Cock Talk

[hotwords229_A]

So you’re saying you want to see my boobs and lady bits, will pass on my face, won’t reciprocate or show me your face, and there’s no hope for redemption via a Hotwords and LL hot chocolate date?!

I see how it is

I think you have greatly misinterpreted my response.

I want to see your face and boobs and lady bits, but won’t share my face.
We can totally meet for a hot chocolate date (does that mean anal?), but I will be expecting you to murder me at the end. Of course, I’m hoping you don’t, but I won’t be surprised if you do.

Does that clear things up?

Eh, I am pretty non-eroitc across the board, face or body.

Hmmm. Is being erotic a physical-only thing?

 

[Bry1313]

I've had a 3 week conversation with someone. Got on so well. Showed my face and got an instant 'ah well it was nice talking to you. Hope you have fun here' and off they fucked.

That takes a whole new level of being kind to yourself to get past.

Want me to beat them up for you? Your smile is beyond lovely and the fact that this particular troll didn’t see it is a reflection on him, not you, even if it’s hard to see it

 

[RosewoodTulip]

Why do so few people share their faces on Lit, but naked bodies are everywhere?

My body is anonymous. Though my boobs are glorious I doubt anyone can identify me from a pic of them.

Have you shared your face on Lit or behind the scenes? How often?

I posted it once ages ago in S&S for about 5 mins. Waited for it to be quiet too just to see if I could. Also shared it in the face thread for an hour to mark my 5000th post and hyperventilated the whole time
I much prefer to share it privately but I still stress about it. Like @Wand3rlust I was quickly dropped one time after sharing so I need to really be sure that won't happen again.

Would you be more likely to meet someone from Lit in person, or share a face pic with them?

I'd be happy to meet someone but I would absolutely need to have seen them and know their name first. Same with online dating - I need to know people are who they say they are.

Have you shared a face pic and regretted it? Are you afraid you might regret it if you did?

I don't really have regret which seems strange for someone with anxiety to say. I own all my choices, whatever the outcome. I just worry because I don't like looking at myself so why would anyone else want to see me.

Have you sent or received unsolicited face pics?

No

If someone wants to share a face pic, do you feel like there is an expectation of reciprocation?

Maybe? I like to match the energy of people I pm. So if they are happy to share their face with me I feel more relaxed about sending mine whether it's expected or not.

When seeing a Litster’s face, on average, how has your expectation of what they might look like met the reality of how they actually look?

Oh god I'm always completely wrong. It's like when you find out what your favourite radio presenter looks like. Never matches the image you have.

If you met your current partner online first (without seeing them-no physical attraction) do you think you would be in a relationship with them now?

Looks aren't that important to me really. I need that mental/emotional connection to feel attraction. Seeing a face helps with certain things of course like reading expressions, seeing smiles.. but it's an exceptionally rare thing for me to be attracted just on looks.

If you have sent a face pic, do you think it was more erotic than body pics you’ve sent? Why, why not?

It's more personal, not sure about erotica. Some people have only seen my body, some only my face. A special few have seen both.

Do you think you have a good idea what people on Lit look like, or are you usually surprised?

Always surprised. Even if someone has described themselves in detail I'm still always way off.

What do you want to know about face pics on Lit?

Those of you who share them regularly and don't remove them... do you worry at all about being identified because that stresses me out. Not that I have a high profile life or anything, I'm just very private.

 

[FormerAllStar2]

The Headless Whoreman

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How dare you post my pic without asking…fuck never mind. I’m not fooling anyone.

Why do so few people share their faces on Lit, but naked bodies are everywhere?

Easier to stay anonymous but still play exhibitionist. I try to hide my tattoos as well.

Have you shared your face on Lit or behind the scenes? How often?

Behind the scenes, yes. I’ll usually share if someone I’ve gotten to know a little bit asks. I don’t think I’ve put my face out there in the forums.

Would you be more likely to meet someone from Lit in person, or share a face pic with them?

Share a face pic. But that would also be a prerequisite for meeting.

Have you shared a face pic and regretted it?

Don’t think so.

Are you afraid you might regret it if you did?

Only because I’m generally worried about a not-so-great reaction.

Have you sent or received unsolicited face pics?

Don’t think so.

If someone wants to share a face pic, do you feel like there is an expectation of reciprocation?

Yes. And I’m good with that.

When seeing a Litster’s face, on average, how has your expectation of what they might look like met the reality of how they actually look?

I’d say nearly 100% of the time people have met expectations. Sometimes it’s like “Oh, I pictured you with blue eyes” or something like that. But never “Fuck sake, that person is a goddamned goblin!”

If you met your current partner online first (without seeing them-no physical attraction) do you think you would be in a relationship with them now?

Hard to say. I don’t think she’d have a very good online personality, honestly. Ha.

