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This is a good idea.And then finger guns obviously
I also need her to know that I finger bang.

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This is a good idea.And then finger guns obviously
What else?...This is a good idea.
I also need her to know that I finger bang.![]()
I think this is all first date stuff. Actually, itās before first date.What else?...
*makes notes*
Seriously - would it be easier if you could get all this shit out the way when you first meet someone?
Or is it better to gradually find out..... that you've been missing out on shared kinks for months cos of reasons.
I love fingers, and a good finger bang, is the best.This is a good idea.
I also need her to know that I finger bang.![]()
I love fingers, and a good finger bang, is the best.
I thought everyone knew what a finger bang was!Finger bang?
I could make a number of guesses and my fingers have been everywhere and done everything. I probably have done it but never heard the term. The main thing that comes to mind is sticking a finger up urethra.I thought everyone knew what a finger bang was!
Don't everyone go first!I could make a number of guesses and my fingers have been everywhere and done everything. I probably have done it but never heard the term. The main thing that comes to mind is sticking a finger up urethra.
Ouchie! I have sounder for that.I could make a number of guesses and my fingers have been everywhere and done everything. I probably have done it but never heard the term. The main thing that comes to mind is sticking a finger up urethra.
There are all kinds of sounders. My Domme had a nice set and I took the largest one with a little peppermint for good measure.Ouchie! I have sounder for that.
I could make a number of guesses and my fingers have been everywhere and done everything. I probably have done it but never heard the term. The main thing that comes to mind is sticking a finger up urethra.
There was a film I saw, a girl had really long thumbs and she ended making other girls very happy! Lol.
Steel Magnolias?There was a film I saw, a girl had really long thumbs and she ended making other girls very happy! Lol.
I never realized that sounding was a female thing as well as a male thing. Of course since you mentioned it, I Googled... WOW!Just have three steel ones, they usually stay in my toy box... ha ha
I hear they can make finger banging a really immersive experience. Now that I figured out what it means. LOL I really never heard the term.Just have three steel ones, they usually stay in my toy box... ha ha
And possibly untrue. A quick perusal makes it seem like more men than women answered.This is kind of a dick thing to say.![]()
If you are blindfolded how would you know who is sucking your dick?From what I see on Lit there are a lot of men that identify as heterosexual that fantasize about sucking another manās dick. These men, can in theory, get there dick sucked by their female partner but they do not have a dick to suck in their heterosexual relationships.
I relate to this so much. Mostly because I've tried it both ways and they only hear what they want to. 100%I think this is all first date stuff. Actually, itās before first date.
In a non sexual way, I tend to subvert peopleās expectations of me. It seems most people consider me to be a nice guy, polite, kind, courteous, etc. then when they find out all the juicy stuff, my penchant for dark comedy, boldness and raw sexual desires they are usually shocked (hopefully in a good way).
I have come to realize this and so, when I meet someone new, I try to throw a little of all of that ādark and juicyā in right away so they can think this guy is not what he seems.
I think it would be great if a couple could sit down and share all their sexual proclivities right off the bat, so there are no (unpleasant) surprises and then maintain that honesty as things progress.
The problem, of course, is that people hear and think what they want to even when you flat out tell them the opposite is true.
Often, people who know me only in a public setting will say āMelvin . . .ā (Thatās not really my name, but we will pretend it is for the sake of this comment), they say, āMelvin, youāre a really nice guy, you never get upset about anything, do you?ā To which I respond (in a monotone voice) āI live in a constant state of uncontrollable rageā. This always gets a laugh because they think Iām joking.
They think that.![]()
Lol, this reminds me of a video I watched where the guy was blindfolded and he had to guess if the girl or the guy was giving him oral... he guessed correctly every time.If you are blindfolded how would you know who is sucking your dick?
It is the opposite of a blind taste test. I would love to set that up sometime. I did have a hot sexy kiss form a trans one time. I didn't know she was a trans an at the time I didn't care. Now I wish I had pursued a closer relationship.Lol, this reminds me of a video I watched where the guy was blindfolded and he had to guess if the girl or the guy was giving him oral... he guessed correctly every time.
I'll take a crack at it... So male on male action isn't my go to fantasy. Its not something that really does much for me other than I like the idea of a partner who doesn't have a lot of inhibitions and would try anything.I am more interested in the answer most women wonāt give (probably) for fear of being called a somethingaphobe. I am interested to hear from the women who are not into it to figure out why. I used to think it was because it could, in a way, make for a type of āfeminizationā of the guy and most women want manly men. But now I think it has more to do with her wanting the attention on herself more than the 2 guys with each other.
We like what we like. You don't have to put a stamp on it. There is so much out there to choose from.I'll take a crack at it... So male on male action isn't my go to fantasy. Its not something that really does much for me other than I like the idea of a partner who doesn't have a lot of inhibitions and would try anything.
I can't pinpoint why it's not sexy to me. I can think of some theories but I have no idea what is really working in my head to not make it a big turn on.
It is so interesting to me that the thought of two men getting it on is less sexy to me than two women together because in general I'm more attracted to men. So maybe the attractiveness of men to me might depend on the interaction of men with women. It might also be that Im self centered and scenarios that do not involve my gender are less of a turn on because it is harder to feel/ imagine myself as part of the action.
But then again, Queer as Folk was pretty hot. So maybe I do like it and just not when it involves my partner? But I also don't seek out gay porn so maybe I don't like it. Now I feel like I need a psychologist to explain it to me.