Cock Talk

[hotwords229_A]

I sometimes wonder whether they are men or could it actually be a woman but not who they are pretending to be.

This is just hypothetical but how my mind sometimes goes off on tangents. You are a woman who posts a lot and gets some attention but you don’t act on that because you have always said that isn’t what you are here for. But you do want to be here for that. Fear of being judged or hurt stops you. Or maybe you are in a Lit relationship with somebody who doesn’t fully meet your needs sexually or you occasionally want something different. Maybe you have had several failed Lit relationships and don’t want to go down that path again, you just want a quick bang. So you create an alt where you can act that way, be desperate, be very thirsty. There is always going to be the guy that will meet that need without seeing who you are, without hearing your voice, basically not caring as long as they get off too.


You are top of my catfishing list

This is an interesting theory. I have not thought this before either.
Now I’m going to keep my eye out for this (and my dick).

 

[AmberLGreen]

This is an interesting theory. I have not thought this before either.
Now I’m going to keep my eye out for this (and my dick).

Or how many woman (and men) create an alt just to try and catch out a person they are having e-liaisons with

 

[hotwords229_A]

Or how many woman (and men) create an alt just to try and catch out a person they are having e-liaisons with

This I have thought about.
I always thought it would be cool if two of the people I talk to are actually the same person.
As long as that person isn’t also me, because that would be concerning.

 

[Apisto42]

You are top of my catfishing list

And you still haven’t sent me your starfish? Sigh.

 

[Apisto42]

Or how many woman (and men) create an alt just to try and catch out a person they are having e-liaisons with

That’s why I just tell everyone I’m a slut. You should expect me to be looking at other girls tiddies. Am I right or amiright @crazychemgirl ?

(Tagged just so you’ll see “tiddies”)

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

That’s why I just tell everyone I’m a slut. You should expect me to be looking at other girls tiddies. Am I right or amiright @crazychemgirl ?

(Tagged just so you’ll see “tiddies”)

It'd be great if there was a way to tag people with a certain term so they would think melons had been posted. It'd be a perfect troll

 

[AmberLGreen]

And you still haven’t sent me your starfish? Sigh.

You don’t get the starfish on the first outing, honey. There are steps that need to be played.

You tell me you like blowFISH and I blush and tell you I am an angelFISH. We flirt a little with baitFISH and then you send me your boneFISH and I send you my boxFISH. We enjoy a little rockFISH. You enjoy the suckerFISH and make me a jellyFISH. You act like a clownFISH and I become selFISH. It all becomes standofFISH and I turn my back, walk away, showing my starFISH

 

[morelikeasong]

Why do so few people share their faces on Lit, but naked bodies are everywhere?

Faces are more recognizable and identifiable

Have you shared your face on Lit or behind the scenes? How often?

I have done both. Not super often but not totally uncommon either. If I have a relationship with someone off the site, on another platform, I’m more likely to share my face more often.

Would you be more likely to meet someone from Lit in person, or share a face pic with them?

Share a face pic for sure

Have you shared a face pic and regretted it? Are you afraid you might regret it if you did?

Once I accidentally sent someone a face pic instead of my tits. I immediately regretted that because it wasn’t my intent and it took me by surprise. Retrospectively, I don’t care because we are friends. In the moment it was panic

Have you sent or received unsolicited face pics?

Don’t think so except for the accidental one explained above

If someone wants to share a face pic, do you feel like there is an expectation of reciprocation?

Nope, I don’t think I’ve ever feel the expectation and I certainly never expect it from others

When seeing a Litster’s face, on average, how has your expectation of what they might look like met the reality of how they actually look?

Almost never

If you met your current partner online first (without seeing them-no physical attraction) do you think you would be in a relationship with them now?

Yes, I think we still would have connected

If you have sent a face pic, do you think it was more erotic than body pics you’ve sent? Why, why not?

Only in the case of sending my face WITH my naked body which is very very rare for me.

Do you think you have a good idea what people on Lit look like, or are you usually surprised?

Usually surprised

What do you want to know about face pics on Lit?