If you have sent a face pic, do you think it was more erotic than body pics you’ve sent? Why, why not?

Nah. I don’t know how to make my face look erotic. I’m not great at making my body look that way either, honestly.

Do you think you have a good idea what people on Lit look like, or are you usually surprised?

A little of both. I’m mostly just appreciative that people like to share.

What do you want to know about face pics on Lit?

I haven’t read everyone’s answers, so this has probably been asked: What would you do if you saw a coworker/friend/family member’s face here? Do you say anything or just mind your own?

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

That’s some serious bullshit.
But that’s is indicative of them not you.
Hopefully, he cut it short because his wife got home and when she read what he wrote she beat him to death with his computer mouse.
I try to see the bright side of things.

Also if he dies from being beaten with a computer mouse? There's no way that guy has the strength to provide any kind of satisfying sex.

I've had a 3 week conversation with someone. Got on so well. Showed my face and got an instant 'ah well it was nice talking to you. Hope you have fun here' and off they fucked.

That takes a whole new level of being kind to yourself to get past.

Total small dick energy. That's on him. I'm sorry that happened. The rest of us know you're delicious and amazing.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Also if he dies from being beaten with a computer mouse? There's no way that guy has the strength to provide any kind of satisfying sex.

Good point.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

I think you have greatly misinterpreted my response.

I want to see your face and boobs and lady bits, but won’t share my face.
We can totally meet for a hot chocolate date (does that mean anal?), but I will be expecting you to murder me at the end. Of course, I’m hoping you don’t, but I won’t be surprised if you do.

Does that clear things up?

Hmmm. Is being erotic a physical-only thing?

Awww. You’re willing to die for anal sex with me. I might have to post this on the “most romantical thing I heard this week” thread

 

[hotwords229_A]

Awww. You’re willing to die for anal sex with me. I might have to post this on the “most romantical thing I heard this week” thread

A man’s gotta do what a man’s gotta do.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

A man’s gotta do what a man’s gotta do.

Don't plan the plan if you can't follow through

 

[Apisto42]

The Headless Whoreman

Why do so few people share their faces on Lit, but naked bodies are everywhere?

Probably because a lot of people like the anonymity of no face. Or they don’t think they are cute enough. Or they’re a man pretending to be a woman.

Have you shared your face on Lit or behind the scenes? How often?

Pretty often with people I chat with. Occasionally I’ll throw a pic up on “show us your face” for a limited time.

Would you be more likely to meet someone from Lit in person, or share a face pic with them?

As @LadyLascivious1 i think said, I have done both, but definitely need to share face and voice before meeting up.

Have you shared a face pic and regretted it?

Nope.

Are you afraid you might regret it if you did?

No regerts.

Have you sent or received unsolicited face pics?

No and yes. But the unsolicited face was from someone who seemed to be insane and possibly a scammer.

If someone wants to share a face pic, do you feel like there is an expectation of reciprocation?

Not really. And what I always tell people I’m chatting with is that I do not expect reciprocation of what I choose to share. It’s up to everyone to decide what they are comfortable with.

When seeing a Litster’s face, on average, how has your expectation of what they might look like met the reality of how they actually look?

Lit is full of sexy women. I’m more surprised of some of the guys I see that share on the boards.

If you met your current partner online first (without seeing them-no physical attraction) do you think you would be in a relationship with them now?

No idea of how to answer this. I’m really fucking shallow and would not have married someone that I wasn’t hot for. Still think she’s gorgeous and fucking hot and it’s been 23 years.

If you have sent a face pic, do you think it was more erotic than body pics you’ve sent? Why, why not?

No. I’m a goofy fucker who cannot smolder. The Rock has a great smolder. I do not.

Do you think you have a good idea what people on Lit look like, or are you usually surprised?

I don’t really have expectations on what people look like.

What do you want to know about face pics on Lit?

I really just want to know what @aussiegeekygal would look like with my balls on her face.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Or they’re a man pretending to be a woman.

I can’t believe this hasn’t been mentioned yet! Pretending to be someone you aren’t is probably high up on the most common reasons list.

No regerts.

I still laugh every time I see this.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I can’t believe this hasn’t been mentioned yet! Pretending to be someone you aren’t is probably high up on the most common reasons list.


I still laugh every time I see this.

 

[MindYaBitness]

I can’t believe this hasn’t been mentioned yet! Pretending to be someone you aren’t is probably high up on the most common reasons list.

It never ceases to amaze me. I need to know the psychology behind why there are so many guys on here who get off on pretending to be women

 

[aussiegeekygal]

It never ceases to amaze me. I need to know the psychology behind why there are so many guys on here who get off on pretending to be women

I'm so curious about it, too.
Like is it escapism to the nth degree? Curiosity? Who knows? It's fascinating behavior to me. It's a great reminder to me that we all operate differently here. I chatted with Ronster AND his female alt for ages and I guess I did find the whole thing kind of entertaining. Kind of creepy, and good people do get hurt.

