Cock Talk

[Alfie71]

I’ve been in MFM as my esteemed friend above termed it and it is by FAR the best combination of those three letters. I’m not averse to touching or being touched, but making her the centre of everything is a huge turn on, as is watching how she reacts. Can’t wait to try it again some day…

MFF, never done it. I would one day love to have mine show a trusted other how I like to be ‘treated’ there, but I would also not want her to feel anything other than central and that’s much harder in that kind of triangle.

 

[Deleted member 6810551]

I've only done MF, FF, FFF and FFFF. I'm usually the F in the middle. I've never sucked a cock either. My partner has never even touched one.

 

[UnquietDreams]

I think most people who know me on a personal level offline probably wouldn’t be surprised by much. Work aside because I do keep things professional, all it would take is one family dinner or BBQ and someone would likely have a fair idea of my sexual, religious, and political leanings. That’s more about my sense of humor and what I would joke about than the specific conversation.

But people know it’s not just joking because I get 3am calls about sex toys gone wrong or anal sex questions





I fell into this camp for a long time. I didn’t overthink it. But then…

I accidentally bought a MM romance/erotica book. I remember being disappointed because it just wasn’t an interest of mine. I eventually read it. Fuck

I think the format as well as specific book have contributed greatly to what I enjoy most about MM. I’ve always found the written word more compelling than visual - a book can make me tear up when tv and movies aren’t capable of that. It allows my imagination to fill in a lot instead of telling me everything which probably engages subconscious preferences that I might not even be aware of. Then the plot itself was two masculine guys, one of which wasn’t into men and slowly opened up to the idea. I find that kind of situation extremely hot. The reluctance of things you’ve never been into, recognizing the situation is everything and there’s a possibility you just haven’t encountered those circumstances yet, and being open enough to acknowledge it if it happens. People being authentic in general and with their sexuality turns me on.

I think it was a Pandora’s box for me. Once I read that book and found it really turned me on /snip

I have done research for writing romance novels and this is very common. People who would never watch MM porn will happily read it. A lot of it, especially if no one else knows what the are reading, so ebook MM romance with lots of sex are very popular with women readers.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I get 3am calls about sex toys gone wrong or anal sex questions

I told you I’m going to try to stop calling you so early or late.

Then the plot itself was two masculine guys, one of which wasn’t into men and slowly opened up to the idea. I find that kind of situation extremely hot. The reluctance of things you’ve never been into, recognizing the situation is everything and there’s a possibility you just haven’t encountered those circumstances yet, and being open enough to acknowledge it if it happens. People being authentic in general and with their sexuality turns me on.

Okay. I have to admit, this is the thing that gets me hard. I have no real interest in sucking a cock, or being with a guy at all. However, showing off, pushing boundaries, “performing” in a way that I’m reluctant to, but secretly want to try, this is my blowjob kink.

A situation where we are all horny and things get out of control and into my mouth—!
A group of women with their hands on the back of my head, easing me down onto a thick, stiff cock and whispering in my ear how much I’m going to like it, giggling and laughing as I open my lips and let it slid in. Their gasps of excitement at seeing me cross a line I never expected to cross. Commenting on how hard I am sucking a cock for all of them to see. And knowing that I probably lost the bet on purpose to get myself into this exact position . . . I . . . will be right back . . . In about ten minutes.

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

Lol, this reminds me of a video I watched where the guy was blindfolded and he had to guess if the girl or the guy was giving him oral... he guessed correctly every time.

https://i.makeagif.com/media/12-21-2022/vrleKg.gif

 

[Endless_Night]

Strange that he would want the F in the MMF at all then.

He was bi, but skewed towards women as his primary interest.

I am now confused as to whether I used the threesome tags correctly. MMF? MFM? FMM?

It. Is. All. So Technical.

 

[Endless_Night]

The reluctance of things you’ve never been into, recognizing the situation is everything and there’s a possibility you just haven’t encountered those circumstances yet, and being open enough to acknowledge it if it happens. People being authentic in general and with their sexuality turns me on.

I think this, in some form, is what drives most people who adventurize sex. Whether it be the boundary of trying something new yourself or initiating the experience for another.

Oddly, I rarely think about my partner(s) in this scenario. It’s about me and what I would enjoy watching. Then again, I have a very voyeuristic kink so that part is not shocking

This boggles. As much as anything learned on Lit. I am just so not exhibitionistic. Or voyeuristic.

I WOULD BE SO EMBARRASSED.

I told you I’m going to try to stop calling you so early or late.

Okay. I have to admit, this is the thing that gets me hard. I have no real interest in sucking a cock, or being with a guy at all. However, showing off, pushing boundaries, “performing” in a way that I’m reluctant to, but secretly want to try, this is my blowjob kink.

A situation where we are all horny and things get out of control and into my mouth—!
A group of women with their hands on the back of my head, easing me down onto a thick, stiff cock and whispering in my ear how much I’m going to like it, giggling and laughing as I open my lips and let it slid in. Their gasps of excitement at seeing me cross a line I never expected to cross. Commenting on how hard I am sucking a cock for all of them to see. And knowing that I probably lost the bet on purpose to get myself into this exact position . . . I . . . will be right back . . . In about ten minutes.

