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CuriousGuyVa said:
This may have already been done before, but if I don't ask...

I'm interested in chatting with other guys who are curious and wanting to take the plunge, and those who already have had some experiences and especially how they finally took that step.

I'm curious myself but haven't done anything, a little nerves and a little waiting to to find a regular buddy (safe and discrete) for some JO and perhaps later some oral.
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CuriousGuyVa said:
This may have already been done before, but if I don't ask...

I'm interested in chatting with other guys who are curious and wanting to take the plunge, and those who already have had some experiences and especially how they finally took that step.

I'm curious myself but haven't done anything, a little nerves and a little waiting to to find a regular buddy (safe and discrete) for some JO and perhaps later some oral.
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love to chat long distance mwm 74 - experiences at 50 dream about another - would show
 
great your wife is your support - you are very lucky. for alot of reasons many must stay closeted. and many survive on fantasy - you seem to appreciate what you have - i would not jeopardize my relationship and of course i don't really consider masturbating to be cheating. but some probably do. it is a continuum of experiences. we are all somewhere on that. Regards
 
seniorrehaber said:
great your wife is your support - you are very lucky. for alot of reasons many must stay closeted. and many survive on fantasy - you seem to appreciate what you have - i would not jeopardize my relationship and of course i don't really consider masturbating to be cheating. but some probably do. it is a continuum of experiences. we are all somewhere on that. Regards
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I very much appreciate what I have. We have an open marriage and she has her playmates and I have mine too. Since we have each other's permission there is no cheating or sneaking or worrying about getting caught.
 
I myself have already had my dick sucked by a guy and fucked a guy but I’m curious as to kiss/make out with another guy, especially while we have sex. Would love to find another guy like me in the south ATL area
 
seniorrehaber said:
great your wife is your support - you are very lucky. for alot of reasons many must stay closeted. and many survive on fantasy - you seem to appreciate what you have - i would not jeopardize my relationship and of course i don't really consider masturbating to be cheating. but some probably do. it is a continuum of experiences. we are all somewhere on that. Regards
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I agree with what you said. There is a spectrum that people fall into when it comes to relationships... it reminds me of the old song by Garth Brooks "Standing outside the Fire". Morality and ethics aside, there isn't a cookie-cutter right or wrong, but what individually works. It comes down to a choice between reality and fantasy, and the acceptance of any consequences that is attached.
 
mygratisfaction said:
Okay, I've made the jump from bi-curious to bi-golly-I-like-this. Earlier this year, after a couple years of thinking about it, I contacted a man who had expressed a similar situation and disposition towards having a JO bud. First time was super-awkward but hot. Very much on the downlow btw. Second time, several weeks later, was less awkward and hotter! Another few weeks and we met again, traded blowjobs and WOW! I was addicted to cocksucking. Except I haven't had the opportunity to meet again and I don't want to be addicted to cocksucking. Hmmm, it is a hinky spot for me, not sure I want to continue because of my extreme enjoyment (might go off the deep end) or just call it an experience and cut off all contact.

You tell me, guys, how does that sound? Where are y'all at?
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Side cocksucking
 
Bi_Guy50 said:
I agree with what you said. There is a spectrum that people fall into when it comes to relationships... it reminds me of the old song by Garth Brooks "Standing outside the Fire". Morality and ethics aside, there isn't a cookie-cutter right or wrong, but what individually works. It comes down to a choice between reality and fantasy, and the acceptance of any consequences that is attached.
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Great post... that about sums up my feelings too...
 
I'm found it enjoyable reading others take on what they want being curious or bi, and what got them started here and in the PM's. There plenty of guys who do have more or less the same interests... only wish there were one or two close by.
 
Bi_Guy50 said:
I'm found it enjoyable reading others take on what they want being curious or bi, and what got them started here and in the PM's. There plenty of guys who do have more or less the same interests... only wish there were one or two close by.
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That was the purpose of this thread... and there seems to be many experienced and curious guys sharing their thoughts and desires.
 
Bi_Guy50 said:
I'm found it enjoyable reading others take on what they want being curious or bi, and what got them started here and in the PM's. There plenty of guys who do have more or less the same interests... only wish there were one or two close by.
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Where are you located?
 