Do you send or post nudes that include your face?

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

You tell me you like blowFISH and I blush and tell you I am an angelFISH. We flirt a little with baitFISH and then you send me your boneFISH and I send you my boxFISH. We enjoy a little rockFISH. You enjoy the suckerFISH and make me a jellyFISH. You act like a clownFISH and I become selFISH. It all becomes standofFISH and I turn my back, walk away, showing my starFISH

This was pretty impressive, ngl. Maybe it's the alcohol but I audibly whispered 'wow'

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

@hotwords229_A I know this is Cock Talk, but you should've included 'would you rather show your face or your most sacred of holes. Those are the hard-hitting questions we need. I'm available here and there to help @Love_Is_Blonde with the editing, my guy

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

Do you send or post nudes that include your face?

Post: fucking never
Send: I think I have but it's EXCEEDINGLY rare. I have to feel a level of comfort that is as rare a steak that doesn't even touch a grill

 

[UnquietDreams]

Hmmm. Is being erotic a physical-only thing?

I don't consider myself "sexy." When I post something in Chaos or the like, it is general a joke or a punchline to one. (There have been exceptions -- the poetry theme I took seriously, and the one I did referencing "Lust," by Yusef Komunyakka I was quite happy with, but it had as much to do with his words as anything). So I go for "amusing" rather than "erotic," as it is more my wheelhouse, and there is value in that.

I am good with words, so my writing can be erotic, but I am not. If that makes any sense.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I don't consider myself "sexy." When I post something in Chaos or the like, it is general a joke or a punchline to one. (There have been exceptions -- the poetry theme I took seriously, and the one I did referencing "Lust," by Yusef Komunyakka I was quite happy with, but it had as much to do with his words as anything). So I go for "amusing" rather than "erotic," as it is more my wheelhouse, and there is value in that.

I am good with words, so my writing can be erotic, but I am not. If that makes any sense.

It makes perfect sense.
There's so many different layers to human sexuality and attraction. As a result, there are multitudes of ways that we can all flirt with one another.

Sticking to your wheelhouse is where it's at for me, too. I find i attract the kinds of people I enjoy hanging out with. What's fun about lit is the micro communities that have developed in the threads (God forbid you call them cliques) that foster different interactions between people. It allows people to explore their sexual range.

And to me that's hella sexy

 

[Azuldrgon]

Why do so few people share their faces on Lit, but naked bodies are everywhere?

Because faces are more intimate.

Have you shared your face on Lit or behind the scenes? How often?

If I trust someone or I have a "fuck it" moment. I'm very self-conscious because of my Bell's Palsy.

Would you be more likely to meet someone from Lit in person, or share a face pic with them?

Face pic before meeting them. I do not like surprising people in a bad way.

Have you shared a face pic and regretted it? Are you afraid you might regret it if you did?

Whenever someone doesn't respond in kind. I believe you should share equally.

Have you sent or received unsolicited face pics?

Not that I can recall.

If someone wants to share a face pic, do you feel like there is an expectation of reciprocation?

Absolutely. To be fair.

When seeing a Litster’s face, on average, how has your expectation of what they might look like met the reality of how they actually look?

On average, I am surprised more often than not.

If you met your current partner online first (without seeing them-no physical attraction) do you think you would be in a relationship with them now?

My SO was my friend first because we didn't have online back then.

If you have sent a face pic, do you think it was more erotic than body pics you’ve sent? Why, why not?

Mostly, the eyes and smile. Eyes are my kryptonite.

Do you think you have a good idea what people on Lit look like, or are you usually surprised?

Usually surprised.

What do you want to know about face pics on Lit?

Nothing new.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Once I accidentally sent someone a face pic instead of my tits

Better than the other way around I guess. Although it could make LinkedIn way more exciting.

@hotwords229_A I know this is Cock Talk, but you should've included 'would you rather show your face or your most sacred of holes. Those are the hard-hitting questions we need. I'm available here and there to help @Love_Is_Blonde with the editing, my guy

There are women (and probably guys) whose sacred holes would be their mouth!
So where does that leave us?