Whoa.

And I mean that.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

I think this, in some form, is what drives most people who adventurize sex. Whether it be the boundary of trying something new yourself or initiating the experience for another.

Why does “adventurizing sex” sound like an affliction?

This boggles. As much as anything learned on Lit. I am just so not exhibitionistic. Or voyeuristic.

I WOULD BE SO EMBARRASSED.

I know

To be fair, a bit of embarrassment can make it hotter

Whoa.

And I mean that.

I almost sent you a warning message when I read his post

 

[Endless_Night]

Why does “adventurizing sex” sound like an affliction?

Well, I mean, I am kinda afflicted when it comes to sex.

I know

To be fair, a bit of embarrassment can make it hotter

Umm, maybe?

But baby steps. BABY STEPS.

I almost sent you a warning message when I read his post

That would have been . . . appreciated.

 

[hotwords229_A]

To be fair, a bit of embarrassment can make it hotter

 

[Endless_Night]

That's it? That's your response? Just a devil?

 

[hotwords229_A]

That's it? That's your response? Just a devil?

What would you have me say?

 

[Endless_Night]

What would you have me say?

Oh.

On second thought, the devil alone is just fine.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

That's it? That's your response? Just a devil?

What would you have me say?

The way I imagine it, words aren’t necessary

 

[hotwords229_A]

The way I imagine it, words aren’t necessary

Not to mention with a cock in your mouth . . . how?

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Not to mention with a cock in your mouth . . . how?

No, it’s not my mouth that’s going to be full or embarrassed

 

[Endless_Night]

Not to mention with a cock in your mouth . . . how?

Wait. What?!

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Walked in and y'all immediately reminded me I'd forgotten to take my pill...

So, thanks?

 

[hotwords229_A]

No, it’s not my mouth that’s going to be full or embarrassed

Wait. What?!

See above.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Walked in and y'all immediately reminded me I'd forgotten to take my pill...

So, thanks?

I’m not sure how this happened.

 

[Endless_Night]

See above.

Oh.

Why am I always the last one to know what's happening.

 

[Bbl87]

Guys:
Have you ever sucked a cock? If so, what was the circumstance?

Nope

Do you want to blow a dick, or ever at least considered it?

Nope, and not really. Just has not ever appealed to me at all.

Do you trust your partner enough to talk to her about it, or will it be a deal crusher?

If I did, probably not. It's hard enough to get her to talk about sex in general.

Do you feel the same about sucking a dick today as when you were (let’s say) in your twenties?

Yep, hasn't changed

Do your desire to suck a dick out of pure curiosity, or do you want to do it with your partner?

Don't have the desire, so N/A

Do you ever sucked, or tried to suck, your own cock?

Nope, I have a bit of a gut, length is not where I excel, and I'm not very flexible, so even if I wanted to try, no dice.

Do sexually open minded are you, in your opinion? What would others say?

I think I'm pretty open minded about most things, pretty willing to try just about anything once with the right person. Doesn't extend to guy on guy stuff, but we all have our limits even if we are open minded.

What do you want to know about guy on guy?

Nothing in particular.

 

[Apisto42]

Curiouser and curiouser . . .

Guys:
Have you ever sucked a cock? If so, what was the circumstance?

I was very exploratory at a young age. Plus, I seem to attract guys that like to suck cock. It seems super easy to me get a guy to suck my cock compared to getting a girl to do do.

Do you want to blow a dick, or ever at least considered it?

It only seemed fair back then to offer reciprocation.

Do you trust your partner enough to talk to her about it, or will it be a deal crusher?

Lol. Yeah, that would be it if I told her about my escapades pre meeting her.

Do you feel the same about sucking a dick today as when you were (let’s say) in your twenties?

Nope. I’m much more dominate with men then I am with women and really just get off on them sucking my cock. And it turns out there’s a lot of sub guys that just like to suck cock. So everyone is a winner.

Is your desire to suck a dick out of pure curiosity, or do you want to do it with your partner?

If I was in a group setting, I’m up for anything.

Have you ever sucked, or tried to suck, your own cock?

Yes, I could as a teenager. I think the nerves in your mouth take precedence over your dick, because while it was pleasurable, I was more sensing the feel of my mouth? Hard to explain. It was not like getting sucked by another person.

How sexually open minded are you, in your opinion? What would others say?

Yes. I have limits, but they are pretty broad.

What do you want to know about guy on guy?

I’m good.

(I fully suspect the “Guys” portion of this to go mostly unanswered )

 

[hotwords229_A]

Yes, I could as a teenager. I think the nerves in your mouth take precedence over your dick, because while it was pleasurable, I was more sensing the feel of my mouth? Hard to explain. It was not like getting sucked by another person.

I didn’t think about that, but now that you mention it it makes sense that your mouth would be more aware than the penis.
That’s kind of disappointing to hear, but I still want to do it!

 

[hotwords229_A]

(I fully suspect the “Guys” portion of this to go mostly unanswered )

Boy, we’re you wrong about this!