Cock Talk

[hotwords229_A]

I didn't read the questions because I have a very important one of my own...

Is that you?

Nope. My inner thighs aren’t that hairy.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

My inner thighs aren’t that hairy

Prove. It.

 

[AngelicaS1780]

Also, what’s with you people not having seen movies?

The monster behind you in the medicine cabinet mirror is as cliched as a cat jump scare in movies.
NRJ in particular, I can’t believe with all the horror movies you watch that you are unfamiliar with this scene!!!

I'm familiar with the scene, but any time I've had a medicine cabinet mirror, the bathroom was so small that no monster could sneak up behind me. However, pulling the shower curtain back is a whole different story.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Prove. It.

Proof inserted in your box.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Why do so few people share their faces on Lit, but naked bodies are everywhere?
It's harder to identify people via their foreskin
#challengeaccepted

Have you shared your face on Lit or behind the scenes?
Yes
How often?
Rather frequently. I share my face publicly on certain threads.

Would you be more likely to meet someone from Lit in person, or share a face pic with them?
More likely to share a pic than to meet up.

Have you shared a face pic and regretted it? Are you afraid you might regret it if you did?
I've felt pause before but never regretted it. I'm pretty comfortable with the way I conduct myself here and dealing with any blow back that could occur as a result of me existing on this site.

Have you sent or received unsolicited face pics?
No, and no; I don't think so anyways

If someone wants to share a face pic, do you feel like there is an expectation of reciprocation?
Yes. It's a misplaced expectation and comes from us being a social species. Photos should be shared with consent without any expectations of reciprocity. But I'll admit even I feel the twinge of wanting something in return.

When seeing a Litster’s face, on average, how has your expectation of what they might look like met the reality of how they actually look?
Oh, I'm shite at reconciling the two. With the exception of Hate clowns, the OG instigator of this nonsense. I have a very good understanding of what he looks like.

If you met your current partner online first (without seeing them-no physical attraction) do you think you would be in a relationship with them now?
I did meet my husband online.
Truth be told, I've met most of my significant others online and built emotional connections before the sexual ones.

If you have sent a face pic, do you think it was more erotic than body pics you’ve sent? Why, why not?
I take some mighty erotic body pictures.
Intimate might be the better word.
And yes.
If you ever get a face pic with body sprinkled in, I trust you and that photo is a token of that.

Do you think you have a good idea what people on Lit look like, or are you usually surprised?
Often surprised.

What do you want to know about face pics on Lit?
I have a technical question about website plug-ins.
In the old form we could manage our attachments from a dashboard which was great for going through and removing old photos from threads.
This new format doesn't have that tool and I know I read that there may be a plug-in that could be used to find and manage attachments.
Anyone know what I'm talking about and willing to help me figure out the name of it? I know I've got some cleanup I need to do!

 

[Endless_Night]

The Headless Whoreman
Oh, my . . . .

I'm on board with @aussiegeekygal. Are you sure that's not you, Muscles?

Why do so few people share their faces on Lit, but naked bodies are everywhere?
I don't get the naked body part, so . . . .

Have you shared your face on Lit or behind the scenes? How often?
Never
Never
Never

Would you be more likely to meet someone from Lit in person, or share a face pic with them?
Far more likely to meet them. Far.

Have you shared a face pic and regretted it? Are you afraid you might regret it if you did?
N/A. Absolutely think I would regret.

Have you sent or received unsolicited face pics?
I receive them all the time! It's surprising, really. I have never asked.

If someone wants to share a face pic, do you feel like there is an expectation of reciprocation?
Depends. One person, it absolutely was with that intent. They said so. I am extremely sensitive that way as far as a sense of obligation, which they knew quite well. Pissed me off. Our interaction declined.

Mostly, no, moreover, most people say upfront they don't expect reciprocation.

When seeing a Litster’s face, on average, how has your expectation of what they might look like met the reality of how they actually look?
I never have any idea what people are going to look like.