Post: fucking never
Send: I think I have but it's EXCEEDINGLY rare. I have to feel a level of comfort that is as rare a steak that doesn't even touch a grill

But if you could blow yourself wouldn’t you want to send that video to literally everyone?
And wouldn’t that, by default (), include your face?

 

[UnquietDreams]

Once I accidentally sent someone a face pic instead of my tits. I immediately regretted that because it wasn’t my intent and it took me by surprise. Retrospectively, I don’t care because we are friends. In the moment it was panic

Don’t think so except for the accidental one explained above

Better than the other way around I guess. Although it could make LinkedIn way more exciting.

No, that was Instagram...

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Better than the other way around I guess. Although it could make LinkedIn way more exciting.

I'm terrified of accidentally sending nudes to work colleagues.

 

[OrdinaryPerson]

Why do so few people share their faces on Lit, but naked bodies are everywhere?

Because sharing nudes online and/or our lit posts/ activities are problematic for most of our offline lives so anonymity is important?

Have you shared your face on Lit or behind the scenes? How often?

I'll never post my face on a public thread. But I've shared plenty in private.

Would you be more likely to meet someone from Lit in person, or share a face pic with them?

I can't imagine meeting someone I wasn't comfortable sharing a face picture with

Have you shared a face pic and regretted it? Are you afraid you might regret it if you did?

No

Have you sent or received unsolicited face pics?

Yes. I think it's nice when someone sends me a face picture without me having to ask. I'm always curious about what people look like, but I very rarely ask. 1) I'm afraid Im not good at making people feel good after I see their face and 2) It feels more intimate on here than asking to see dick or vag and I never know if someone is comfortable sharing...

If someone wants to share a face pic, do you feel like there is an expectation of reciprocation?

No. I only feel like it needs to be reciprocated if I asked them for the picture. So I wouldn't ask to see someone's face if I'm not comfortable showing them mine if they wanted to see me.

When seeing a Litster’s face, on average, how has your expectation of what they might look like met the reality of how they actually look?

I don't usually have an expectation. Like I don't have a mental picture of anyone that I make up. Before I see what someone looks like, they are just their AV in my head.

If you met your current partner online first (without seeing them-no physical attraction) do you think you would be in a relationship with them now?

Hm. I think so. It's pretty hard to say though. Different circumstances, who knows.

If you have sent a face pic, do you think it was more erotic than body pics you’ve sent? Why, why not?

No? For me, face pictures are just a hi, now you know what I look like so you know who you're talking to. I don't think it's erotic at all.

Do you think you have a good idea what people on Lit look like, or are you usually surprised?

No idea. But a lot of my lit friends are not shy so I saw what most of them look like pretty early on in the friendship or I saw their pictures on threads before I even talked to them.

What do you want to know about face pics on Lit?

What's the reaction you want when you first show someone your face?

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

But if you could blow yourself wouldn’t you want to send that video to literally everyone?

Noooo, I wouldn't make my parents watch that

And wouldn’t that, by default (), include your face?

Just angling the camera right. Maybe a side shot and it only has to include from the nose down. And then no one would know it was me!

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

What's the reaction you want when you first show someone your face?

I'm just spitballing here but something along the lines of 'Wow! The only way to improve that would be to bury it between my legs'

 

[Apisto42]

I'm just spitballing here but something along the lines of 'Wow! The only way to improve that would be to bury it between my legs'

What that guy said!

 

[hotwords229_A]

I'm just spitballing here but something along the lines of 'Wow! The only way to improve that would be to bury it between my legs'

What that guy said!

Exactly.
What we should send is a pic of the top of our heads and ask! “Wouldn’t your thighs look lovely bookending this?”

 

[Wand3rlust]

Exactly.
What we should send is a pic of the top of our heads and ask! “Wouldn’t your thighs look lovely bookending this?”

*checks in box*

 

[hotwords229_A]

*checks in box*

Which one?

 

[UnquietDreams]

Which one?

"What's in the box?!?"