How frequently would you want to have sex with someone, if you could?

[WeShallUnclench]

Do you ever get horny?

No, seriously. It's a bit on the nose, regarding what site we are on, but there is a genuine question in here.

Through informal surveys around me as well as polls on tumblr, I am increasingly under the impression that other people do not actually care about sex all that much.

For instance, I remember a poll that went something like, "how often would you want to have sex with another person, if you could?"

I thought for sure most people would say something like once or twice a day.
Nope.
The most popular responses were more in the realm between once a month or never.

Most people around me say things like, watching TV or flat out sleeping is better.

My own spouse flat out forgets that sex even exists as a possibility unless I tell them (they also claim to never masturbate).

So I thought, let's go to the site that is run by sex nerds and see if I get different results.

 

[LoneMilf]

It's tricky to keep daily sex exciting for a prolonged period of time - it can so easily become routine.

I've always found 3-5 times a week to be a good amount

 

[WeShallUnclench]

It's tricky to keep daily sex exciting for a prolonged period of time - it can so easily become routine.

I've always found 3-5 times a week to be a good amount

Yeah no kidding I would be happy with 3 to 5 times a week.

Thing is, my partner says things like "oh after the very first 'hot phase' of the relationship the spark is just gone and we just wanna take things slow".

Thing is, I don't feel that way at all! We have been together for 9 years now, married for 4, but I could literally keep going nonstop the way we were in the very first week, if it was up to me*!
I have frankly no idea what that "spark" thing is supposed to be.

*but the uphill battle is just too frustrating. It takes two to tango.

 

[drobert44]

Yeah no kidding I would be happy with 3 to 5 times a week.

Thing is, my partner says things like "oh after the very first 'hot phase' of the relationship the spark is just gone and we just wanna take things slow".

Thing is, I don't feel that way at all! We have been together for 9 years now, married for 4, but I could literally keep going nonstop the way we were in the very first week, if it was up to me*!
I have frankly no idea what that "spark" thing is supposed to be.

*but the uphill battle is just too frustrating. It takes two to tango.

My hot granny likes it twice/day; but I wanna get her on a road trip and see how horny she is over time.

 

[30bandits]

I could daily, no matter how routine. Brushing your teeth is a routine, and its good for you.

 

[DaringFunGuy]

This question is very nuanced … one word could elicit a very different response I think.

How frequently would you want to have sex with another person, if you could?​

How frequently would you want to have sex, if you could?​

 

[falkor207]

3 to 5 times a week would be optimal for me, but more frequently if the mood strikes us

 

[JennaMom2022]

Once a day and three times on Sundays.

 

[dodgeboy2]

I would love to say daily but as age and ED as entered the picture I am extremely happy if we do it 1-2 times a week, but honestly sometimes it only happens a few times a month

 

[Ched21]

Full on fucking 2/3 times a week with oral both ways added in-between

 

[merrilylirrem]

I need at least once a day and usually more on weekends

 

[13Fantasies]

Since it's been so long, at least daily.

If it was something I was regularly getting already, a few times a week would be ideal

 

[Sgts19]

How often I'd like to fuck someone else? maybe once a month would be ok. Mix it up to keep things fresh. We fuck maybe twice a week and I'm cool with that, if it was up to her she'd want more. Now if she fucked someone else once a month I'm all for it. I fuck her for weeks I'd be so excited. After 46 years it does get sort of ho hum been there done that.

We still occasionally play with our best friends but that's been going on for years and doesn't count..in my eyes

 

[LoneMilf]

I could daily, no matter how routine. Brushing your teeth is a routine, and its good for you.

2 minutes of vigorous rubbing and a spit doesn't quite cut it for sex

 

[Rach9703]

I’ll just say I would settle for once a day. More, preferably.

 

[Japansurfer]

Depends really. I think sexual play at least twice a day.
By that mean a lingering touch here, standing behind her sliding my hands over her breasts whilst kissing her neck there, standing in the kitchen as she quietly walks behind me, pulling me close and rubbing my crutch things like that. And pent up sex at least 3days a week

 

[_Milky_Whites_]

I'd like it a few times a week. I'd be content with once a week. I actually get it once every 1-2 months.

 

[Japansurfer]

I'd like it a few times a week. I'd be content with once a week. I actually get it once every 1-2 months.

Sounds familiar

 

[30bandits]

2 minutes of vigorous rubbing and a spit doesn't quite cut it for sex

That brushing teeth, i like to make sex last.

 

[DpropertyofR]

I’d have sex every day if I could. However, between work and family all of the other stuff that keeps people busy and tired, I can understand why you got such disappointing answers on your previous try.

 

[DirtyHarry_SlutMaker]

I can get off on fucking without cumming and building a load for later on her face and tits after a fuck or two.
So depends half an hour to five…
Depends up to her.
With the right Women I can cum with empty balls.
If she has a special dirty mouth eyes and talks the filth that gets me throbbing and pulsing away.

 

[Boat1]

Short answer...

NONSTOP.

 

[Curious_2]

It's tricky to keep daily sex exciting for a prolonged period of time - it can so easily become routine.

I've always found 3-5 times a week to be a good amount

3-5 times @ 3-? hours?

 

[americangrizzley]

I would say that with the right partner daily would be possible.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

It's tricky to keep daily sex exciting for a prolonged period of time - it can so easily become routine.

I've always found 3-5 times a week to be a good amount

It's tricky to keep daily sex exciting for a prolonged period of time - it can so easily become routine.

I've always found 3-5 times a week to be a good amount

The only truthful answer on this threas.