If you met your current partner online first (without seeing them-no physical attraction) do you think you would be in a relationship with them now?
I have a physical type. Always have. Or did.

One thing Lit has taught me is that visual/physical attraction is not really all that important. At least, once I'm sexually attracted by wordage and personality. It's that stuff, and the kink compatibility that really does it for me.

I haven't had the opportunity to test that in the flesh, but I suspect it would be the same. Kink/personality/emotional compatibility trumps physical type. For sure.

If you have sent a face pic, do you think it was more erotic than body pics you’ve sent? Why, why not?
N/A

Do you think you have a good idea what people on Lit look like, or are you usually surprised?
More often surprised than not.

What do you want to know about face pics on Lit?

Why people that do are so comfortable sending them?

It seems to breach the anonymity factor of Lit.

I'm not concerned about being outed for work or family, but that's not the case for many. I am, however, really embarrassed and awkward about what does it for me, and sex generally. I would never -

*takes a moment to die*

Be able to talk about the stuff I talk about on here without that anonymity. And play? I mean, admittedly my little toes have not spent too much time in that pool, but no way could play happen without that barrier. No way.

 

[Endless_Night]

Proof inserted in your box.

Omg. What just happened!!!


ETA: Ummm. Cancel that question.

Goodness. The things that happen in here.

 

[hotoldrguy]

I'm familiar with the scene, but any time I've had a medicine cabinet mirror, the bathroom was so small that no monster could sneak up behind me. However, pulling the shower curtain back is a whole different story.

I saw the original Psycho in the theater when I was a kid so I am with you on the shower curtain.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Omg. What just happened!!!


ETA: Ummm. Cancel that question.

Goodness. The things that happen in here.

I came

 

[Endless_Night]

I came

Omg. I don't know whether to die of embarrassment or fall on the floor laughing!

#torn

 

[hotoldrguy]

Why do so few people share their faces on Lit, but naked bodies are everywhere?
I think the exhibitionist in us has a lot do do with it.
Have you shared your face on Lit or behind the scenes? How often?
A few times
Would you be more likely to meet someone from Lit in person, or share a face pic with them?
I think I would want to exchange face pics before meeting then meeting
Have you shared a face pic and regretted it? Are you afraid you might regret it if you did?
I don't worry about it
Have you sent or received unsolicited face pics?
Nope
If someone wants to share a face pic, do you feel like there is an expectation of reciprocation?
I think so but if I send any kind of requested pic, I let the other person know they do not have to reciprocate
When seeing a Litster’s face, on average, how has your expectation of what they might look like met the reality of how they actually look?
I am usually way off LOL
If you have sent a face pic, do you think it was more erotic than body pics you’ve sent? Why, why not?
Naw

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Omg. I don't know whether to die of embarrassment or fall on the floor laughing!

#torn

I was joking

(But probably not for long)

 

[Wand3rlust]

I haven’t seen that movie, but there’s a similar scene in Sex & the City. I absolutely have looked at all my bits up close in a mirror. And camera

Hasn't everyone?

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Prove. It.

Proof inserted in your box.

I came

I was joking

(But probably not for long)

I’m going to need proof as well. Of all those things

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I’m going to need proof as well. Of all those things

Do I need to live stream this?!

 

[Ricardus]

Do I need to live stream this?!

The thanks of several grateful nations would be yours.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Why do so few people share their faces on Lit, but naked bodies are everywhere?

I’ve commented on this before and it’s a phenomenon I find fascinating because it’s the inverse of offline. I think many people are much less comfortable sharing nakedness or talking about sex in their everyday lives, therefore, in order to do so here they need the anonymity. Hence, no faces.

I think the real empowerment comes when you can combine them all. It doesn’t have to be here necessarily, but being able to share your sexuality, nakedness, face, and identity as a package is heady stuff. Over the many years and multiple reasons I came and then returned here, it’s definitely helped me do that. I wasn’t particularly shy to begin with though. More I wanted to explore some things and a bit of discussing and connecting online made it much easier to do those things offline as well.

