hang out naked with others. I think I am slowly bringing out her voyeuristic side so we will see where this goes. I have a married friend that is a bit older and the poor guy has zero sex at home. We have been secretly jacking off in front of each other. I am getting that itch to be a little submissive and service him because his wife won't... I could never imagine explaining that my partner lol.
 
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A while back I confessed to my wife of many years that beginning as an adolescent and continuing into adulthood, I'd been a voracious and insatiable cocksucker. I told her, in explicit detail, about episodes of me giving blowjobs, frequently to multiple men, one after another as they all stood around watching me and waiting to take their turn fucking my throat. She was surprised to learn that her macho husband had been a cocksucker, but accepted that this was in the past. I neglected to inform her that I'm still a compulsive cocksucker and that I still routinely meet with men to give them blowjobs. I love my wife and I don't like being dishonest with her, but I also refuse to deny my oral obsession. Anyone in a similar situation?
Mine isn't similar in that did I suck cock and crave it in my younger years, yes absolutely, however my wife has never nor will ever know about it as I think it might be very devastating for her to find out. I wish I felt I could tell her but alas I couldn't imagine her taking it well, her not knowing for over 40 years, have I been faithful to her absolutely, would I suck cock and more if she knew and ok'd it you bet your ass.
 
I told my wife I wasn't 100% hetero a few years ago; I said "bi," but not really sure that's the right label (and I hate labels anyway). She couldn't have misheard me more profoundly, and freaked out.

She's settled in with the idea now and sometimes I suck a dildo while we're having sex, but m2m sex is still not particularly her thing. We are talking about how I can have experiences (that she knows about) without her feeling anxious and insecure.

It's weird to me, to be honest, that so many married men want this, and so many of their wives are just so freaked out about it. Honestly, I know sucking the occasional cock without sneaking around would only make me MORE into our already fun sex life. I'm not going to run off with a man (not even a possibility).

Wives might discover that if they let their husbands play — is it so different than, say, playing golf or pickleball in the end? — the men might be a little more docile and happy at home.
 
It's hard to find sex partners, male or female, who will enthusiastically call you a cocksucking faggot even if that's what you are. Oh well.
 
A while back I confessed to my wife of many years that beginning as an adolescent and continuing into adulthood, I'd been a voracious and insatiable cocksucker. I told her, in explicit detail, about episodes of me giving blowjobs, frequently to multiple men, one after another as they all stood around watching me and waiting to take their turn fucking my throat. She was surprised to learn that her macho husband had been a cocksucker, but accepted that this was in the past. I neglected to inform her that I'm still a compulsive cocksucker and that I still routinely meet with men to give them blowjobs. I love my wife and I don't like being dishonest with her, but I also refuse to deny my oral obsession. Anyone in a similar situation?
Some of us are in denial but most of us know eventually our men are going to go down this road. Here's a hint, the next time your playing together with her dildo, put it in your mouth. Chances are she's going to encourage this behavior
 
I've confessed to her about my past as mentioned in my bio. Also told her that I'm craving a cock again, to suck. And if she were to ever grant my wish to be with a sexy Transexual gurl or CD I'd grant her any wish she had.
 
I have been with my girlfriend for many years..l am 51 and she is 48. Once l hit 40 l became very interested in men for some reason, seems it happens to a lot of us. We have always been very open sexually and started playing with toys, role playing, me sucking them, anal play, sharing my cum.. she knew l was interested in trying it in real life. Eventually it happened and we sucked a guy off together… so yes she knew and was supportive. Since then we have done much more. I am lucky that she loves and understands me.
 
Some of us are in denial but most of us know eventually our men are going to go down this road. Here's a hint, the next time your playing together with her dildo, put it in your mouth. Chances are she's going to encourage this behavior
Michelle do you make hubby suck your dildo
 
I have never mentioned my younger days of sucking my friends cock to my wife. Once while watching her getting fucked while she was setting on a guys lap facing away from him , I went over to them and licked her clit as he was thrusting into her. After he left she called me a faggot for having done this , but never had any problems with me licking other mens cum out of her.
Sucking your friend's cock and licking your wife's clit are simply two equal ways of enjoying the delights of oral sex, why discriminate? why call one good and the other bad? Simply enjoy!
 
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