Cock Talk

[hotwords229_A]

It's going to be a damn shame if it expires before you can figure it out

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[LadyLascivious1]

Bites tongue.

To be fair I didn't pack that in my hand luggage...

Glad you're feeling better

It was short lived. I tested positive for Covid an hour ago. First time for me.

Now wait a minute.

Let’s say a guy bends over and takes it like a man, is he automatically being a sub?
What if he orchestrated it, demanded it from his woman and enjoyed the hell out of it?
Is that being subby?



Is it possible to be a dominating sub? Bottoming from the top, as it were?

Also, I can’t get Aussie’s pic to load and it’s driving me crazy!!!!

Nope, not automatic at all. In my experience there’s been a strong correlation though. I actually love guys who are into receiving end of anal play as well as the giving side.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

It was short lived. I tested positive for Covid an hour ago. First time for me.

Fuck.
Sorry to hear that.

I hate to ruin @Apisto42 's fantasies about us making out #quarantine

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Fuck.
Sorry to hear that.

I hate to ruin @Apisto42 's fantasies about us making out #quarantine

Small silver lining is that my most demanding colleagues will all be offsite traveling (where I was supposed to be as well), so it might actually be a quiet week. Some real rest sounds pretty awesome.

I was making jokes about pervy quarantine hijinks earlier tonight! I mean it’s not like I can test more positive, right?

 

[deft]

It was short lived. I tested positive for Covid an hour ago. First time for me.

I hope it’s a short and uneventful bout!

 

[Love_Is_Blonde]

Question.


Now, I’m curious. Out of the BDSM environ, how prevalent is liking a little pain in sex? Giving or receiving? Or both? And, you know, preferences?

I think it depends a lot on who is involved. I have been known to enjoy a spanking from time to time, but I wouldn’t want, and I wouldn’t enjoy it if my partner wasn’t into that and then tried to wrassle me onto his lap to spank me. That wouldn’t end well at all. It isn’t just the physical sensation. It is more about sexual chemistry, and the mental and emotional side.

You rang?

Guurrrrlll

It was short lived. I tested positive for Covid an hour ago. First time for me.

Oh no! I hope you feel better soon, LL

 

[Bbl87]

It was short lived. I tested positive for Covid an hour ago. First time for me.

Booooooo. Hope its mild for ya, and a fast recovery.

Fuck.
Sorry to hear that.

I hate to ruin @Apisto42 's fantasies about us making out #quarantine

Ummmmm, if I had the chance to make out with LadyL, fuck quarantine. I'm on 4 times having COVID that I know of, so #worthit.

 

[Lmizzler]

You rang?

The periodic table on the wall just adds to the hotness

 

[hotwords229_A]

You rang?

Okay, I had to disable some security settings, that’s why I couldn’t see the pic.
Apparently my tablet thought this link was dangerous and, you know what, it is!

I’m not a submissive guy, I like control. But honestly, if I walked in to this?

I would “let things happen”.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Nope, not automatic at all. In my experience there’s been a strong correlation though. I actually love guys who are into receiving end of anal play as well as the giving side.

This is where I get confused and probably why I don’t think in terms of submissive or dominant.

I still think that receiving a blow job is me submitting. Others would say, the woman on her knees and sucking my dick is submitting. Are we both submitting? Are we both being dominant?

I suppose it’s how you feel while doing it more than the act itself.

I’ve never been buttfucked before (other than every April 15th), but if I were to take one for the team, I would still feel like I was in control because I was there and I wanted it.

Hope you feel better. I’ve heard that excessive masturbation is the cure! Worked for me.

 

[Artfan2]

It's not that painful to be honest. Sure, it smarts a little, but that's the fun of it right?

I suspect it depends on what you flog and how you flog it.

 

[Endless_Night]

It was short lived. I tested positive for Covid an hour ago. First time for me.

Oh, no! Feel better soon.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

But you've found sub guys a turn on a few times? I wonder what the differentiation is

I have! That goes under the label of “good times I didn’t see coming.”

I think it’s the same as giving pain - if I really care about the person, I truly enjoy seeing them get what they need. And I’m self aware enough to recognize when I might be reacting differently than anticipated and going with it.

Honestly, you probably don't. I've been trying to explain to someone recently and, truthfully, I think I managed a C+ on that dissertation.

It's hopeless.

I feel like I, @AussieGeek, or @Trekka would be rapt and enthusiastic pupils. And have all the questions

This sounds like an amazing adult sleep over.

Well, I mean, I'm certainly not going to!

From what I’ve read there’s nothing inherently pain related in Clowning, but as with anything you can kink stack.

And now I’m imagining a Jenga game of kinks. We can play it at our sleep over! We have to share about whatever kink we pull

1. Role-play and Dynamics: Clown play can range from humorous and light-hearted to dark and eerie, depending on the participants' preferences. The dynamics can vary, with some choosing a dominant/submissive role, while others might not incorporate power dynamics at all.
2. Humiliation and Degradation: For some, clowning might involve elements of erotic humiliation or degradation, where the exaggerated and silly nature of the clown is used as a form of playful mockery.
3. Sensory Play: The exaggerated features of clown attire, such as large gloves, can be used to alter sensations, adding a unique twist to sensory play.”

This is where I get confused and probably why I don’t think in terms of submissive or dominant.

I still think that receiving a blow job is me submitting.

Perfect. Then you’ll be in the right headspace when I slip in a finger during that blow job

I suppose it’s how you feel while doing it more than the act itself.

I couldn’t agree with this more. I’m not really concerned with the labels of it, but I’m really interested in the headspace of being submissive. It’s most likely that I’d end up topping from the bottom, but I’m sure it would still be fun to try in the right circumstances.