Have you shared your face on Lit or behind the scenes? How often?

Yep. Much more often in private messages than the public threads, but I’m not shy about sharing my face at all.

Would you be more likely to meet someone from Lit in person, or share a face pic with them?

I’ll share face pictures much easier than meeting someone, but I’d need the former in order to do the latter.

Have you shared a face pic and regretted it? Are you afraid you might regret it if you did?

No, but right when I came back to Lit in 2021/2022 and was sharing pictures for the first time, the first person I shared one with their initial response seemed like a blow off which gave me pause.

That was really more about me and my uncertainty since I’d never gotten close to anyone on Lit before. It turns out what I thought was a blow off was actually them sharing something personal. It was a good reminder to not make assumptions about other people’s meaning and just ask if I’m not clear.

Have you sent or received unsolicited face pics?

Nope.

If someone wants to share a face pic, do you feel like there is an expectation of reciprocation?

Sometimes, but it’s probably a more self imposed expectation than anything else. I don’t mind sharing face pics so it hasn’t been a problem, but if I found myself getting unsolicited ones then my feeling on the topic might change.

And I don’t expect it when I share first, but if I’m honest sometimes I really want it. I try to separate the two and articulate clearly and thoughtfully if I really want to see any type of pictures of someone. And I respect when someone doesn’t feel comfortable sharing. I might be disappointed, but that’s ok.

When seeing a Litster’s face, on average, how has your expectation of what they might look like met the reality of how they actually look?

Oh, it rarely matches up

If you met your current partner online first (without seeing them-no physical attraction) do you think you would be in a relationship with them now?

I do even though we met offline. I have met some of my closest friends (along with a couple of sexual partners) online though. I really think it allows you get to know people on a deeper level than you might via casual interaction in person and exposes you to people you never would have come across otherwise.

If you have sent a face pic, do you think it was more erotic than body pics you’ve sent? Why, why not?

I agree it can be much more intimate. Our bodies can be used for so many fun things including pleasure, but our faces represent who we are and are more unique to us. As much as I enjoy filthy pictures, nothing replaces looking into someone’s eyes or seeing their smile.

I’ll share both, but it’s a very, very select few that have seen both in the same picture or video. That means I really trust them. I’m pretty open about things so I’m not particularly worried about being identified here, but there are always bad apples and I’d rather not go through the trauma of things getting messy.

What do you want to know about face pics on Lit?

Have you ever been more intimidated or shy after you saw someone’s face?

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Do I need to live stream this?!

That’s an offer I wouldn’t turn down

I’ll narrate for @Endless_Night

 

[Apisto42]

Currently something like three.

Yes and yes. Bating in front of the mirror is honestly amazing and empowering. You're seeing yourself, all of yourself, in real time give yourself pleasure. It's fantastic. It helps you love your body and love yourself. I'm going deep with this shit but doing this has honestly helped me. It's a trip.
.

Hey! Did that this morning. It was fucking hot. Five stars.

 

[Wand3rlust]

I’ve commented on this before and it’s a phenomenon I find fascinating because it’s the inverse of offline. I think many people are much less comfortable sharing nakedness or talking about sex in their everyday lives, therefore, in order to do so here they need the anonymity. Hence, no faces.

I think the real empowerment comes when you can combine them all. It doesn’t have to be here necessarily, but being able to share your sexuality, nakedness, face, and identity as a package is heady stuff. Over the many years and multiple reasons I came and then returned here, it’s definitely helped me do that. I wasn’t particularly shy to begin with though. More I wanted to explore some things and a bit of discussing and connecting online made it much easier to do those things offline as well.


Yep. Much more often in private messages than the public threads, but I’m not shy about sharing my face at all.