This place, man.
There's nothing quite like it.

It's art brute

 

[RosewoodTulip]

It never ceases to amaze me. I need to know the psychology behind why there are so many guys on here who get off on pretending to be women

It seems so obvious too that they're fake but so many men are either very dense or just do not care. As long as someone is flirty and showing pics it doesn't seem to matter that it's not a genuine woman.
I wonder about those guys, especially after the recent Spamela looking for an older man or whatever the latest nonsense is.
Why believe an obvious lie?

 

[SixShooter14]

It seems so obvious too that they're fake but so many men are either very dense or just do not care. As long as someone is flirty and showing pics it doesn't seem to matter that it's not a genuine woman.
I wonder about those guys, especially after the recent Spamela looking for an older man or whatever the latest nonsense is.
Why believe an obvious lie?

Baffles my mind as well.

 

[drobert44]

It seems so obvious too that they're fake but so many men are either very dense or just do not care. As long as someone is flirty and showing pics it doesn't seem to matter that it's not a genuine woman.
I wonder about those guys, especially after the recent Spamela looking for an older man or whatever the latest nonsense is.
Why believe an obvious lie?

It's a fantasy........and can be a fun one.

 

[Treeview]

Good Morning, Rosie

 

[Treeview]

It never ceases to amaze me. I need to know the psychology behind why there are so many guys on here who get off on pretending to be women

And most, not very well

 

[hotwords229_A]

It never ceases to amaze me. I need to know the psychology behind why there are so many guys on here who get off on pretending to be women

I always wondered if it was a way to see how other guys interact, flirt, find out about their filthy inner secrets, etc.

Or they’re gay and only like straight dudes.

Or they’re just dicks.

 

[Apisto42]

I always wondered if it was a way to see how other guys interact, flirt, find out about their filthy inner secrets, etc.

Or they’re gay and only like straight dudes.

Or they’re just dicks.

The last two are the most probable. Catfishing is a hobby for some people.

 

[AmberLGreen]

It never ceases to amaze me. I need to know the psychology behind why there are so many guys on here who get off on pretending to be women

It seems so obvious too that they're fake but so many men are either very dense or just do not care. As long as someone is flirty and showing pics it doesn't seem to matter that it's not a genuine woman.
I wonder about those guys, especially after the recent Spamela looking for an older man or whatever the latest nonsense is.
Why believe an obvious lie?

I sometimes wonder whether they are men or could it actually be a woman but not who they are pretending to be.

This is just hypothetical but how my mind sometimes goes off on tangents. You are a woman who posts a lot and gets some attention but you don’t act on that because you have always said that isn’t what you are here for. But you do want to be here for that. Fear of being judged or hurt stops you. Or maybe you are in a Lit relationship with somebody who doesn’t fully meet your needs sexually or you occasionally want something different. Maybe you have had several failed Lit relationships and don’t want to go down that path again, you just want a quick bang. So you create an alt where you can act that way, be desperate, be very thirsty. There is always going to be the guy that will meet that need without seeing who you are, without hearing your voice, basically not caring as long as they get off too.

The last two are the most probable. Catfishing is a hobby for some people.

You are top of my catfishing list

 

[RosewoodTulip]

I sometimes wonder whether they are men or could it actually be a woman but not who they are pretending to be.

This is just hypothetical but how my mind sometimes goes off on tangents. You are a woman who posts a lot and gets some attention but you don’t act on that because you have always said that isn’t what you are here for. But you do want to be here for that. Fear of being judged or hurt stops you. Or maybe you are in a Lit relationship with somebody who doesn’t fully meet your needs sexually or you occasionally want something different. Maybe you have had several failed Lit relationships and don’t want to go down that path again, you just want a quick bang. So you create an alt where you can act that way, be desperate, be very thirsty. There is always going to be the guy that will meet that need without seeing who you are, without hearing your voice, basically not caring as long as they get off too.

I just know if I tried that I'd get my profiles mixed up after about 10 minutes

It's an interesting thought though. Maybe they have the fantasy of working a paid chat room and this is as close as they'd get

 

[LadyLascivious1]

I sometimes wonder whether they are men or could it actually be a woman but not who they are pretending to be.

That’s a very interesting theory that I hadn’t thought through to that extent before.

I’ve had a couple of friends say they thought Brianna was a guy and my response has always been that I never once got that vibe. I really thought she was a women, just not the one she pretended to be.

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

That’s a very interesting theory that I hadn’t thought through to that extent before.

I’ve had a couple of friends say they thought Brianna was a guy and my response has always been that I never once got that vibe. I really thought she was a women, just not the one she pretended to be.

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