 

[MedicalMuse]

I couldn’t agree with this more. I’m not really concerned with the labels of it, but I’m really interested in the headspace of being submissive. It’s most likely that I’d end up topping from the bottom, but I’m sure it would still be fun to try in the right circumstances.

I’m sure that is something that can be remedied, in the right moment

 

[Endless_Night]

Now wait a minute.

Let’s say a guy bends over and takes it like a man, is he automatically being a sub?
What if he orchestrated it, demanded it from his woman and enjoyed the hell out of it?
Is that being subby?



Is it possible to be a dominating sub? Bottoming from the top, as it were?

It is completely possible to be a dominant bottom. Being *done to* but being control of being what is done.

Like, dominant and submissive are one set of terms. Topping and bottoming are another. Most submissives seem to be bottoms, so those to words tend to get linked together, but they're not mutually exclusive.

Topping from the bottom is more associated with being a naughty submissive.

At least, I think, from my time on the BDSM board. It can be confusing.

This is where I get confused and probably why I don’t think in terms of submissive or dominant.

I still think that receiving a blow job is me submitting. Others would say, the woman on her knees and sucking my dick is submitting. Are we both submitting? Are we both being dominant?

I suppose it’s how you feel while doing it more than the act itself.

Valid. I see that^ as the woman being submissive.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

I still think that receiving a blow job is me submitting. Others would say, the woman on her knees and sucking my dick is submitting. Are we both submitting? Are we both being dominant?

Valid. I see that^ as the woman being submissive.

Interesting. So, conversely, do you consider a man eating a woman out being submissive?

 

[MedicalMuse]

This is where I get confused and probably why I don’t think in terms of submissive or dominant.

I still think that receiving a blow job is me submitting. Others would say, the woman on her knees and sucking my dick is submitting. Are we both submitting? Are we both being dominant?

I think it really depends on the type of power games you’re playing.

I suppose it’s how you feel while doing it more than the act itself.

This is true

I’ve never been buttfucked before (other than every April 15th), but if I were to take one for the team, I would still feel like I was in control because I was there and I wanted it.

The person recieving is always ultimately in control, even when submitting. They have to be willing to submit…
That’s why we have safe words

Hope you feel better. I’ve heard that excessive masturbation is the cure! Worked for me.

Excessive or just the right amount

 

[hotwords229_A]

I suspect it depends on what you flog and how you flog it.

Exactly. I could never do any kind of ball or cock flogging. Those are sensitive areas and any whacking is strictly prohibited! (Other than whacking off )

I feel like I, @AussieGeek, or @Trekka would be rapt and enthusiastic pupils. And have all the questions

This sounds like an amazing adult sleep over.

Can I cum? The four of you might need a test penis.

Perfect. Then you’ll be in the right headspace when I slip in a finger during that blow job

This is what I mean. I wouldn’t necessarily look for a finger in my butt, but if it happened during a blowjob it would be a lovely surprise. I don’t care about the label!

Topping from the bottom is more associated with being a naughty submissive.

I keep saying this backwards. I keep saying bottoming from the top!
Is that a thing?

 

[Endless_Night]

I feel like I, @AussieGeek, or @Trekka would be rapt and enthusiastic pupils. And have all the questions

This sounds like an amazing adult sleep over.

. . . . .

My entire body just froze in terror. I couldn't even type there for a couple of minutes.

I don't think I'm ready to play with the big girls yet.

Oh! Oh! Maybe Hotwords could video and and I could watch later, while covering my eyes during the too sexy parts! @hotwords229_A ?

From what I’ve read there’s nothing inherently pain related in Clowning, but as with anything you can kink stack.

Ahhhh. Okay. This makes more sense. *nods*

And now I’m imagining a Jenga game of kinks. We can play it at our sleep over! We have to share about whatever kink we pull

1. Role-play and Dynamics: Clown play can range from humorous and light-hearted to dark and eerie, depending on the participants' preferences. The dynamics can vary, with some choosing a dominant/submissive role, while others might not incorporate power dynamics at all.
2. Humiliation and Degradation: For some, clowning might involve elements of erotic humiliation or degradation, where the exaggerated and silly nature of the clown is used as a form of playful mockery.
3. Sensory Play: The exaggerated features of clown attire, such as large gloves, can be used to alter sensations, adding a unique twist to sensory play.

*big eyes*

Wow. I mean, maybe you and Trekka should team up to teach classes.

No, seriously.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Interesting. So, conversely, do you consider a man eating a woman out being submissive?

The woman is submitting in that scenario. At least to me she is.

The person recieving is always ultimately in control, even when submitting. They have to be willing to submit…
That’s why we have safe words

I think I need one of those Happy-to-Sad charts they have at the doctors office.
But with Dominant and Submissive.

Can’t we all just agree to fuck and not worry about who’s in charge of what?

 

[MedicalMuse]

The woman is submitting in that scenario. At least to me she is.

I think I need one of those Happy-to-Sad charts they have at the doctors office.
But with Dominant and Submissive.

Can’t we all just agree to fuck and not worry about who’s in charge of what?

Yes, yes we can. But only if you use your mouth first

 

[hotwords229_A]

Maybe Hotwords could video and and I could watch later, while covering my eyes during the too sexy parts! @hotwords229_A ?

My hands might be full (or tied).
Can you operate a camera with your eyes closed?

 

[Endless_Night]

I keep saying this backwards. I keep saying bottoming from the top!
Is that a thing?

Maybe more indicative of your sexual preferences?

I think we have just established that you are a Dominant Top.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Yes, yes we can. But only if you use your mouth first

 

[Endless_Night]

My hands might be full (or tied).
Can you operate a camera with your eyes closed?

While you boss me how to use it?

I mean, I can try, Mr. Dominant Bottom.