I’ll share face pictures much easier than meeting someone, but I’d need the former in order to do the latter.


No, but right when I came back to Lit in 2021/2022 and was sharing pictures for the first time, the first person I shared one with their initial response seemed like a blow off which gave me pause.

That was really more about me and my uncertainty since I’d never gotten close to anyone on Lit before. It turns out what I thought was a blow off was actually them sharing something personal. It was a good reminder to not make assumptions about other people’s meaning and just ask if I’m not clear.


Nope.


Sometimes, but it’s probably a more self imposed expectation than anything else. I don’t mind sharing face pics so it hasn’t been a problem, but if I found myself getting unsolicited ones then my feeling on the topic might change.

And I don’t expect it when I share first, but if I’m honest sometimes I really want it. I try to separate the two and articulate clearly and thoughtfully if I really want to see any type of pictures of someone. And I respect when someone doesn’t feel comfortable sharing. I might be disappointed, but that’s ok.


Oh, it rarely matches up


I do even though we met offline. I have met some of my closest friends (along with a couple of sexual partners) online though. I really think it allows you get to know people on a deeper level than you might via casual interaction in person and exposes you to people you never would have come across otherwise.


I agree it can be much more intimate. Our bodies can be used for so many fun things including pleasure, but our faces represent who we are and are more unique to us. As much as I enjoy filthy pictures, nothing replaces looking into someone’s eyes or seeing their smile.

I’ll share both, but it’s a very, very select few that have seen both in the same picture or video. That means I really trust them. I’m pretty open about things so I’m not particularly worried about being identified here, but there are always bad apples and I’d rather not go through the trauma of things getting messy.


Have you ever been more intimidated or shy after you saw someone’s face?

I think I love you.

I like words. And wordiness. You respond amazingly.

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

Hey! Did that this morning. It was fucking hot. Five stars.

My man!

 

[LadyLascivious1]

I think I love you.

I like words. And wordiness. You respond amazingly.

After I posted that, I thought, “Oh, my. No one wants to read that much. Edit next time!”

Thank you

 

[Wand3rlust]

The Headless Whoreman

https://64.media.tumblr.com/11e34341f1741102a00ba8f54efdcaa7/642e645fab241fb5-09/s1280x1920/13e6ec9546cb3540c0c64262c46a8a6ffe578e08.jpg

*Fans self*

Why do so few people share their faces on Lit, but naked bodies are everywhere?

you dont need an account to view. And most people would want to hide their real life. For a lot of different reasons.

Have you shared your face on Lit or behind the scenes? How often?

on here? Yes. Behind the scenes? Yes.
when i feel cute

Would you be more likely to meet someone from Lit in person, or share a face pic with them?

Both the same.

Have you shared a face pic and regretted it? Are you afraid you might regret it if you did?

only cos i dont like my face.

Have you sent or received unsolicited face pics?

no? I dont think so...

If someone wants to share a face pic, do you feel like there is an expectation of reciprocation?

I feel that with all pictures. It's probably not true. But I feel like there is.

When seeing a Litster’s face, on average, how has your expectation of what they might look like met the reality of how they actually look?

literally I'm rubbish. Noone looks like they sound.

If you met your current partner online first (without seeing them-no physical attraction) do you think you would be in a relationship with them now?

i emotionally connect with the person. The face becomes... incidental sounds too flippant. If I fancy your personality then im likely to like you in person.

If you have sent a face pic, do you think it was more erotic than body pics you’ve sent? Why, why not?

no.

Do you think you have a good idea what people on Lit look like, or are you usually surprised?

see above. No clue.

What do you want to know about face pics on Lit?

When can I see yours*?

*to everyone on Lit.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

After I posted that, I thought, “Oh, my. No one wants to read that much. Edit next time!”

Thank you

Oh, no. We love it

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Hey! Did that this morning. It was fucking hot. Five stars.

*Adds to list of things I'd like to see before I die