TrailerHitch said:
I don't have to sneak or hide anything. My wife knows and supports my Bi side and my adventures with men. Sneaking and hiding and cheating always ends up in a shit storm that isn't worth it.
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My wife knew of my cock sucking desire and encouraged me to "just do it and get it out of your system" . When I did she wanted every dirty detail and wanted to watch next time. She loved watching me suck cock!
 
sandybrooke said:
My wife knew of my cock sucking desire and encouraged me to "just do it and get it out of your system" . When I did she wanted every dirty detail and wanted to watch next time. She loved watching me suck cock!
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I’m at the first part of that, my wife has said I have a green light to try a few things and get it over with. We’ll see what happens after I do.
 
SWR101 said:
I’m at the first part of that, my wife has said I have a green light to try a few things and get it over with. We’ll see what happens after I do.
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I got lucky and met a married guy that wanted to play. We became friends and had other interests other than sucking cock. He transferred to another city for work so that ended that.
 
sandybrooke said:
I got lucky and met a married guy that wanted to play. We became friends and had other interests other than sucking cock. He transferred to another city for work so that ended that.
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That’s cool, minus the moving
 
jimmyd1249 said:
another curious guy

im curious as well, never taken the plunge, very interested in it. also very nervous and excited about it. I would definitely want things to be discrete and am open to just about anything! pm if you wanna talk sometime.
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I travel and stop one time at an Adult Book store, I was just going to jerk it. This guy came in and just got on his knees and sucked me off and left. I felt weird about it for awhile, but it passed. 25years later I'm still enjoying men.
 
My experiences have been with one guy, a former roommate (we never played together until later after we both married), that have been very sporadic over the past 20 odd years. We live in different states so its difficult to get together.

I figured he would be my "one and only" same sex partner because I never thought I would be able to get up enough nerve to bring it up with anyone else. But then I found Lit, and for the past several years have read about, chatted with, and been turned on by many of you who have been able to admit you're interested in cock. I'm also looking for that oft-sought "friend with benefits" many of us have pined for, but so far, no luck.

I've PM'd, chatted, and texted with several Lit members, and even met one for drinks once, but so far, nothing has panned out. I suspect its comes down to two things: "drive" and "nerves."

Drive: I don't think it's uncommon for many of us to get really horny when we read about other cock-seekers, and imagine how cool it would be to be able to meet someone for some play time. I know it gets me excited to think about it. We read, we post, we PM and then we get off on our own, and we lose the drive to follow through with that chat thread, or email chain. Understandable. The urge comes and goes. Sometimes I go weeks at a time without logging onto Lit, but then when I do, I'm right back on the straight guys looking for cock threads and the cycle starts all over. The urge may wax and wane, but it ALWAYS comes back. Always.

Nerve: I'm equally sure many of us have engaged with others on the boards and chatted and gotten to the point where it's time to take the next step. And as fun as it is to fantasize about having that first experience, I think many times the realization that you're about to commit to facing another man (likely someone you've never met) and admitting you want to suck his cock (or more), scares the crap out of you. Also Understandable. I doubt I would ever have been able to cross that bridge of admitting I wanted to suck a cock AND admitting it in person to a stranger if my first experience hadn't been with a decade-old friend. But having gotten the cock-sucking butterflies out of the way with a friend, now it's just a matter of meeting someone I don't know, because I already knew I can follow through on the dick sucking :)

All this is just to say I think it's natural for us to struggle with "meeting up" with that person. And that sometimes we drop out of communication for lots of reasons. I lost my drive, and I"m not horny for cock right now. It was just a temporary thing, and I just want to fantasize about it, not really follow through. And then there's the holy shit, did I just agree to meet a guy and suck his cock? shock factor.

All I can say is I keep coming back to it. I've done it (not as often as I would have liked) and I enjoyed it. I want to do it again, and I'd like to have that FWB so it could be a somewhat regular thing. I'm am MWM who's wife isn't interested anymore. I live in the Hampton Roads area of Virginia. I'm a regular guy with a regular job and two kids who just happened to discover that sex with other men is fun and satisfying. PM me if that sounds like someone you'd like to learn more about. And if you're one of the several guys I"ve communicated with before, hit me up again. If we didn't connect before, could have just been the timing. Or the drive. Or nerves. All of those can be overcome :)
 
CuriousGuyVa said:
That was the purpose of this thread... and there seems to be many experienced and curious guys sharing their thoughts and desires.
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The curious usually do become experienced. And the thread that said his wife told him to get it out of his system, once it's in its in to stay.
 
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